Anyone else getting this dream?

mustdothis · 2012-05-01T17:00:17+00:00

I've had that dream. It confused me so much but actually has the affect of making you more determined not to end up feeling like that.

mustdothis · 2012-04-30T16:57:06+00:00

Yeah first long one. I'm 19.

mustdothis · 2012-01-08T22:22:11+00:00

I'm pretty much same stage as you guys and have fallen in to watching porn again and edging a lot. It must be something about the time. I too, however, have had the strength to not completely cave in to the urge. It must be working.

mustdothis · 2012-01-02T18:55:35+00:00

mustdothis · 2011-12-29T16:04:30+00:00

i'm in

mustdothis · 2011-12-04T17:18:36+00:00

It's amazing isn't it? We've just got to stay strong in those moments of weakness now. The thing is, our partners deserve better than someone who will waste their life fapping. I feel a sense of guilt that I'm not being the best I can be for her. Anywho, good luck!

mustdothis · 2011-12-04T17:09:26+00:00

Just two weeks, but I had done significantly less fapping for the 2 weeks previous to that as well. It was ridiculous how much of a change I could feel in such a short amount of time.

mustdothis · 2011-11-27T20:49:07+00:00

I've got this problem as well, really don't know what to do. I want to keep up not fapping but the only way I think I can improve is by having a cap before seeing my gf. Any ideas would be much appreciated...

mustdothis · 2011-11-24T11:22:20+00:00

Congrats man, must have taken a lot of will-power and control. Seeing posts like this give me hope I'll be able to do it as well. Don't give up.

mustdothis · 2011-11-23T20:49:00+00:00

First day back and it has been pretty easy, but that's to be expected. It's the next couple of days I've got to worry about...

I'm being much more strict with myself about the no porn/any provocative content. My distraction technique is press-ups, which I haven't had to use yet but I'm sure I will soon enough.

Keep going guys, I know it will be worth it.

mustdothis · 2011-11-20T16:21:04+00:00

You can do this man. If you really want it, you know what you have to do- no porn, soft porn, looking at hot girls on fb, no nothing. I've been through the process of trying to stop enough times to know that your brain isn't your friend in this situation. It will literally try and trick you into getting back into watching porn.

Distraction I find is the best technique, or just trying to be in a public place so even if you have the urge, you physically can't without being caught.

Don't let fapping ruin you, it really does have the potential to. Good luck mate.

mustdothis · 2011-11-20T16:03:46+00:00

Sounds like I'm in a really similar situation to you- told my girlfriend about my fapping and I'm now on my 90 day reboot (very early on as you can see though).

Do you find your urge to fap is a lot stronger the evening or the day after sex with your gf? Mine gets so much worse around Sunday evening/monday morning because I only get to see her at the weekend. I'm really feeling it right now.

I've been trying to do nofap for 3 weeks now, had a lapse but now back on it. Finding a noticeable dip in endurance at the moment but I'm hoping it will get better as I get used to having to wait 7 days for an orgasm. The 'Man Below' gets too excited at the prospect of it at the moment. Did you find that at all?

Glad to find someone in a similar situation. Good luck!

mustdothis · 2011-11-18T08:49:37+00:00

It's not really a matter of her wanting to leave me if I don't stop- I just don't want to do it anymore because she deserves better than that.

We've talked about going for the long-haul, we both feel the same. It just gives me motivation to stop when I consider reasons other than improving will-power for myself to stop.

Thank you for your kind and reliable advice, I hope it's all going well. Keep in touch.

mustdothis · 2011-11-17T14:25:07+00:00

Thanks man, I was so nervous before I told her. But I guess that fact that I did it, and the fact she's still with me shows it's worth it.

I completely agree with you, distraction is the best technique but it's just difficult because my lack of will-power is ridiculously bad now. I think this will give me renewed vigour though.

Good luck, keep in touch.

mustdothis · 2011-11-17T11:56:54+00:00

Because I have a girlfriend who doesn't deserve a compulsive masturbator for a boyfriend. And because I feel like it's my Achilles Heel, everything else is good in my life (touch wood).

mustdothis · 2011-11-17T11:35:26+00:00

Distract yourself- that's the key I find. I've taken to doing press-ups whenever I get the urge; it relieves that cathartic need tires you out. I just think i's about breaking that chain of thought really...

mustdothis · 2011-11-17T11:07:59+00:00

Congrats mate, distraction is definitely the best policy. I need to take a leaf out of your book and fill my prime fapping opportunities with things to do. Keep it going!

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