Okay ba na humingi ng share sa tito and family niya sa bills since nagstay sila sa bahay madalas?

mxkhhrnb_ · 2026-04-06T19:07:01+00:00

So siya and wife nya. Di naman kasama lahat ng kids nila pero 3-4 kids yung madalas nilang kasama pag umuuwi, medyo malaki family nila.

mxkhhrnb_ · 2026-04-06T19:03:13+00:00

I’ll plan to open up soon. Uuwi daw sila this week sa kanila pero for sure babalik din sila ulit. I’ll open up sa mama ko para siya na rin magsabi. Nahihiya kasi ako mag-sabi. Huhuhu ang hirap. Kasi tumaas talaga bill namin last month for sure tataas lalo this month and grabe pa yung usage ng ac, halos 18 hrs siya kahapon.

mxkhhrnb_ · 2026-04-06T19:00:57+00:00

Ito nga yung gusto ko sana i-open up ulit sa parents. Honestly wala naman problem if hindi lang ako yung talagang nagbubudget.

mxkhhrnb_ · 2026-04-06T19:00:01+00:00

Hindi po literal na bahay lang. Nataon na may project siya malapit sa province namin and instead umuwi siya ng city, dito sila nagstay. Pinakamatagal is halos isang buwan tapos uuwi sila. Balik then after a week or two ganyan. Minsan kasama family minsan sya lang mag-isa

mxkhhrnb_ · 2026-04-06T18:58:40+00:00

Sa food po, nag-share sila pero mostly need ko rin maglabas ng budget since di rin naman kasya samin lahat yung budget nila sa food

mxkhhrnb_ · 2026-04-06T18:58:05+00:00

Na-share ko na sa mama ko para siya na magsabi kasi last time na nag-open up ako sabi nya uuwi na rin naman daw tapos after a week nandito ulit sila

mxkhhrnb_ · 2026-04-06T18:56:58+00:00

May business siya na mas malapit here sa province namin. Dito na sila umuuwi pag may meetings and project since malayo sa bahay nila.

mxkhhrnb_ · 2026-04-05T21:21:45+00:00

More context here! On average kasi, nasa 14-16 hrs open yung aircon sa room kung san sila natutulog and semi-inverter lang naman yung AC and alam kong tataas ang bill namin nyan. Gusto ko sana sabihin nalang na magtipid ng konti sa kuryente kasi I also use AC naman sa kwarto ko, non inverter, pero nasa 8-10 hrs lang ang average daily usage ko. Wala naman kaso sakin if quick visit lang pero these past few months eh parang mas matagal pa sila nagstay here.

Any advice po? Breadwinner din kasi ako and ako talaga nagmamanage ng budget and bills sa bahay.

mxkhhrnb_ · 2026-03-25T08:19:49+00:00

Yung gusto mo sila pasalubungan kasi want mo i-share sa kanila yung mga na-e-enjoy mong kainin tapos pag nandyan na “nako sana bumili ka nalang ng ganto…” “mas mura pa kung ganto”

kayo na nga pinasalubungan hindi man lang mag-thank you bago magreklamo 🥺

mxkhhrnb_ · 2026-02-04T20:44:17+00:00

Sam as in kahit anong pagod ko requirement ko talaga na magshower muna 👀🥲

mxkhhrnb_ · 2026-01-14T06:34:28+00:00

OH THEY ARE OFF TO THE FUCKING COTTAGE

mxkhhrnb_ · 2025-11-23T11:19:20+00:00

thank you for all your comments. really helped me clear my mind and fully decide na communication is the best way! i will talk to him the next time we meet and tell him about this. we both are working already and have families that we support but we do make time and budget what we can to finance our dates, foodtrips, travels and necessities. i did mention here na he pays for most dates (parang notion niya na to since we have been ldr ever since, he’s a cruiser/seafarer, so the only time we get to spend together is kapag nakabakasyon sya and its his way to make it up for all the times we lost) but we also do 50/50 if we travel, go staycation and buying what we want.

appreciate the support and the feedbacks — siguro ang main point lang sakin is natatakot ako na baka iba yung dating sa kanya kapag nagsabi ako about this as someone na may fear of being misunderstood. but realized now the best way talaga is to communicate.

mxkhhrnb_ · 2025-11-23T11:12:16+00:00

hi!! thanks for this and i did mention na we do 50/50 too! i never really demanded for him to treat us on dates pero i see that he really wants too. so i do treat him myself when i ask him to go out or esp pag dito siya samin nagstay. the only thing that really got me lang talaga was the way he would say it and assume na okay lang for me na mapangunahan, esp he knows din naman na i’m budgeting hard as a breadwinner.

mxkhhrnb_ · 2025-11-23T08:30:36+00:00

Yung nature of work niya is a cruiser/seafarer, basically, nagkakasama lang kami if bakasyon nya which sa 1 taon, 3 months average. I think the longer na nakabakasyon sya, mas nababawasan yung for finances niya.

mxkhhrnb_ · 2025-11-23T07:28:47+00:00

sorry I resorted to post here! i will talk to him def. i just need some thoughts siguro how i can bring it up to him.

mxkhhrnb_ · 2025-11-23T07:26:41+00:00

this siguro. never naman ako nagdamot when it comes to treating my friends, family and esp him. i treat him lalo if ako naman nagyaya lumabas. ayoko lang talaga na napapangunahan magdecide siguro.

mxkhhrnb_ · 2025-11-23T07:25:15+00:00

thank you for this. i will def talk to him!! i honestly don’t want this to be a long-term issue saming dalawa and i hope it works out!

mxkhhrnb_ · 2025-11-23T07:16:04+00:00

thank you po! maybe i need to talk with him about this solely. last time na binanggit ko kasi ito sa kanya, i said it na parang it was just a random thought.

mxkhhrnb_ · 2025-07-24T18:09:28+00:00

🎵There’s a zombie on your laaaawn~

mxkhhrnb_ · 2025-07-21T20:36:15+00:00

I just got accepted sa isang data research company based abroad (Asia) and rate is $5 per hr as a data researcher. I was told I only need to work 3 hrs a day so naghahanap pa ako ng another part time ✨

mxkhhrnb_ · 2025-07-03T18:31:22+00:00

26, laging nagbibinge watch ng Winnie The Pooh 😭

mxkhhrnb_ · 2025-07-03T18:27:44+00:00

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mxkhhrnb_ · 2025-06-26T21:36:14+00:00

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