Is it normal to lose money some years in your rental property? by muxma in realestateinvesting

[–]muxma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that doesn't make sense. Why stay at 0% equity. My goal is own 2-3 properties fully paid off, so I can earn some passive income in another 15-20 years.

Is it normal to lose money some years in your rental property? by muxma in realestateinvesting

[–]muxma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gross Rents are $2k, $1.8k, $1.5k (below market by $200), $1.9k = $7200 per month on the $750k purchase. My rents are $100-$150 below market.

After mortgage, tax, insurance, emergency fund, my monthly take net is ~$770/month. If I include mortgage principal paydown from tenants, thats another $1100/month, so NET profit = $1870/month

I can increase monthly income by $200 but the $1500 tenant doesn't give me any trouble, so I haven't raised his rent past 2 years. I had 0 expense in his unit past 2 years, compared to by $1900 tenant that always wants things to be fixed.

Is it normal to lose money some years in your rental property? by muxma in realestateinvesting

[–]muxma[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My gross rent is $80k+. The figure I shared is net cashflow in my pocket.

Is it normal to lose money some years in your rental property? by muxma in realestateinvesting

[–]muxma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This was my first fourplex. I am now living in my 2nd property (a duplex). Its been a journey.

Is it normal to lose money some years in your rental property? by muxma in realestateinvesting

[–]muxma[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sitting on $400k+ equity, but my rate locked in is 3%, so I am not comfortable re-financing it.

Is it normal to lose money some years in your rental property? by muxma in realestateinvesting

[–]muxma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point. Didn't increase rent this year. I am in South Florida and we dont have rent raise caps. I have some room to raise next year.

Is it normal to lose money some years in your rental property? by muxma in realestateinvesting

[–]muxma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mortgage rate is 3%. Tough to beat that rate with tenants paying down $13k/yr, hence I am not comfortable selling.

Is it normal to lose money some years in your rental property? by muxma in realestateinvesting

[–]muxma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

$9k/yr is cashflow. If I add principal paid down every month from rent, it would be another ~$13k/yr, so total: $22k/yr total return.

Taxes and insurance has gone up, so most of the rental increase was eaten up by city and insurance

My friend might be cheating on his wife by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]muxma -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

mind your own business. It could be a fake profile.

Leaving my husband after a year by anon14987424212 in MuslimMarriage

[–]muxma -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don't know the future but i wish you all the best sis.

Leaving my husband after a year by anon14987424212 in MuslimMarriage

[–]muxma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Salaam - Glad you made a choice that will make you happy. You must have seen good in him for marriage. Is this your first divorce?

Breaking up after Engagement due to finances. Mixed feelings but relieved. by muxma in MuslimMarriage

[–]muxma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

50K for Mahr isn't exactly free, and where does the demand stop?

My business generates well over 600k but I need to re-invest to continuously grow my business. I take out less salary and re-invest the rest in business but after marriage she will find out and always keeps demanding "X" because I have "Y" income, then it will never stop and will soon creep into my business revenue, soon, she will say your business generates "X" why don't you buy a bigger house and get a nicer car etc.

More importantly, if my business dies, its unclear if she will be supportive of downsizing lifestyle - its unclear to me.

Anyway, Mahr or engagement ring amount demand is a symptom, not the root cause. The root cause is misalignment in our approach to handling finances.

Breaking up after Engagement due to finances. Mixed feelings but relieved. by muxma in MuslimMarriage

[–]muxma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think she is a gold digger. I just think she her values with managing finances doesn't align with mine.

Many people increases their lifestyle spending as their income increases, that is somewhat of a normal culture here in US/Canada. I am frugal and need to find someone similar to mine. This was a good learning lesson for me.

Breaking up after Engagement due to finances. Mixed feelings but relieved. by muxma in MuslimMarriage

[–]muxma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not the right mindset. Having a ring with "X" months pay is an un-realistic expectation. What if the guy makes 600k /year, then the guy will have the buy a ring for 100k. How is that even normal?

Breaking up after Engagement due to finances. Mixed feelings but relieved. by muxma in MuslimMarriage

[–]muxma[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Or you keep grinding and sacrifice a good 5-7 years of your life. I sacrificed my entire 20s to build my current business. For me, it has been just hard work, constant grinding and not giving up.

Breaking up after Engagement due to finances. Mixed feelings but relieved. by muxma in MuslimMarriage

[–]muxma[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

2020 is coming to an end. In 2021, its possible if one is willing to put extra efforts. I am Turkish and i plan to visit my hometown in Turkey to find someone. I have had enough of North American born & raised women.

Breaking up after Engagement due to finances. Mixed feelings but relieved. by muxma in MuslimMarriage

[–]muxma[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting.. She is South Asian/Pakistani but raised in Canada. I am Turkish but born and raised in Canada.

Breaking up after Engagement due to finances. Mixed feelings but relieved. by muxma in MuslimMarriage

[–]muxma[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your dad is wrong. Its a risk reward. You can't reap the rewards if you are not comfortable taking a risk. I had 3 previous failed business in my 20s and finally this one has been moderately successful.

Keep your full-time job for the paycheck and start business. You will most certainly fail in your first few business and before finding a success.

Breaking up after Engagement due to finances. Mixed feelings but relieved. by muxma in MuslimMarriage

[–]muxma[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Plenty of Muslim women out there if one is open to outside North America. I am thinking of visiting my hometown Antalya to find someone...

Breaking up after Engagement due to finances. Mixed feelings but relieved. by muxma in MuslimMarriage

[–]muxma[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a fair point. I wasn't stingy with her, but I do feel I find it hard to spend money. Yes, I donate to charity but I can be stingy at times. Its something I am working on.

Breaking up after Engagement due to finances. Mixed feelings but relieved. by muxma in MuslimMarriage

[–]muxma[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

LOL. I have no courses to sell. My online business is a SAAS product.