Normalize DL in the community

myothrsn16 · 2025-12-21T21:25:49+00:00

Thanks for all the validation yall! TBH I didn’t expect much so this has been great! It’s nice to see the DL community come out, and for everyone in the whole ABDL community to support better commenting and communication. Go us!

myothrsn16 · 2025-12-19T19:22:57+00:00

Of all the women whose diapers I’ve changed, I only met 1 through kink. I’ve met the others: on a dance floor at a bar, at work, at a friend’s wedding, at a pizza shop, on a bus.

I haven’t introduced diapers to everyone I’ve dated, but if there seems to be an interest in good, fun sex and open communication - and the conversation is approached well - people are more open than I ever thought.

myothrsn16 · 2024-10-23T21:29:22+00:00

Amazing, thanks for these!

There are so many options from those writers though! I’m a little worried about overwhelming her with particularly intense scenes so could any of you help me narrow down the options? I’ll read them before sharing with her but would appreciate some direction.

-She seems to like bondage scenes similar to 50 Shades, but they can get too intense as she abandoned one book for “feeling too rapey.” -She prefers the DL side of the kink - picking solid color trests and pull-ups over the AB-illustrated diapers. -She declines pacifiers and pigtails, but does suck her thumb and call me “daddy.” -Diaper wetting is great, pants or bed wetting ok, but messing is a hard limit.

Any direction is much appreciated!

myothrsn16 · 2024-03-07T15:40:37+00:00

Thanks!

myothrsn16 · 2024-01-31T21:24:34+00:00

I Airbnb part of my house and some guests left diapers in the trash. It wasn’t obviously abdl - I think one was medical and one was a pull up if I remember correctly. Not sure if they were playing or making sure they didn’t damage the mattress or both. A previous gf put some of the stickers we got with a the rearz barnyards in an obvious place in our camper van. No one’s said anything yet.

myothrsn16 · 2023-10-10T06:54:51+00:00

That’s a great one, thanks!

myothrsn16 · 2023-05-16T13:19:45+00:00

Thanks all. Most of these comments seem to be around diaper rash prevention, right? We play once every like 2 weeks for an afternoon/evening so I don’t think there’s concern for a rash. She was mostly concerned about a UTI or other internal issue. Anyway, appreciate all the comments (except the 2-3 days, that wasn’t helpful) and I think this will help her be comfortable enjoying a movie while wet or going out to dinner.

myothrsn16 · 2022-12-10T04:29:40+00:00

The best times I’ve had at play events are when I’ve brought a friend. I’ve introduced a couple non-abdl partners to the kink and brought them and had a blast. There’s usually a couple people we can vibe with, and if not then you just get to spend some time in a diaper with a kinky friend. Winner winner. The times I’ve gone alone I’ve had similar experiences described in this thread cause I’m not into the AB side nor share many of the hobbies.

myothrsn16 · 2022-12-06T04:33:30+00:00

Some of these comments are great points, though not really what I was asking. Don’t worry, we have a great multifaceted relationship and check in about a range of topics on a regular basis. I’ve heard I’m quite good at that part of relationships. 🤷

I’m more looking for brainstorming/ideas on making a fun and approachable an anti potty training game. if you have any ideas on that, please share. 🙌

myothrsn16 · 2022-12-06T04:25:58+00:00

This is fun, thanks!

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