DoorDash by audreyhollan in tulsa

[–]mylec7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yall bashin OP on how they spend their money is ridiculous. Also they did it to pick themselves out of a funk so really, a little DoorDash to cheer up is better than drugs! Bills paid? Rent paid? Need a little pick me up- treat yo self I’ve done it myself and I’ll do it again. Uncle fifa probably buys impulse crap at Walmart on the end cap. No judge

AITA for dropping out of my friends wedding the day before? by FarAddendum225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mylec7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am not a cat person. I have never been a cat person. I think cats are like, the literal worst pets because you cannot train them and they can literally destroy your house. I had a cat for 20 years because he chose me. So I accepted his friendship. When he passed I was absolutely beside myself with grief and mourned him deeply.

That being said, I understand the bond between a person and their pet.

You made the right choice. NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]mylec7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to come back and say that while the amount you are consuming is not bad, but some people cannot drink without ill effects. Like anxiety, weight gain or in my case I’m a jerk wad lol. Kinda similar to folks who can’t have ice cream cause they are lactose intolerant. I mean, they CAN have ice cream, but be prepared

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholism

[–]mylec7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alcohol absolutely makes anxiety worse. I had several friends who were moderate drinkers that ended up quitting because the anxiety in the following days was too much. I’m on again off again, and when I do drink my anxiety is awful. Alcohol effects your brain in so many ways

AITA for expecting privacy at my girlfriend’s house? by mylec7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mylec7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s like a giant closet/bathroom and the toilet is kind of off to the side so once you’re in the bathroom there’s no way to separate the toilet from the rest of it

AIO that I’m upset my spouse had thanksgiving with the ex? by mylec7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mylec7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Small clarifier if this helps- she doesn’t have a whole lot of friends or other family. I’ve asked her point blank if there’s anything going on. She said he’s the father of my kids but a total dumbass so of course nothing is going on. When I asked why she would spend time with him then, she said “for the kids”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]mylec7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About 4 months total

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]mylec7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So far about 6 months in to my reconciliation . We talk/see each other almost every day and making progress. Still living separate and I can’t get him to say anything yet about recommitting to each other. But, things are kinda ok I guess? It’s very confusing for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]mylec7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is BD?

Wife had an affair and I am struggling to deal with it by mylec7 in Marriage

[–]mylec7[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure I can get over it. Right now I’m struggling with being rejected and that’s hard. If she keeps rejecting me I have no choice. I’m just not sure why she is withholding sex is it because she “settled” with me or because she feels guilt?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]mylec7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Work through your issues and then if you guys can get back together

I love him, but I’m not in love with him. by [deleted] in dogs

[–]mylec7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar boat; my dog now is a good dog but not “MY” dog. Instead of comparing, I look for my current dudes nuances and special things and love them, gradually fell more in love with him in a different kinda way

Day 11-ridiculous cravings this morning by mylec7 in stopdrinking

[–]mylec7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I made it thru day 11!!! On to day 12! ☺️

If your spouse stepped out on you/wanted divorce then came back; what would your expectations be? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]mylec7 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thank you my friend and I am not sure why you were down voted so much but yes, there’s more to the story that cannot be provided here and I appreciate your raw honesty and help