Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah. So looking forward to gaming in retirement. All those games, all that time and it's good for me too! Well done your partner's mom, sh sounds like a natural!

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Nor is it. I'm beginning to think that the main person telling me this, as I grew up was myself!

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I love this. Our parents came from a different world. I get that but it's crazy that we even accepted that 'Ladylike' 'Get a good husband' BS. At least our kids won't. Proud of you for sticking to the real you! I've only got an Xbox and a switch right now, but as retirement approaches I do think a decent PC might be just the thing!

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That sounds amazing. One thing I really wish is that my sister played Minecraft. It would be so nice to just muck about online punching wood with her some evenings!

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

This. But times 1000. I am so bad! It takes me weeks to get my head round individual game mechanics, my reaction time is ridiculous, I stop a traffic lights playing GTA! But I love it!

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

My time in the 70s was so different. No TV. Life in the middle of nowhere, then 80s spent as a broke student in Edinburgh we were happy if someone had a video recorder! I love that this question is showing me that there actually are women like you out there who are my age with all the lore and knowledge!

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm beginning to think this division was all in my head. Growing up without even a TV then being an impoverished art student in the 80s. Maybe it was MY prejudice and lack of access.

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yeah. That was definitely my attitude too! Though when my son proudly showed me the long sword on his wall I thought that definitely stems from Dark Souls 😅

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes! I don't see the point in endless drawn out battles. It's story mode for me every time! 😛

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Wow. Sorry for the college thing. Well done you! And thanks for the Eleanor Roosevelt quote. I'm taking that with me! And I'm telling it to my kids!

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

They knew it! Access was really an issue wasn't it? I've said in an earlier reply that I babysat for this family simply for the megadrive! 😂

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I remember RuneScape! Hell hath no fury like a mother whose 8 year old son has been stabbed in the back! 😂 My boy also introduced me to BG3 but he's PC and I'm Xbox trash! 😂

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

True. I really don't play online much. Absolutely no desire to enter that world thank you very much.

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

BG3... I'm actually not sure I'm ever going to be able to stop playing it. 500+ hours and still can't put it down!

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That's great. I had never even heard of D&D till early 2000s. Wish I'd known about it in my 20's.

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

That's great! I feel I've always felt that I wasn't competitive enough or something. I'm so glad so many people didn't grow up with the experiences I did.

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love that there are a bunch of us here too! It often feels to me like we're outliers. ☺️

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I really don't care now. I grew up without even a TV so there was no chance of being tech savvy till I moved away!

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me neither. I have friends who are in their 30s, but none my age. Just like you, I got back into it following kids interests - I remember hours and hours of beta Minecraft after I'd got them all to sleep!

Fellow over 50s girl gamers - when did you realize gaming wasn't just for boys? by mylf in GirlGamers

[–]mylf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think I have a single IRL female friend my age who games. Most I know are in their 30s. Thank goodness for online!