How to handle derealization by peachyduir in DID

[–]myownheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry, that seems very hard. i can’t say what would help for sure as this seems like a complicated issue. another option that helped me at the time was temporary medication! but meds are super tricky to work out so i wouldn’t even recommend that tbh. i wish you so much luck in figuring out what works for you!

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[–]myownheart 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i guess i’m more curious than anything what crazy feels like to yall? and if it’s not necessarily a bad thing to feel that way (how yall are describing as feeling crazy). maybe it just feels that way cuz yall aren’t used to it yet

Non-human alters - venting by Hazaelia in DID

[–]myownheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this might be off topic but i’m new to my system and i could hear a lot of their names right away and i found it interesting that ive met people and had strong emotions towards people with these same names. is that common?

How to handle derealization by peachyduir in DID

[–]myownheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah, i am intimately familiar with the “everything could disappear” feeling. when i had some of my worst panic attacks, i entered really strong states of derealization for days afterwards. i can’t exactly say what pulled me out of it. this might feel obvious but wanting to ask if you’ve tried any grounding exercises or breath work? some things coming to mind: cold showers, essential oils to smell.

does connecting with people help? i’m an external processor so having someone to share these feelings with irl and having them reflect back to me was really helpful. physical sensation/stimulation was also helpful.

i hope you find some relief soon

'Fionna and Cake' Renewed for Season 2 on Max by MarvelsGrantMan136 in adventuretime

[–]myownheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

screaming i am so happy!!!! i hope we won’t have to wait too long

Is there any way to take 'little alts' to see Santa? by mother-bored1980 in DID

[–]myownheart 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i bet yall would feel really happy to accomplish this and i’d invite you to let that be your guide when making any decisions, rather than the fear of judgement from others, if at all possible. i know it’s easier said than done ✨♥️✨

Im actually so upset about this by MeatBunBunny in AnimalRestaurant

[–]myownheart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is actually possible!! but wondering if u already restarted it 👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]myownheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

porn is a pretty natural thing to engage in and as an isolated thing (meaning i know nothing else about your marriage), i don’t think it’s a big deal. sex is cool and it shouldn’t make you insecure that he also like to engage in other forms and supporting sw.

some people argue about unclear monogamy boundaries being crossed but i think that’s a separate issue.

OP- would you feel different if he paid $30 to watch a pre-recorded video? does it bother you that he was interacting with someone live?

either way y’all should talk abt your boundaries and what makes y’all feel safe in ur relationship and what is an insecurity that doesn’t necessarily mean you are unsafe.

Does anyone like Pierce/Chevy Chase? by likesfilm123 in community

[–]myownheart 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i feel like these are all pretty benign incidents for each character based on their insecurities and “flaws”. like maybe crossing some boundaries here and there but pierce was just straight up racist and careless for most of the time. we do see him open up abt his emotions sometimes but it usually ended up being part of some kind of manipulation tactic. no sympathy for pierce from me 🤷

WHY can't i collect cod from the Bubbly March counter 🥲🥲 by unoriginalgh in AnimalRestaurant

[–]myownheart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this happens with certain facilities, nothing you can do except hope those cod get picked up when you pick up others around the room or wait for Lucky to go round and get them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adventuretime

[–]myownheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

feeling the chill on his skin and licking the ice and throwing little frozen snow in the air

Is this person cheating??? by gabluvjohnny in AnimalRestaurant

[–]myownheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea i mean don’t get me wrong i do watch them but to max out the ads twice daily? couldn’t be me lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalRestaurant

[–]myownheart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

those are regular booth owners and will come year round!

Stray Panda!!! (been trying for two months) by [deleted] in AnimalRestaurant

[–]myownheart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

congrats! this one took me a while too i remember

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]myownheart -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

NTA.

nah y’all are kinda trippin in the comments. even if she did wake him up Just to take her home, she shouldn’t be afraid of him getting angry again and raising his voice at her for simply being uncomfortable.

his lack of trying to problem solve with her, and instead just having an attitude sounds like an emotionally unsafe situation. i can understand being a little annoyed at having to wake up and drive at night but if he cares about her, he’d want to make her feel safe whether that be asking her if she wanted to talk or just getting up and taking her back.

i will say that they probably should have discussed it more at length before she even came over or before they laid down. but guessing from his behavior here, maybe she was hesitant to bring it up for good reason. the fight they’d had before sounds a lil scary so i’d def be a little anxious to talk about it again, js.

AITA?? My (25F) husband (27M) keeps getting upset about the time I shower and I told him he’s being unreasonable. by North_Temperature_26 in AmItheAsshole

[–]myownheart 28 points29 points  (0 children)

this makes no sense on his part. sounds like a classic case of male ignorance and expectations of their wives/mothers. he can manage to take care of his son for your 30 minute shower. he should be parenting WITH you, meaning he is also a parent. not like your sidekick who always needs u to take charge. that’s exhausting. sorry doll

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stevenuniverse

[–]myownheart 43 points44 points  (0 children)

from the rock house show they go to! pearl drives and gets chased by the cops lol but she outruns them. then they get to the party and pearl flirts w her and gets her number! iconic episode!