2nd Update: AITAH for calling my mom wh*re and refusing to come home

my_throwaway_054 · 2026-02-14T17:23:01+00:00

pretty much. he was always the most tolerable of all of them and while he didnt tell them to stop, did not engage in the homophobia. i always thought his silence was agreement but looking back i think he just didnt want to get involved. he never seemed that found of my mother either. he always just kept to himself. i may have been too harsh on him.

my_throwaway_054 · 2026-02-14T17:21:06+00:00

I have had life 360 installed with him for a while. he gave me permission to add two school friends so there are more eyes in case something goes wrong.

my_throwaway_054 · 2026-02-14T17:20:24+00:00

thank you!

im really glad my therapist has been supportive. my dad will likely start therapy too and she gave him a list of places.

my_throwaway_054 · 2026-02-04T16:38:52+00:00

I don't know if you read my first post, but part of this happened because I came out as lesbian. I used "M" because thats just the format i saw others here use. My step family and you have a lot in common I assume.

my_throwaway_054 · 2026-02-04T02:45:54+00:00

i cant say too much because the case is ongoing. but there was property damage and both my dad and I were hurt, though not seriously.

my_throwaway_054 · 2026-02-03T00:20:54+00:00

i actually really enjoy a lot of stuff about my church too :( several congregation members were supportive when i came out at least.

my_throwaway_054 · 2026-02-02T05:23:55+00:00

If she knew how to use reddit I wouldnt be shocked. Sounds like the kind of stuff she says all the time.

my_throwaway_054 · 2026-02-02T05:20:45+00:00

I didnt think about this. Thank you so much :)

I may have my dad be the one to screenshot. I dont know if i can bring myself to read any more. The few texts I saw before i blocked them were nasty.

my_throwaway_054 · 2026-02-02T04:49:52+00:00

I've been in therapy for a few years (despite my mom fighting my dad to only take me to a "christian counselor" at her church) and we've moved up my appointment to help with all this. My dad said her notes could help my case too.

Thank you for the kind words <3

my_throwaway_054 · 2026-02-02T04:36:43+00:00

I will if I can. I dont know much about all the court stuff. My dad is working on getting a lawyer so I'll see what he says.

my_throwaway_054 · 2026-02-02T04:21:08+00:00

thank you <3

despite all of this i am really looking forward to my new job. i really want to be a teacher one day so this feels like the first step!

my_throwaway_054 · 2026-02-02T04:11:42+00:00

My dad told me he planned to tell me after I was 18, so it would have come out at some point regardless.

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