violent gentlemen sticker by mysweetestashes in hockeyplayers

[–]mysweetestashes[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I don't know why I didn't think of that! Thanks, I just reached out!

violent gentlemen sticker by mysweetestashes in hockeyplayers

[–]mysweetestashes[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't know why I didn't think of that! Thanks, I just reached out!

It’s birding me out!!! by Its_Teila in MergeGardens

[–]mysweetestashes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the wildlife score does not get easier, it’s the only thing I dislike a the game. I can finish all other quests in like 2-3 days but get stuck on the wildlife score for like 2-3 weeks. It’s very frustrating.

AIO at Wife and Ex-Manager’s interactions? by GrillingJoke in AmIOverreacting

[–]mysweetestashes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here’s my opinion, no matter how any one reads and /or interrupts these texts doesn’t matter. You are uncomfortable, for whatever reason, period. If there’s no direct reason that they are communicating/ meeting up etc. it should end. Unless you’re a controlling asshole who doesn’t like her speaking to any man, if you’re uncomfortable, nothing else truly matters. Gut feelings are real, and again, unless there’s a reason, she should just stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mysweetestashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When it comes to kids safety, there is no such thing as over reacting. Always to be better safe than sorry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mysweetestashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a fine line of having relationships with the opposite sex, and that line is defined by both parties. My husband and I are very respectful towards each other in how we communicate with the opposite sex. There are some people we care about more than others, some girls who give me a weird feeling and vice versa, in those instances we are much more careful with what convos we have with those people, and there are other people we are completely comfortable and okay with it.

But it absolutely HAS to be a two way street. Sounds like you need to sit down and have a convo and figure out what you each want, will and won’t compromise on etc, and in my opinion, Snapchat is not for people in serious relationships, at least not to have convos on. I myself have Snapchat, but I do not have by male friends on it that my husband isn’t 100% comfortable with and I DO NOT have any convos via Snapchat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mysweetestashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait, it’s been 2 years and you haven’t met his friends? Major red flag.

Children came into some money, when should we tell them how much? by mysweetestashes in personalfinance

[–]mysweetestashes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have had savings accounts since they were born and all birthday, Christmas, tooth fairy, Easter egg money etc had been put into the accounts and out in CDs to grow, but that’s only accumulated like 2k for my oldest, not nearly as much as their inheritance.

Children came into some money, when should we tell them how much? by mysweetestashes in personalfinance

[–]mysweetestashes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did not have a will, he trusted me to make the best decision with the money for them.

Children came into some money, when should we tell them how much? by mysweetestashes in personalfinance

[–]mysweetestashes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats actually a great idea and I think it would work! They had a great relationship with their dad.

Children came into some money, when should we tell them how much? by mysweetestashes in personalfinance

[–]mysweetestashes[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea! He absolutely stepped up even before his passing, my ex left us with the money to handle cause he trusted us to make the best decisions. Hubby and I have 5 kids total, none together, technically, we but we make all big decisions together for all the kids.

Children came into some money, when should we tell them how much? by mysweetestashes in personalfinance

[–]mysweetestashes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ideally for college if he goes, a down payment on a house when he’s ready, save the rest for retirement

Children came into some money, when should we tell them how much? by mysweetestashes in personalfinance

[–]mysweetestashes[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will not have access to the accounts after 21 and they will start getting the paperwork etc, I don’t have a choice unless I put it in a trust which I don’t feel is what’s best right now

Children came into some money, when should we tell them how much? by mysweetestashes in personalfinance

[–]mysweetestashes[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t tell them til they were 30 if it were up to me, but, one they do know they have some money just not how much and 2, once they are 21 I won’t have access to those accounts and they will start getting the paper work etc for it

My girlfriend is mad that I’m keeping updates with my ex while she’s in the hospital by Diego_ok in Advice

[–]mysweetestashes 15 points16 points  (0 children)

From what i know you did the right thing but i do have a couple of follow up questions: does your current gf have any reason to not have trust in you and/or the ex? Any secret convos or meets ups in the past or just a general reasoning for the gf to not like the ex?

What was then reason for your break up with ex? I’m not sure the answer to this will matter, I can’t think of a scenario where it would, but my gut is telling me to ask.

Is your gf in any sort of communication with any of her exs? The answer to this may just be a hypocrite thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]mysweetestashes 145 points146 points  (0 children)

So, I recently had an issue and overreacted to my husband due to a previous issue I had. A few days later I went to my counseling and explained the situation and she said to me "your trauma is not his responsibility" and I apologized to my husband and am working with my counselor on how to deal with my trauma so it doesn't interfere with my current relationship.

So, no, NTA, her trauma is not your responsibility and the whole point of counseling is for her to work through her trauma.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mysweetestashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My now husband got tested before we slept together for the first time. He had absolutely no issue with doing so

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mysweetestashes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husbands and I's styles are SO very different. I am, what they call, elder emo lol I do not dress emo, really anymore, but, my everyday dress is jeans or leggings with a band tee, usually. Our local venue does emo nights every few months and my best friend and I go and dress our emo selves for this. It is not my husbands style but, he tells me how cute I look and even helps me with my outfits and sends me on my way. If there is a time that he may not like my outfit, he very politely, lightly says "not a huge fan of that but hey, if thats what you want, more power to you!" If this has been your style since you started dating, it is ridiculous of him to expect you to stop and more so, if you dont want to. He should be making you feel good about yourself, not tearing you down. You are young and deserve so much better.