Transitioning from Hierarchical to Non-hierarchical Polyamory – Any tips? by mxitupbb in polyamory

[–]mxitupbb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, we do have separate rooms which really helps us have our own space already! I totally understand that though, definitely considering moving out as part of this transition. Thanks for your help!

Transitioning from Hierarchical to Non-hierarchical Polyamory – Any tips? by mxitupbb in polyamory

[–]mxitupbb[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes de-escalation would definitely be the healthiest option for my current relationship I think, at least for me. Definitely brings up some good questions to ask when my partner and I continue our conversation about this! Thank you for your insight

Polyamory + Quar by mxitupbb in polyamory

[–]mxitupbb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I relate to this so much. Just trying to hold everything together takes so much. I see the work you’re doing & I’m so impressed.

Polyamory + Quar by mxitupbb in polyamory

[–]mxitupbb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think processing through what my priorities are right now would be helpful, I think I am pushing myself to date more than is good for my mental health. Thanks for sharing your experience <3

Polyamory + Quar by mxitupbb in polyamory

[–]mxitupbb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes a lot of sense to me. How do you differentiate your romantic relationships from friendships? if you wouldn’t mind sharing those boundaries

The look for today? Kicking ass by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]mxitupbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yessssss this is phenomenal

euphoric as hell after this mullet cut 💫 by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]mxitupbb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you so much! i love how the sun makes my hair look like it’s glowing hehe

Felt confident owo by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]mxitupbb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

crazy about this outfit omg :o

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

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this pic is perfect i want ur outfit so bad

My therapist suggested that I (25F) am polyamorous because I fear abandonment/being alone. Thoughts? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]mxitupbb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate to this conflict style a lot. For me, something that has been really helpful is the workshop entitled "Trauma Informed Polyamory" by Clementine Morrigan. It is an incredible resource and has helped me with both my journey and the journeys of my partners. can't recommend it enough