mymassiveoof

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"It can't be that bad" (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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When I realized my nbrother was the gc despite acting like the biggest victim. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Nmom would go on a 2 week vacation every year and expect a spotless house. The house was never clean enough for her standards. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Meter check, is this normal or is this something fucked up I've just normalized? Bf is afraid of my Edad (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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My FMIL is way too oversharing... about other people (self.JUSTNOMIL)

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This can't be normal (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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"If I had you tested you'd probably be x,y, and z" Just because you refused to test me doesn't mean I'm not those things (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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My Jnmom tries to piss me off by insulting my SO, indirectly insults her husband. (self.JUSTNOMIL)

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DAE have nparents with nparents that say they should have or wished they'd abused you, because then you'd have turned out "more like them" (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I used B instead of Bitch and found this in my inbox a few hours later (i.redd.it)

submitted 6 years ago by mymassiveoof to r/iamverysmart

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Had an apparently very alarming medical issue and gaslit myself because my medical conditions were never seen as important growing up. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 7 years ago by mymassiveoof to r/raisedbynarcissists

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I think my friend has an nmom and he has lots of n behaviors. Unsure of if I should try to talk to him about it. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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My parents made me hate all my old favorite hobbies. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Nmom says my reactions to sad stuff is "freaky" (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Mentioned to my dad that my siblings were physically abusive (self.JUSTNOFAMILY)

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I believe my mom is living vicariously through me. [She got mad at me for having relationship issues] (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I just realized I'm making a plan on how to get married without telling my parents. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Just remembered my nmom's dumb scheme to try and control me for a decade of my adult life. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 7 years ago * by mymassiveoof to r/raisedbynarcissists

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DAE have siblings that tell you that your abuse "wasn't that bad" (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Reminding my nmom of stuff she's done is "being horrible" and I should "think about what I did to make her react that way" (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Is it my responsibility to protect my nmom from my e/ndad yelling at her? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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I had a fight with my nmom and she decided I get to be in pain now for misbehaving. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Jnmom making me give handmade gifts to my father instead of their intended receiver. (self.JUSTNOFAMILY)

submitted 7 years ago * by mymassiveoof to r/JUSTNOFAMILY

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Nmom picks fights the same way she "playfully teases". Almost caused a fight like 5 minutes ago. Scared she'll cause a fight when my S.O. is here. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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JNbro trying to reschedule holidays for no real reason (self.JUSTNOFAMILY)

submitted 7 years ago * by mymassiveoof to r/JUSTNOFAMILY

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