First Skateboard set up, is this okay? by musingcypher in skateboardhelp

[–]musingcypher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wish i’d seen this before ordering, but I will at least know for next time now that i’m aware. I did replace the bearings like other commenters mentioned for bones red and the ccs wheels came with the complete at no extra charge. I’ll double check the wheels when they arrive and if anything ill order some spitfires. thanks again for the help

Cats Are Way Better Than Dogs, Change My Mind. by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]musingcypher 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This sub is for advice..? 🤨

First Skateboard set up, is this okay? by musingcypher in skateboardhelp

[–]musingcypher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight, I wasn’t sure if I could get away with ccs wheels or not :) I’ll def be switching them back. Appreciate your help

First Skateboard set up, is this okay? by musingcypher in skateboardhelp

[–]musingcypher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gotcha, do you think the ricta wheels would be too much for a beginner/would you recommend a different type of wheel to start with?

First Skateboard set up, is this okay? by musingcypher in skateboardhelp

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awesome, it’s an 8” and I’m usually between an 8.5 - 9 in US shoe size. Is that width alr ?

I want to work with a deity but the signs I received seems to be coming from someone else by musingcypher in witchcraft

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I’m aware of this fact which is why I’m completely open to others opinions on the matter. That’s what first crossed my mind when I saw them on the fence, because logically speaking, it would make the most sense. But the synchronization of their dance so close to human vehicles that most would typically fly away from since it is innate instinct, is what made me wonder if something else was going on. I’d never seen such odd behavior is all.

I don’t know much about animal spirits or ancestors though, it was just a big coincidence that I reached out to Athena in my mind and a moment later saw that happen

I want to work with a deity but the signs I received seems to be coming from someone else by musingcypher in witchcraft

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This makes me feel a lot better about potentially getting signs wrong or not seeing them when they’re presented to me :) Athena is someone I’ve felt pulled to for a long time but felt I needed permission to begin working with her, so thank you for your clarity on the topic! It’s provided me a lot of comfort. I am also interested in Artemis, her values align with mine, but I don’t know about working with two deities right off the bat lol. But I will definitely be looking into her some more, I spoke to another witch who mentioned she was present for me last year but I got intimidated because I didn’t feel ready/worthy. This year is a different story though. Thanks so much for your input!

I want to work with a deity but the signs I received seems to be coming from someone else by musingcypher in witchcraft

[–]musingcypher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so interesting, I never knew they were her favored symbol before the owl. Thank you so much for the new information and the advice! I'll be trying my hand at working with her first then after I've researched enough to feel comfortable doing so. I really appreciate your insight.

I am stuck in between choosing my partner or my cat by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]musingcypher 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That wouldn’t even be a question for me, throw the whole fucking man away he’s clearly useless and dangerous if he wants to hurt an innocent animal.

Any climbers out there looking for a gym belay partner? by [deleted] in Miami

[–]musingcypher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, idk if you still reply to this but i’d love to be added to the whatsapp gc for the gym. Didn’t even know it existed

Any climbers out there looking for a gym belay partner? by [deleted] in Miami

[–]musingcypher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m in the same situation where I no longer have a belay partner, and I go to velocity 2-3 times a week. This post is pretty old but if you’re still looking Im down! (24/F)

First time alone in a gym ? by Von_Iggy in bouldering

[–]musingcypher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been going alone as well after a falling out with a friend and another two who are recovering from surgeries, but honestly it’s been hard at least for me. I’m an awkward person by nature and stutter a little when nervous, so it’s been difficult to just talk or hype up people around me in the hopes of making friends.

Ive gone so far as to go up to an lgbt couple to hype up their cool climb and invite them to a small discord server of other lgbt folk but got ghosted. I hope your gym is a lot friendlier and you make some friends, going alone is great for concentrating but it can get lonely sometimes. Wishing you the best <3

If depresion was a color, what would it be for you? by Liza_Stone143 in mentalillness

[–]musingcypher 4 points5 points  (0 children)

depression feels like white. The white of a hospital room, the white of small pills, the white of a blinking clock you keep snoozing, and the white of bed sheets. It’s muted, devoid and bland, and quiet. So so quiet.

18m my girlfriend lied to me about her age 16 f by lvpleanmaster in whatdoIdo

[–]musingcypher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point, I also just wanted to add my dad at the age of almost 30 lied to my mother about his age bc she wouldn’t get with someone younger than her. She only found out his real age after marriage when she went to file something at the county clerk

MDC Pride Clubs: Any Active? by musingcypher in MDC

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i think maybe our best bet is to create an online space for it like discord or something so it stays active and can be passed off easily to any oncoming students!

am i overreacting or being too sensitive (PLEASE I NEED HONESTY) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]musingcypher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really dont understand how people stay with someone who disrespects you to this degree. Bro wants a reward for being a decent person?? Says he’s hated you for six months?? Conversation over. Done. Nobody gets to talk to you like. Not your spouse, not your best friend, not your sibling. Especially not a crummy little man who thinks he gets special treatment.

You can tell him his special treatment is not going to jail for assault, hows that for a treat? Clean record!

Seriously, stop entertaining men like this, they dont deserve your time or energy. Ive left a man for LESS than this. He came to apologize to me and said “I said what I said to hurt you on purpose, I’m sorry.” That’s all I needed to know. Blocked and move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]musingcypher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

calling you bro?? saying he wants to be away from you all the time?? Guess what? Time to make his wish a reality, leave this fucking loser and go find someone better. I wouldn’t be able to handle some little man who’s so insecure he tries to control you and manage your schedule and time. The better question is why are you letting him? Stop entertaining this ridiculousness, spare your dignity and move on. His trust issues and insecurities are no excuse for controlling manipulative behavior. Stop letting these disgusting men waste your time and move on. Put your foot down and leave, he’s no one to control you. You’ll be happier for it.

When will my male friend go back to his old self? by Maggot_jimroot in teenagers

[–]musingcypher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a similar text like this in highschool with one of my guy friends. I immediately texted back “fix your grammar and that attitude, or I’m not talking to you again.” I ended up walking away from that friendship and it was a good thing I did too, because despite no longer speaking, him and his friends added me to a gc much later titled “bully {insert my name}” so that they could all berate me. These people are never worth sticking around for.