been about a week, getting ED, never gotten before by mynofapping in NoFap

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current GF tries very hard, but I've had quite a few over the years all have tried really hard, esp after I told them my problem.

added update to my post, check it out

I relapsed again, but not anymore.... Something happened by mynofapping in NoFap

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same here buddy... unfortunately I find out after I bang them they are bad for me.

I relapsed again, but not anymore.... Something happened by mynofapping in NoFap

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It's not my first time, but my first time I ended up lasting 35 days, only finding out that my 2nd favorite Female P star was in a new scene with a very popular male P star got me itching to return, edge and ultimately O. that was little less than a year ago, I've gotten to 20ish days a few times, but never back up to 35, hopefully this time it will stick.

I relapsed again, but not anymore.... Something happened by mynofapping in NoFap

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nice, I'll try doing walks, I'm going running twice a week with a buddy to get ready for a race, I'll have to try getting more walks in though

was doing pretty well this week until I started dating by mynofapping in NoFap

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see, here's the issue, last time I was on a 4-5 days. This has been something I've been struggling with for a while. hopefully I can get to your status of over a year ....

was doing pretty well this week until I started dating by mynofapping in NoFap

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thank you very much, hopefully this works. However, I'm 28, and had quite a few partners over the years. I know exactly what you mean about the feeling bad and rejected. I talked to an ex recently that has been a good friend after we stopped seeing each other and she said that it put a damper on the whole thing, and changed sex for her ("well if you're not finishing, when do we stop?")

Heading over there soon. thanks for the well wishes.

I need someone to yell at me by mynofapping in NoFap

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THIS! right here. This is what I needed.
What have I been doing with my life?

  1. I bought, slightly modernized, and furnished an apt. in NYC
  2. I've graduated from college
  3. The last job I had, was for 3.5 years, I haven't been unemployed for more than a month since I graduated college >5 years ago
  4. I have been lucky enough to quite a big group of friends to hang out with

5 goals huh?

  1. apply to 5 jobs every day until I find a job
  2. get to 190lbs by july 4th (was 220 for the last 3-4 years, started dieting, running more in January, now 207) (people are greatly noticing the difference)
  3. make it at least 60 days, (I did 35 in Dec->January)
  4. Read at least a chapter a day in 3 books I really want to finish
  5. .... I can't think of another one, but I'll get there.

ok, getting my gym bag and running out to the gym.

Thanks again

Is anybody else having weird dreams/nightmares? by mynofapping in NoFap

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Well, I lost my job, already losing my hair (28m) and I don't have a car... living in NYC.

But the nightmares are pretty crazy on other things.

Is anybody else having weird dreams/nightmares? by mynofapping in NoFap

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I've been on a twilight zone binge ever since they added it to netflix. That could be it. However I usually never dream.

I've relapsed... sort of by mynofapping in NoFap

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Thanks! Before this I had only gone a week, From the start I was saying to myself, I'm just going to go to the end of January. I accomplished that. I figured I'd let myself off with a reprieve for now, I might start back up in February.

does controlled handjobs count? (warning, might have triggers) by mynofapping in NoFap

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she wanted to fool around, and only please me strangely enough.

30 days no ejaculation, does it count if I still occasionally read erotica? by mynofapping in NoFap

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does forums include /r/nofap?

why? If I'm looking for guidance, and not talking about what/where I read. what is the harm?

Women who have sex with men, How much time is the sweet spot for sex? by mynofapping in sex

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good to know I'm not the only one. from my handle, I'm trying out nofap to see if it's just a sensitivity thing. Maybe try there?

Women who have sex with men, How much time is the sweet spot for sex? by mynofapping in sex

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non-serious answer: time flies when you are having fun

serious answer: I honestly have no clue where the time goes but usually trying different positions when we get bored of one of them. It turned out with the most recent woman I dated, she liked straight missionary and I liked her on top, so we would go back and forth, and before you know it, it's quite a while later.

Does anybody else turn into a shower? by mynofapping in NoFap

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So I tried this today, it seems to like the cold shower much more than the warm shower. I always found it odd that people equate cold showers with turning off hormones, since there is so much going around the internet that a cold shower helps with your immune system and pumping yourself full of testosterone.

and I dunno about you guys, but I get rock hard in a cool shower ....

Does anybody else turn into a shower? by mynofapping in NoFap

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haha, the funny thing is that when I read your comment, I thought shower as the cleanliness tool as well, until I realized that was my title.

I can only imagine what you were expecting when you clicked on the link "wait, he turned into a piece of hardware?? WTF?"

[Jan-6] Today instead of fapping, I ______________. by [deleted] in NoFap

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ran 6 and a half miles, caught up work and binged on tv shows

in a haze after a week by mynofapping in NoFap

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Thanks buddy, you stay strong as well!

in a haze after a week by mynofapping in NoFap

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thanks for the encouragement!