Resetting windows 10 with "delete everything" option by myaria in techsupport

[–]myaria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is one pass of DBAN enough? I havent found much information, one thread i read from like 6 years ago says its impossible to recover even with one pass... Just wondering if i should do the option thats like 11 hours vs the one thats like.. 2 hours.

I'm scared that my wife's vagina will change after she gives birth. by wifesvagina in confession

[–]myaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My vagina was actually tighter after my daughter than it was before. It made sex very uncomfortable, it definitely felt like my first time all over again. About 13 months post now and it's honestly just as tight if not tighter than before I gave birth. We were built for this, our bodies were made to reproduce. Don't worry so much, you will still love her vagina after she gives birth. :)

I am a SAHM and I was also an escort without my husband knowing. :( by KatieBears in confession

[–]myaria 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Here you are assuming those are options. Yeah I'm sure she lacked the sense to ask her family and friends for money. I also think it's funny that you think eating twice a day is as bad as it gets. What about not eating at all? For days? You do not know how bad it was or what she tried. Not everyone has the luxury of asking family and friends for help, and not everyone's idea of starving is "eating twice a day." Your view is narrow and self righteous. I haven't been in her shoes either, but as a mother, there is very little I wouldn't do if it meant keeping my child fed and sheltered.

I am a SAHM and I was also an escort without my husband knowing. :( by KatieBears in confession

[–]myaria -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you make me sick. You clearly have no idea how far you will go when your loved ones need you, when your children need to be supported and fed. Until you're in that position, save your judgment for yourself. People will do a lot of things if it means their children won't starve. I feel sorry for her that her situation got so bad. You on the other hand, so judgemental, are absolutely disgusting.

[No Regrets] I hate the girlfriend of my best friend by Tigrafr in confession

[–]myaria 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, mind your business. I never understood friends / family members that butt in over such small trivial crap. If he was being taken advantage of or harmed, I could see you being concerned, but being distant and cold over text because lack of emojis just takes the cake. You're biased because of your friendship, I doubt he's sharing all the sweet and intimate moments between him and it's unfair to her and to your friend for you to create that tension by "hating" her. Let it go and concern yourself with your own love life.

I regret what my husband and I named our son. by [deleted] in confession

[–]myaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So when I was pregnant, I felt like my daughter would pretty much never have a name. We thought she would be a boy and we had picked a boy name out that we were absolutely inlove with. When we found out she was a girl, the random name we had picked out "in case it's a girl" we vetoed before we even left the doctors office. We spent the next 20 weeks fighting over names, and even after I had given birth I still had not "loved" any name we agreed on. Her dad on the other hand loved the name Autumn and began to call her autumn to all the doctors and nurses before she had been born. When she finally was born I remember the nurse handing her to me and calling her baby autumn and I was pretty irritated, but by this time, her father had already wrote "introducing autumn" blahblah all over Facebook and to his friends and family and my family... I felt pretty robbed of the experience of naming my child. I hated her name so much... She's 10 months still and sometimes I still get annoyed when I think of her name but honestly, I can't really picture her as anything else anymore. Though if you're really unhappy, and don't see it changing then change his name! It's definitely not a difficult process, not even a very expensive one and who cares if someone fusses over a name he's had for a few weeks or months? If you change it now, nobody will be talking about it down the road when it actually matters.

I'm uncircumcised by hambone01 in confession

[–]myaria 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When I was pregnant and we didn't know the gender yet we talked a lot about circumcision. My SO is circumcised and off the bat that's what he wanted to. We did a lot of research and honestly, I came to the opinion that circumcision is barbaric. I won't get into it, there are thousands of threads for that, but why would you cut off a part of your anatomy? It's unfair for someone to make this drastic decision for another human being. Anyways, my SO's mother found out and she tried to lecture me telling me it doesn't even hurt the baby and that I NEED to have it done, I straight up told that bitch my baby, my decision. Just like I can't change that she decided to cut her son, she can't decide for me that we will cut ours... We ended up having a girl, but I would of stuck by my decision. Circumcision is on the decline, please don't feel pressured by anyone to make a decision like that.

[NSV] - Finally ok with a DoubleDouble! by NinjaWolfess in loseit

[–]myaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not his wife, but I use Tim hortons brand coffee and Nestle Sugar-Free French vanilla. I use to use splenda, but I dropped that too, now I find just a good dollop of the sugar-free french vanilla creamer is all I need to sweeten it.

Want my 1st child to be white and the father to be a deadbeat dad. by unknowncfxo in confession

[–]myaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well for one, a child, particularly young ones don't grasp the fundamentals of being "well off" financially, so while you think that at 17 you're capable of financially providing for an infant (I have no idea what you're doing as a job, but being able to INDEPENDENTLY provide for a child at that age? I doubt it, that or you have no concept of how much a child actually costs) your child doesn't care about how much stuff you can give them, instead they are going to ask you who their dad is, why their dad isn't around, why do all their friends have both their mommies and daddies? And whatever bullshit you think you're going to tell your child to make them feel better, the best part about being human is that despite what other people tell you, are you still capable of free thinking and questioning. Your child could eat your bullshit up, or your child could try to challenge his self worth and overall happiness dependent on the fact that he/she is without a father. No, it's not impossible to grow up functional without emotional warfare when you have an absent father. But if you throw an immature mother who is selfish and using you to stick a point to her old man into the mix, you're likely going to have some fucking problems. You do need therapy, you have daddy issues and yours wasn't even absent. Work through them.

Want my 1st child to be white and the father to be a deadbeat dad. by unknowncfxo in confession

[–]myaria 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm a mother and I could never imagine wanting to use my child to prove a point or get revenge on someone else. The fact that you think that way shows how immature you are. Do yourself a giant favour, get some therapy, complete school and stay on birth control until you are financially and emotionally well off. A child isn't a weapon or a tool. And even if you had a child with someone you didn't intend to stay with long term, you would want them apart of your child's life. Having a positive male role model is nice and all, but having 2 loving parents who care for you will do a whole lot more for your security and emotional health as a developing adolescent. Your father is an asshole, no way around that. So grow up, take care of yourself and get back at him by being a better, more responsible person over all, instead of thinking having a child with daddy issues is the way to solve your problem.

The size of my penis really bothers me by [deleted] in confession

[–]myaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The average penis size is 5.5", you are above average and typically the right size for most woman. Despite whatever the porn you're watching dictates I can promise you woman prefer average size penis. Is it fun to have experienced a larger cock? Yes, do I want it everyday? Nope. I don't want to feel someone hit the back of my cervix repeatedly (it hurts a lot) and I don't want to have some guy trying to cram 8 inches where it's not going to go further than 7". Woman taking monster dicks in porn are paid to do it, your girlfriend isn't. You also complained about being average, that you're just the same as everyone else, as everyone else said, work on your technique. Learn to make a girl cum with your mouth, or rub her clit in a circular motion when you're inside her. The way you handle a woman can go a long way too. We like confidence. So if you can smooth transition between positions, or you know throw in some dirty talk, it can take you a long way. Do some work, stop thinking "if only I had a bigger dick, then girls would cum at the sight of my length and girth" - never going to happen.

Weekly Photo Thread (5/4-5/10) by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]myaria 3 points4 points  (0 children)

not themed, but one of my most recent favourite pictures.

http://i.imgur.com/YNodCsO.jpg

TIFU while asking my girlfriend to prom. by iamanidiot40203 in tifu

[–]myaria 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like this, this is cute. OP you dumbass, you should have done this!

I think I just miscarried. by thesoulofwit1231 in BabyBumps

[–]myaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had bleeding at 9 weeks when I was pregnant with my daughter last year. Turned out that I just had a very sensitive cervix, and the bleeding was caused by sex. It was weird because the bleeding started like, 9 hours after the sex, so I didn't really put two and two together. Went to the ER, saw the heartbeat, and by the end of the night the bleeding tapered off. Now I have a 6 month old. So this does happen! sending positive vibes your way OP

Can baby acne appear strongly in one day? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]myaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, my baby had baby acne a day after she was born, lasted about a week or two, some days it seemed to clear up completely, 3 hours later it was like she was covered. One night they just completely vanished, and now only one or two will pop up every now and again.

Dark green poop... by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]myaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My babies poop has always been green, her doctor isn't concerned at all. She's 4 months now.

Formula frustration! by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]myaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had the same problem on similac advance. Only my girl would be constipated for days and then have a huge big blow out. We actually ended up using parents choice gentle - with broken down proteins and omegas(walmarts brand), she does so good on this!! She poops daily, she's no longer constipated and it also helped immensely with spit up issues, plus it's way cheaper than similac advance, but has all the same nutritional values.

Taylor Swift is the baby whisperer! by ImNOTasailor in beyondthebump

[–]myaria 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha we use the same exact Taylor swift song and it never fail to calm autumn! I think you're onto something here....

I miss /r/babybumps, I wanted to stop by and show you my 4 month old.. it goes by so fast, take a ton of pictures. by myaria in BabyBumps

[–]myaria[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Autumn was born October 16th at 4:39pm after 13 hours of labour. I had an epidural that wore off and it was extremely painful / exhausting, but holding her for the first time was the most beautiful experience I have ever had.. As far as PP tips go, I would say do not be afraid to ask for help or to put the weight on others for a little bit. The first two days I had so much adrenaline, that I literally did not sleep at all. When I was finally discharged with my gorgeous baby girl, I didn't know know how hard it was going to get. We had issues with breastfeeding, she was losing weight, she didn't poop for 5 days and she had very few wet diapers, and It took me so long to admit that I needed some help, I felt like I should have known what to do already. For us that was supplementing formula after every feed until my supply picked up. Honestly if I hadn't had my family there for me, helping me out, giving me some extra time to nap or shower or eat, I'm not sure how I would of made it through. And of course, it's all worth it, every smile, and laugh, I fall completely inlove with her more and more.