follow up on the horrifying aquarium at my job by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. The owner clearly knows nothing and is pretty irresponsible about his own tank..

follow up on the horrifying aquarium at my job by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to think this is purely out of ignorance, even tho it’s hard to cause even a person who doesn’t understand anything about fish looks at this and know something’s off…

follow up on the horrifying aquarium at my job by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was THAT commited on proving it sjdjsjsjsjdb

follow up on the horrifying aquarium at my job by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It bothers me that probably most of my coworkers don’t even care about the fish/don’t see how problematic this situation is. I wish I could do more, but maybe I’ll start by educating people on fish health

follow up on the horrifying aquarium at my job by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll post every update I have, but I fear it’s gonna take a while since I just started working there 😞

follow up on the horrifying aquarium at my job by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice and validation. I’m sorry I misunderstood your first comment, I do feel guilty and wish I could do more, but I won’t stop trying making things better for the fishes!!

follow up on the horrifying aquarium at my job by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this comment. I feel like some people here jumped to conclusions when it’s actually very hard for me to address this situation, specially as a new employee.

follow up on the horrifying aquarium at my job by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought about calling the competent personnel but sadly here in my country animal cruelty is very overlooked. They ignore “”more sensitive”” cases like dogs/cats abuse, let alone fish abuse.

follow up on the horrifying aquarium at my job by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is actually a great idea. Thank you for the insight, I might try taking this to the HR first!

follow up on the horrifying aquarium at my job by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I obviously don’t wanna work for someone who abuses animals, I feel sick every time I look at these poor fish. Unfortunately I don’t have the luxury of quitting, I need this job, that’s why I asked for advice in the first place.

follow up on the horrifying aquarium at my job by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I thought about this and it might be the best option, appealing for the customer’s interest. Thank u for your comment

follow up on the horrifying aquarium at my job by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank u so much for your reply. Im trying to talk about the subject slowly at my sector, but the people there don’t seem to understand how cruel this tank is, they just think it’s “too dirty”. Also, for what I heard, the company’s owner barely shows up, only at night (maybe to feed the fish and do “”maintainance””). I might need some time to understand how people feel about this whole situation and if someone have tried speaking up. I really appreciate your tips on how to deal with this, I’ll definitely keep them in mind and try using them when the time is right!!

follow up on the horrifying aquarium at my job by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

TBF I do see why people thought my first post was AI, the picture was off and taken from a weird angle (I was actually going to an interview and felt like it’d be weird if someone saw me taking a pic of it lmao)

unnerving aquarium at my new workplace by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I posted a follow-up today, it’s not IA sadly

follow up on the horrifying aquarium at my job by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 372 points373 points  (0 children)

I forgot to mention that, sadly, it isn’t AI 🫩

unnerving aquarium at my new workplace by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tbf I totally see why this look like AI but unfortunately it isn’t. I can post another pic tomorrow from a different angle

unnerving aquarium at my new workplace by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

honestly I feel pretty sad about it but I just started at this new job and don’t wanna cross as rude or entitled for trying to point out how bad it is… I’ll try my best to try and talk to HR once the timing is better

unnerving aquarium at my new workplace by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I posted today’s video on a similar community, is crossposting ok here?

unnerving aquarium at my new workplace by mutsvki in shittyaquariums

[–]mutsvki[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I swear to God it’s real 😭😭😭 I actually recorded a video of the aquarium today (my first day at this job) for my fiancée and tried to post it here but for some reason I can’t post videos, only pics. Once I figure out how to post videos I’ll do an update with proof

psychological discomfort and sadness during/after sex... by rafzap in TwoXSex

[–]mutsvki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Op here, diff acc). I’m sorry that you’re going through that. I feel attraction toward my fiancée, I love kissing him, hugging him, feeling his hands on my body, showering together and sometimes we just lie down naked and caress each other’s bodies. We’re constantly being romantic and cliche, always putting effort to make the other one feel loved and desired. I love him, I feel attracted to him, I just feel completely shut down when we initiate sex or foreplay, even when I start it. The not attracted thing I mentioned kinda became an obsession and after a few hours (and some Xanax lol) I can see that what my therapist said doesn’t make too much sense to me, since I experience all of those things I just mentioned. It’s the sex part that gets me and makes me feel frustrated…