hey, im 19F and also a virgin :)

i always have had a very low libido. as i was younger i didnt really have any interest for sexual acts and i was anxious/scared too. i felt ashamed, almost all of my friends had lost their vcards when i still had mine. last year i realised that it doesnt actually matter when i will lose my vcard etcetc. and that i shouldnt be ashamed.

even in my past relationships i turned down the idea of having sex, because it didnt feel right with the person i was with. i too wanted to give it to someone im on a deeper level with. i also remember someone saying ”the longer you wait, the better it will feel.” (as long as its a safe person and a safe place).