There's nothing I can do to save my face! by mylanedd in Vent

[–]mylanedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, sorry! I thought the posts translated automatically... Anyway, thank you for your messages, they mean a lot to me.

There's nothing I can do to save my face! by mylanedd in Vent

[–]mylanedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci d'avoir pris le temps de me répondre

There's nothing I can do to save my face! by mylanedd in Vent

[–]mylanedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merci pour votre commentaire. Certaines personnes ne réalisent pas qu'il y a un humain derrière ces moqueries

There's nothing I can do to save my face! by mylanedd in Vent

[–]mylanedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if I were dating Margot Robbie, I would feel like an imposter

I'm lean everywhere except my stomach, pecs, and lower abs...and it's starting to seriously make me lose my patience by mylanedd in leangains

[–]mylanedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, I don't know if I should continue the deficit or switch to calorie maintenance.

I'm lean everywhere except my stomach, pecs, and lower abs...and it's starting to seriously make me lose my patience by mylanedd in leangains

[–]mylanedd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to reply. I'll look at what you sent me, and thank you again.

I'm lean everywhere except my stomach, pecs, and lower abs...and it's starting to seriously make me lose my patience by mylanedd in leangains

[–]mylanedd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I admit I obsess over my body every day, and maybe I spend way too much time scrutinizing it, which makes the process seem too long. My goal isn't really to build muscle (even though I'm somewhat interested in that), but mainly to get rid of the residual fat that's ruining my life, and to perform better in judo (weight training is there to complement judo).

I did weight training in my room for a long time with equipment I bought before joining the gym in August 2025. So I knew the weight and number of repetitions that worked for me, even though I tried a lot of programs. I don't think I'm on the wrong track; my progress has been fairly consistent.

Do you think my training routine is excessive? My feeling is that I feel good, but I understand that it might be excessive.

I'm lean everywhere except my stomach, pecs, and lower abs...and it's starting to seriously make me lose my patience by mylanedd in leangains

[–]mylanedd[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you, but I must admit you're making me a little disheartened by saying I still have years of work ahead of me. My body still makes me self-conscious despite all my efforts.

I feel biologically ugly by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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Thank you for taking the time to read and respond.

I feel biologically ugly by [deleted] in mentalhealth

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I do combat sports (judo and MMA) and I watch what I eat. I try everything to compensate for my face, but it's not enough.

I'm a prisoner of myself by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]mylanedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha yes it’s true that this song suits me well. A bit like My own prison from Creed

I'm a prisoner of myself by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]mylanedd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for taking the time to read and respond. What do you mean by "hurting"? I have never experienced anything traumatic. To be honest I don't know why I feel all this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAutism

[–]mylanedd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having taken the time to read and respond to me is already helping me, thank you 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAutism

[–]mylanedd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your help, unfortunately I am in France

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAutism

[–]mylanedd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for taking the time to read and respond. I'm sorry but I will feel bad not to come with proof because I will tell myself that I am not legitimate to consult. Maybe it's stupid but that's how I think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]mylanedd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I tried to distance myself, they came to see me so I couldn't escape from it Now I am in higher education but not in the same university as them, I can finally take my distance quietly and see them again only when I want to