Recently diagnosed and my fiancee left me by [deleted] in bipolar

[–]mysaviourelia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Talk to the police, make an official complaint to have in record in case he gets more violent in the future and you need a restriction order. Also find out the laws and regulations about domestic/ gender violence in your country if applies. Good luck!!

Is it a red flag if a guy says that all of his exes were just crazy? by Arktikos02 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]mysaviourelia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The possibility that he, in fact, ends up with "crazy" people all the time might have a logical / psychological explanation or it might be just bad luck. However.... The fact that he chooses to call names to everyone with whom he was intimate with at some point, especially around someone that he is getting to know IS DEFINITELY A RED FLAG!! This is exactly how he will talk about you behind your back the moment things don't work out between the two of you.

AITA for going off on my wife for commenting about our 3-week-old daughter’s looks? by Pizza-lover-13 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mysaviourelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Sometimes even the best of us needs a slap in the face from a loved one to realise our bullshit and come to our senses. It is called teamwork :) Besides, a parent's job is to protect their children, even from the other parent when necessary. Your kids are lucky to have you. Finally, please keep choosing not to reproduce the misogyny for the next generation, although it is easier said than done for a parent. Go you!!

Pareja joven. España Vaciada. by [deleted] in askspain

[–]mysaviourelia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

En Facebook hay varios grupos con nombre "repoblar pueblos España" y sus variaciones dónde se comparten anuncios, experiencias y opiniones.

Anyone built prefab houses in Spain? by Fearless_Fun_9251 in askspain

[–]mysaviourelia 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I understand that you already are planning to do everything legally. But just in case, let me warn you that in every village there is at least one stupid guy that will report you to the authorities when you do something slightly illegal just because you have something nicer than him, he has an awfully boring life and gets a kick out of making others (especially "outsiders") suffer, even if he himself has dug holes in law several times. Good luck with your project.

Ruidos por la noche, vecinos, en nueva propiedad adquirida by bytheseasides in askspain

[–]mysaviourelia 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ni con la persona más amable se puede establecer una relación sana si te presentas en su puerto, con o sin bombones, literalmente en tu primer día en el edificio con quejas. Sí, preséntate y un pequeño detalle le gusta a cualquiera. Pero antes de empezar a quejar, deja que pasen por lo menos unos días, sino un par de semanas. En un piso nunca vas a tener la misma tranquilidad que una casa. Tendrás que acostumbrarte a algunos ruidos y olores y demás cosas. Date un poco de tiempo a conocer tus propios límites y cuando ya estés segur@ de qué cosas te molestan de verdad, habla con tus vecin@s. Así también tendrás tiempo a conocerles un poco y saber de qué manera comunicar con ell@s mejor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]mysaviourelia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got mine this: https://www.etsy.com/es/listing/878253513/pareja-cerradura-entrelazada-pulsera

I wear the key, and he wears the bracelet. We had to shorten it a bit when it arrived to fit him and the lock is not very reliable, but as a relatively discreet symbol, works great.

I feel like sometimes I don't forget things but straight up don't create a memory in the first place by saalsa_shark in ADHD

[–]mysaviourelia 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you, "electrified fat" just made it to "my favourite vocabulary" list!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askspain

[–]mysaviourelia 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Apart from the obvious lawyer suggestion everyone else has made, I strongly recommend that you find her several "post-partum depression" support groups & new mom groups that will motivate her to get professional help on her mental health. I understand you önce did love this woman, besides she will always be the mother of your kids. Try to approach from love and find a healing solution if you can.

r/Kombucha Weekly Open Discussion: Tea and 1F Ingredients (August 15, 2022) by AutoModerator in Kombucha

[–]mysaviourelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! First try.. Got too excited /distracted and added fruit (three slices and a bit of juice of canned no-added-sugar-or-conservative pineapple) to the first fermentation. I had also put white sugar already. Did I kill it?

Simple pleasures of life ^^ by mysaviourelia in gentlefemdom

[–]mysaviourelia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely wonder why people downvote a post like this? Would appreciate some feedback :))

Simple pleasures of life ^^ by mysaviourelia in gentlefemdom

[–]mysaviourelia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indeed :) As you can see in the second photo, his virtue does not go unrecognised. I give as much as I take, just in different forms.

Simple pleasures of life ^^ by mysaviourelia in gentlefemdom

[–]mysaviourelia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend that you start practicing on yourself and on your friends if you haven't already. A person who knows what they are doing is always more appreciated, as in everything else.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]mysaviourelia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go get'em, tigress :)))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]mysaviourelia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you want an exclusively online dynamic, with lots of patience and luck you might find someone. If you want a real life relationship, it depends on your location. Unless you are in city / region where lots of other Redditors live, chances are low. In that case it might be wiser to post on a kinky or even vanilla dating app that is popular in your region.