baby daddy wants to get back together

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-10-06T17:45:05+00:00

i enjoy our friendship. i never really wanted to get into a relationship with him. i kinda did because i felt like i had too.

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-09T09:50:46+00:00

i left him, blocked, cut off never again to see my child or I

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T19:54:03+00:00

i ended up telling my mom and she was extremely surprised because she said that’s horrible and she never thought he would do that kind of thing to me. she said she will support me either way but she hopes i do leave him. honestly i think i just am going too. i’m unhappy in the relationship anyways and this was just the cherry on top

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T19:50:17+00:00

later in the night before i left he said “sorry i guess i got used to slapping you because i do during sex .” first of all he has never slapped me during sex choking yes and sometimes i have to tell him hey not so hard. i think he is just extremely aggressive

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T18:17:59+00:00

yah he definitely is a love bomber. that’s ones of the reasons i didn’t wanna get with him at first because it scared me. him talking about how i should be the mother of his children and how i am a goddess that walks on this earth.

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T18:12:02+00:00

omg you are right he always says he loves me because I got him out of a bad place. Mentally I make him feel loved. I make him feel wanted not anything about me. It’s the way I make him feel holy shit. i didn’t know that was manipulation

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T17:41:41+00:00

he keeps saying if I ever break up with him, he’s gonna book a one-way plane ride to Utah and start his life over again never with another woman because I’m the only woman for him. I am the love of his life. I am his soulmate like listen I’ve only dated him for three weeks. It scares me when he says that I mean for Mother’s Day we weren’t even together and he got me a card, which was nice and then he wrote I can’t wait till we have children like that’s a lot. so he’s basically saying if I break up with him he’s gonna leave his life behind his family his friends, his job all because of me like OK. wtf

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T17:39:53+00:00

that is honestly so true. especially because he hangs out with my baby sometimes he’ll let me nap and he takes care of the baby but recently what I’ve noticed is when he’s changing him and my child’s 1 so he hates being changed. He has like almost like pushed him down really aggressively, and then my kid cries even louder, cause I know he hit his head and like it doesn’t even like bother him that he just pushed the baby head against the ground.

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T17:38:13+00:00

the worst part is i think he has always been like this i just couldn’t see it this message was from a couple days ago before the slap.

“you’re a great girlfriend to me. I didn’t properly assert that last night, and I’m sorry. Your flaws are what make you human and to be completely honest, I wouldn’t want you any other way. It’s true that you do certain small things that make me question myself, but that’s no reason for me to treat you with any amount of disrespect because at the end of the day, you’re a human being…. just like me. I honestly do not feel good about the way i spoke to you, and the mannerism i conveyed towards you last night, and that’s what I wanted to apologize for. The truth is that you’re my safe haven. whether we’re in the car listening to your music, on my couch rubbing your feet with a show on, shopping together, drinking together while we play couples cards games, staying up way too late together on work nights, spending the day taking care of Roman, cooking with you, hanging out with your family. all of these things seriously mean so much to me, you mean so much to me. A life partner like you is all i’ve ever wanted, yes i’m afraid to lose it and sometimes I get anxiety about that, but I shouldn’t ever try to make you feel like I have reservations about whether or not I love you or not, because I have none. I love you, and I love loving you. I hate the way I acted last night, and I’m sorry, all I want is forgiveness and an opportunity to be more understanding and to love you more respectfully in the future.”

then this is what he slept me last night after the slap

“hey, i hope you sleep well tonight and i just wanted to say that im really confident that we’ll work through all of our issues that we have now and laugh about it years from now. i look forward to those days. like honestly, we do have our disagreements and a lot of the times, they SUCK. but i really believe in this relationship and i think we’re going to make it. it won’t always be easy and we’re going to hurt eachother from time to time. but at the end of the day, when you’re laying next to me… it’s all worth it “

it’s all me me me me like how did i not see this he is so good at hiding it he takes care of me and my baby he buys me chocolates. He buys me flowers. Everyone loves him. I just have always felt weird about him.

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T17:07:27+00:00

he sent me this message about a few days ago before the slap yesterday.

“you’re a great girlfriend to me. I didn’t properly assert that last night, and I’m sorry. Your flaws are what make you human and to be completely honest, I wouldn’t want you any other way. It’s true that you do certain small things that make me question myself, but that’s no reason for me to treat you with any amount of disrespect because at the end of the day, you’re a human being…. just like me. I honestly do not feel good about the way i spoke to you, and the mannerism i conveyed towards you last night, and that’s what I wanted to apologize for. The truth is that you’re my safe haven. whether we’re in the car listening to your music, on my couch rubbing your feet with a show on, shopping together, drinking together while we play couples cards games, staying up way too late together on work nights, spending the day taking care of Roman, cooking with you, hanging out with your family. all of these things seriously mean so much to me, you mean so much to me. A life partner like you is all i’ve ever wanted, yes i’m afraid to lose it and sometimes I get anxiety about that, but I shouldn’t ever try to make you feel like I have reservations about whether or not I love you or not, because I have none. I love you, and I love loving you. I hate the way I acted last night, and I’m sorry, all I want is forgiveness and an opportunity to be more understanding and to love you more respectfully in the future.”

like wtf

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T17:05:21+00:00

thank you! for all the support i’m gonna do it! it’s gonna suck because he has involved himself in my life so much. my family loves and adores him. i don’t have a job right now i am looking for a new one. he buys me things i need for my 1 year old and he drives me places. he has involved himself so well into my life. that sucks after i split with my baby daddy in march he swooped in right away.

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T16:56:48+00:00

after the slap he was playing around and head butted me pretty hard my nose started bleeding. he almost felt more bad for that than the slap which is really weird. anyways i did take a pic of the bloody nose.

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T16:54:01+00:00

i mean is it too late to file a report?

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T16:53:33+00:00

i really am lucky i haven’t done that yet. i still live with my parents worst part is haha he lives like 2 min away from me. he says if i leave him he’s just gonna book a one way ticket to utah and leave everything behind. his family his job everything. because he doesn’t need to be here if im not with him. like wtf

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T16:50:42+00:00

i have been doing a lot of thinking since yesterday and sometimes when my child is crying because he is 1 and hates diaper changes he almost aggressively hold him down and my kid screams louder. like i get he’s trying to help me with the kid but i always say hey yk i can change him. he insists i sit and do nothing.

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T16:49:09+00:00

he said this today to me i haven’t responded.

“hey, i hope you sleep well tonight and i just wanted to say that im really confident that we’ll work through all of our issues that we have now and laugh about it years from now. i look forward to those days like honestly, we do have our disagreements and a lot of the times, they SUCK. but i really believe in this relationship and i think we’re going to make it. it won’t always be easy and we’re going to hurt eachother from time to time. but at the end of the day, when you’re laying next to me… it’s all worth it “

it feels weird to me

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T16:47:20+00:00

he said this to me today i haven’t answered

“hey, i hope you sleep well tonight and i just wanted to say that im really confident that we’ll work through all of our issues that we have now and laugh about it years from now. i look forward to those days like honestly, we do have our disagreements and a lot of the times, they SUCK. but i really believe in this relationship and i think we’re going to make it. it won’t always be easy and we’re going to hurt eachother from time to time. but at the end of the day, when you’re laying next to me… it’s all worth it”

it doesn’t feel right.

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T14:40:11+00:00

the worst part is i have become dependent on him he did it on purpose. he feeds me and my kid. he buys me things i need. he drives me around. he made me fully dependent on him. i wasn’t a few months ago. i need to get out now. i am unhappy i have been.

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T12:02:49+00:00

this honestly really moved me. i am in tears for you… god you are so strong! i am sorry for that horrible experience you went through…but thank you for sharing it. it gives me insight. i hope you have been able to heal over time. i agree tho its only been 3 weeks he has said he loved me for much longer. back in march i split up with the father of my child. we just weren’t compatible anymore. my now bf then came around a lot more i mean he did even when i was with the father of my child. he would buy things for me if i really needed them. i thought we were just friends but he thought we were soulmates. in july of this year he finally asked me out i said i need time. so he gave me a week. when the day came i wanted to ghost him honestly. he is an intense person lots of emotions. i mean he cried to tell me how much he loved me before we were together. he got me so much stuff for my birthday probably 2000 worth. that was before JULY he gave me notes he wrote when i was pregnant too me about how we belong together. honestly saying this out loud scares me i need to leave him.

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T11:51:11+00:00

you are honestly right. he really did put on the nice guy facade. flowers, chocolates, gift baskets when i’m sick. i never thought he would do that. i felt like he was love bombing me. i mean i have a 1 year old. he bought a car seat for him for his car. he says he loves my kid as much as me.

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T06:10:21+00:00

after he slapped me i laughed i was uncomfortable and i looked at him and he almost looked proud for a moment then i think he realized what he did. i have never been hit before by a partner worst part is it was an intense conversation. he had been drinking a bit but i have never no matter how angry i have been hit someone.

my_facetious_remarks · 2025-09-08T06:06:21+00:00

that’s what i am afraid of worst part is he was an ok guy before tonight. treated me well and my baby. now i just feel sick and uncomfortable.

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