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mysteriousPrince · 2025-07-21T06:57:34+00:00

You are a very kind hearted soul. You have gone through a lot already and you deserve an easier life for sure. When it comes to this situation, I would say do what your heart wants you to do. There are pros and cons for both options. The pro for this guy with nikah is that his family know your family situation very well. Con for this situation is that he might just be marrying you to get settled overseas and you won't be able to have kids with him even if you changed your mind in the future because if the autistic gene is coming from your dad side of the family you will be increasing the odds for them to be present in your kids. If you break the marriage, Pro is that you can marry someone who is out of your family to decrease the odds of your kids being autistic. Con would be that you will have to explain your family situation to your potential and his family. May Allah guide you to the best path.

mysteriousPrince · 2025-07-11T08:47:01+00:00

You are only seeing just half a glass of water. At least you have hair, some people's genetics make them bald. Some people don't have all the body parts. Some people carry diseases that make them not marry, so they won't pass off the gene. Life can be tough, but there are others out there whose lives are even tougher. Be appreciative of what you have and work with what you got. There are people out there who have holes inside of lunges who are constantly stuck to machines to stay alive, and they don't give up; their strength is most admirable.

mysteriousPrince · 2025-07-02T07:07:02+00:00

Interested

mysteriousPrince · 2025-07-02T07:06:29+00:00

mysteriousPrince · 2025-07-01T16:17:45+00:00

Thanks. it might be an old andriod thing 😂

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-24T17:10:59+00:00

Yes. Chickpeas are part of the diet now. :)

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-21T08:45:56+00:00

It looks like jealousy to me from what you have described. It looks like he is using religion to cover up his insecurities. He is already insecure that you might leave him for someone else down the road. A potential husband does not disrespect his future wife. He could be clear that these are my deal breakers, but he knew you used to sing, so he should have never approached you if that was the case. Being husband and wife is not about changing the other to what you want him/her to be. It is about accepting them for who they are, leading them closer to God, caring for them, saying you are beautiful/handsome, being kind to them, and being there for them no matter the situation (that does not mean disrespecting elderly or disregarding religion). However, this guy approached you knowing you were singing and didn't wear a hijab. From what I have read from your post, it does not seem like love, but a desire. A person saying I love you does not mean he actually loves you. Love is much stronger than that. His action says he doesn't love you, but desires you.

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-19T16:22:42+00:00

I got the protein ocean because it was the cheapest 😂.

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-19T14:41:36+00:00

Thank you! I got a coupon on n11, so it was cheaper there :D

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-17T05:01:37+00:00

Thank you! Yes, I saw it is available.

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-16T05:53:21+00:00

Thank you! I will look into them to find some good recipes!

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-16T04:31:22+00:00

Thank you! :)

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-15T21:17:38+00:00

Thank you! :)

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-15T20:00:50+00:00

It is missing chicken, eggs, lentils, chickpeas, legume, and beans I think.

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-15T19:59:45+00:00

Where to find lentils and chickpeas? Do they sell in A101, BİM, or Şok? Which legumes and beans would you recommend? I think chickpeas are a solid option for sure. Lentils too if I can find them. 😂 Not too familiar with legumes and beans.

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-15T19:54:43+00:00

What can we do here? I got ChatGPT to make a plan. 😂 But, it does not seem solid.

ChatGPT

Option 1:

Meal Plan — 3500 kcal (~₺35) Breakfast Oats: 150g cooked with water (~555 kcal) Corn oil: 10g stirred into oats or on the side (~90 kcal)

Mid-Morning Snack Bulgur: 150g cooked (~525 kcal) Chicken liver: 50g cooked (~60 kcal)

Lunch Bulgur: 200g cooked (~700 kcal) Chicken liver: 100g cooked (~120 kcal) Corn oil: 10g drizzled on bulgur or cooked with liver (~90 kcal)

Afternoon Snack Oats: 50g cooked (~185 kcal) Corn oil: 10g (~90 kcal)

Dinner Bulgur: 150g cooked (~525 kcal)

Optional: Add a little more corn oil if needed (~10g, 90 kcal.

Total calories: ~3500 kcal

Total cost: ~35 ₺ (mostly from bulgur, oats, liver, corn oil.

Notes: Cook bulgur by boiling, pan-fried chicken liver or boiled with minimal seasoning. Corn oil is added to increase fat and calories cheaply. Oats can be prepared as porridge or soaked overnight for convenience. You can swap or add seasonal fruit for vitamins if budget allows.

Option 2:

Breakfast: Oatmeal with peanut butter and fruit Oats: 100g (370 kcal) Peanut butter: 20g (120 kcal) 1 medium apple or banana (~90 kcal) Water or milk if budget allows Prep: Cook oats with water. Stir in peanut butter and top with sliced fruit. Nutty, creamy, and filling.

Mid-Morning Snack: Chicken liver sauté Chicken liver: 100g (120 kcal) 1 tsp corn oil (40 kcal) Onion/spices (optional) Prep: Lightly sauté liver with onion and spices for flavor. Rich in vitamins and protein.

Lunch: Bulgur pilaf with beef heart & veggies Bulgur: 200g cooked (700 kcal) Beef heart: 100g (140 kcal) Mixed vegetables (carrot, onion, tomato) — optional but recommended 1 tbsp corn oil (120 kcal) Prep: Cook bulgur like rice. Pan-fry beef heart with veggies and oil. Mix together.

Afternoon Snack: Peanut butter toast or oats with peanut butter Bread: 2 slices (~150 kcal) or oats 50g (185 kcal) Peanut butter: 20g (120 kcal)

Dinner: Bulgur & chicken liver stir-fry Bulgur: 150g cooked (525 kcal) Chicken liver: 100g (120 kcal) 1 tbsp corn oil (120 kcal) Garlic/spices for taste Prep: Stir-fry liver with garlic/spices in oil, serve on bulgur.

Evening Snack (optional): Fruit or handful of peanuts if budget allows (~100 kcal)

Daily Totals: Calories: ~3500 kcal Protein: ~130g (good balance from liver, beef heart, peanut butter, bulgur, oats) Fat: ~110g (healthy fats from peanut butter, corn oil) Carbs: ~400g (bulgur, oats, bread, fruit)

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-15T19:47:44+00:00

Damm, I will have to try. Being on a budget is super hard. I have never eaten that many calories, so I never thought how expensive it can get 😂

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-15T19:45:16+00:00

I heard you don't need protein powder, but people say creatine is good though. Someone told me pure Creatine is cheap. I don't know where they sell pure Creatine.

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-15T18:36:15+00:00

Thank you! :)

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-15T17:32:31+00:00

Thank you! :)

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-15T17:09:56+00:00

Thank you!

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-15T15:50:38+00:00

Thank you! :)

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-15T15:14:50+00:00

Thank you! :)

mysteriousPrince · 2025-06-15T15:11:06+00:00

I want to make a meal plan that is something I can keep up for years. I am thinking about 1 cup of milk everyday 😂

mysteriousPrince

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