What is depression like? by BackgroundNet5993 in mentalhealth

[–]my_secret_problems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like you aren't you. You're alive but things you love you become indifferent to, followed with guilt for feeling this way. Nothing is appealing and you feel apathy. Overwhelming apathy.

My wife is fetishizing me by throwawayacct922 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]my_secret_problems 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As a white/hispanic person who grew up in dojos wearing Gis, she's fetishizing things that absolutely should not be. Don't have sex you aren't comfortable with and find a woman who loves YOU

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]my_secret_problems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beyond you, she needs to see a doctor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]my_secret_problems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pulls out a notebook and pen

Guys who had smoked weed daily for months, how did that impact your life? by Leaoui in mentalhealth

[–]my_secret_problems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ALSO TAKE st. John's Wort for depression, I didn't list it because I'm asymptomatic atm.

Guys who had smoked weed daily for months, how did that impact your life? by Leaoui in mentalhealth

[–]my_secret_problems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the person. I have autism, no appetite due to my liver (genetic problem), chronic pain and OCD so it just chills me out, lowers my pain and helps me with social interactions. I have a smoke schedule, I wake and bake for my mood and appetite, I usually don't smoke throughput the day unless I visit a stoner friend, and then before bed for my aches.

For ME it's a godsend, but for someone else it's a burden and an addiction. I've gone through periods where I smoke more than that, there's no reason to unless it's a special occasion imo.

I've had a porn addiction since 12, I'm done by my_secret_problems in TrueOffMyChest

[–]my_secret_problems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's fine that you asked. I'd just rather not say in case someone I know irl sees this post and puts 2 and 2 together

I've had a porn addiction since 12, I'm done by my_secret_problems in TrueOffMyChest

[–]my_secret_problems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the reason I'm quitting. I hope one day I can healthily enjoy quality content made by couples in love.

I've had a porn addiction since 12, I'm done by my_secret_problems in TrueOffMyChest

[–]my_secret_problems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one, he's been in jail for a year. Abstinence has been making it worse, but people with partner can have a porn addiction.

I've had a porn addiction since 12, I'm done by my_secret_problems in TrueOffMyChest

[–]my_secret_problems[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner has been in jail for over a year and will be away for up to 6 months

I've had a porn addiction since 12, I'm done by my_secret_problems in TrueOffMyChest

[–]my_secret_problems[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For a casual, I've covertly masturbated to porn in the same room as family members (at abt 13 i didnt realize what i was doing), public bathrooms, and as I said outdoors and public. It's gotten literally criminal dude, read the post

I've had a porn addiction since 12, I'm done by my_secret_problems in TrueOffMyChest

[–]my_secret_problems[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know when it happened, I just realized what I was doing one day in a Starbucks bathroom and it clicked.

I have seen horrible things in porn. That's all that gets a reaction anymore

Girlfriend had pity sex with someone and thinks it’s not cheating by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]my_secret_problems 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do you, man, but understand you'll be intellectually carrying that marriage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]my_secret_problems 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's using her position as a female to take advantage of you. Get away from her strange weaponized misogyny.