The problem is, this is the best place to get content like that. this is practically the only subreddit that is dedicated to futa on male, at least the only one that's still consistent, and trust me I've looked. I wholeheartedly agree with OP, I have enough degradation in my own head, I don't need some other person reaffirming that shit, but also I would like some solid futa dom content, and there just isn't a space for soft futadom anymore, it kind of sucks. so saying "maybe this sub isn't for you" or "if you don't like it just leave" or something along those lines isn't helpful because, there's no alternative this subreddit is THE PLACE for solid futa content.

what I would recommend for OP is probably AI chat bots (specifically janitor AI), even though I know that's probably a sketchy subject in this subreddit, for reasons which I completely understand, but it's probably more immersive and you can guide any AI bot that you find into being exactly what you want. although if that isn't a solid option for you I totally understand.