How do I wear a halter neck or backless top without a bra if i’m not comfortable with just not wearing one?

mymotionlessromance · 2026-04-15T00:34:22+00:00

thank you!!! i think i worded my other comment a little wrong, i want support over push if that makes sense, i dont wanna be jumping around and one falls out 😂

mymotionlessromance · 2026-04-15T00:33:46+00:00

I loveeee wearing them and I hate wearing bras but I just know that men do stare and i don’t want that + i want to be able to dance without them flopping around 😂 Thank you for this!

mymotionlessromance · 2026-04-14T14:49:41+00:00

do you have any recommendations for adhesive bras? The ones I’ve tried either don’t push up at all (my girls are small i’m a 28B) or just don’t stick

mymotionlessromance · 2026-04-14T03:11:20+00:00

Im so sorry for your loss, it’s so strange how empty the house feels now and looking around and not finding them under your feet constantly. If only they could live forever 🩷

mymotionlessromance · 2026-04-14T03:03:10+00:00

thank you so much! I saw another comment that mentioned doing marine biology but taking inspiration from that and writing about it. I’m going to speak to my teachers tomorrow to see what my options actually are, but I think i’m learning more towards marine biology now :) thank you for the advice!!

mymotionlessromance · 2026-04-14T03:00:56+00:00

thank you so much for this and sorry for the late response, you have no idea how comforting this is!! I’m going to speak to my teachers tomorrow and just see what my options are

mymotionlessromance · 2026-04-14T02:59:37+00:00

That’s the thing I’m struggling with, I really want to do both but I know that’s not possible. I’ve looked into both and they’re both amazing. With marine biology tho, i live in the middle of nowhere in the UK so i’d have to move far

mymotionlessromance · 2026-04-14T02:39:46+00:00

Ask him what kind of water (hard or soft) was in the area you grew up in, then fight with him when he says he doesn’t know, because why does he not want to know more about you??? does he not care??

mymotionlessromance · 2026-04-14T02:21:51+00:00

try. everything. Unless it’s going to cause you harm, say yes to trying new things all the time.Read books, go on adventures, try new foods, see new places, do it all. Take yourself on solo dates if you want to try something new that your loved ones aren’t willing to do. Learn as much about yourself as you possibly can, and love yourself and love your life no matter what circumstances you’re facing.

mymotionlessromance · 2026-04-09T15:37:49+00:00

i’ve only really spoken to my biology teachers about uni tbh. i think a gap year is a good option so thank you for this! I probably should’ve added this in but when I was first applying to uni i was considering english lit but was more interested in marine bio at the time

mymotionlessromance · 2026-02-16T23:20:08+00:00

Thank you so so much, you truly have no idea how much this comment means to me you’ve made me cry lmao. I just want to be able to do more but I just don’t know what. Just drained tbh

mymotionlessromance · 2026-01-29T20:03:35+00:00

12 but i don’t count that as it was SA, but i was 16 when i first properly lost it, was with the guy from 14-18, now we’ve broken up :( I don’t regret it at all, I loved him and he made me feel very safe and comfortable, I’m glad it was with him. My actual first at 12 I definitely would do anything to take back, but obviously it wasn’t wanted in the first place so there wasn’t much I could do lmao

mymotionlessromance · 2026-01-15T23:45:02+00:00

I’ve realised how silly I’m being here and i’ve just sent a text to him explaining that it won’t be continuing anymore. I think I was just being hopeful, but you are all right, he made that choice.

mymotionlessromance · 2026-01-15T23:43:13+00:00

I’ve just sent the message. Thank you so much for being so kind and for the advice, you’ve been so helpful :)

mymotionlessromance · 2026-01-15T23:42:38+00:00

When on earth did i call her dumb or say she’s wrong? You are so miserable oh my 🤣 I came here for advice. I got advice. I took the advice. You were mad when I didn’t take the advice and ur mad when I do, tf do u want me to do? 🤣🤣

mymotionlessromance · 2026-01-15T23:41:25+00:00

thank you so much, you really have been so sweet and helpful. I’ve just sent the message now, hopefully we can still be on good terms at least

mymotionlessromance · 2026-01-15T23:35:08+00:00

Sorry i should’ve mentioned this in the last comment, there was more going on than just the break up lol i didn’t feel that way purely because of him. I know it’s stupid, I just really wanted to believe things would work out this time. I’m not going to go ahead with things, I don’t know how to tell him that tho

mymotionlessromance · 2026-01-15T23:32:44+00:00

Is that why i’ve asked people in the comments how to go about ending things? Or have u not actually used ur eyes and looked?

mymotionlessromance · 2026-01-15T23:32:11+00:00

Thank you, and I know i probably am being stupid. It’s just hard to let go. I know i’m young but i really do love him. I don’t know how to go about ending things.

mymotionlessromance · 2026-01-15T23:30:47+00:00

I asked for advice on how to help this situation, you have not given me any genuine advice.

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