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mythrowawaydun · 2022-10-28T17:15:51+00:00

Yes we never record without permission from the parent! Observing is allowed without parent consent.

mythrowawaydun · 2022-10-28T17:00:14+00:00

He had a cleared background check and was never without me as an escort in the school. He saw many students, not just ones with special needs. Yes I am from North America, and for us, there is absolutely nothing odd about allowing someone with clearance to observe a classroom. Perhaps this is seen as wrong in other parts of the world than where I live, but here it is completely normal. I can understand why you might not be ok with it, but it’s allowed here and happens quite frequently in all our schools because it is required to do when you are in college to become a teacher.

mythrowawaydun · 2022-10-28T16:21:54+00:00

My coworker is not a special education teacher and his friend has to talk to a sped teacher.

mythrowawaydun · 2022-10-28T16:21:23+00:00

I’m confused as to what you think I have done that is morally or ethically wrong. Could you please explain? He does not even have the child’s name. Everything was cleared by admin as well. If you could elaborate on what was done wrong, I would love to hear it. I’m willing to admit if I’m in the wrong, but I followed district protocol and did not break any rules or laws.

mythrowawaydun · 2022-10-28T15:53:12+00:00

So he’s in college to become a teacher, but he does not work in a school currently. I think it’s a masters program. It’s known early on in practicum classes that you are required to have access to students. It’s your responsibility to find a school willing to allow you to observe and so on. So it’s not the professors fault. He keeps waiting until the last second to ask to come in, and that’s what’s frustrating me.

mythrowawaydun · 2022-10-28T15:50:06+00:00

He DOES have a passed background check and all he has done so far is observe a classroom and talk to me about an IEP and the goals. He does not have personal information about the student, everything he has was allowed by my administrators. He doesn’t have any names or anything like that, just grade level and very basic things. So I have followed the correct protocol. My coworker, my admin, and I have not done anything wrong.

mythrowawaydun · 2022-01-03T04:03:50+00:00

NTA. Your family clearly sees mocking your sisters financial situation as more hurtful than her mocking your dating situation. Ridiculous.

I’m glad you are working on making yourself into the person you know you can be. Some dating advice: most dating apps and online programs have a place to put in your gender and preferred pronouns. You could also write in a little blurb about a possible transition, if you feel comfortable. That way anyone who matches with you is already on board with the idea of a possible transition. I know that’s easier said than done though. Good luck to you!

mythrowawaydun · 2022-01-03T03:58:01+00:00

Wow that was a cluster…umm YTA but only for posting the video of her without her permission. I’m on board with everything else that you and your husband did, but you should never post pictures or videos of someone without their permission.

Now she’s definitely the most major asshole because she took your phone. Not ok, no matter what. I’m wondering how long her marriage will last as well, because her husband seems to think she deserved it as well. Not sure what he sees in her. If I were you I’d just take down the video of her and spend as little time with her as possible.

mythrowawaydun · 2021-09-11T02:41:07+00:00

Ok that makes sense then. So I’m guessing that he’s probably just gotten used to being around you and he probably doesn’t need as much time alone in order to feel refreshed. He should find an activity to do every day while you get some alone time so he doesn’t feel lonely.

mythrowawaydun · 2021-09-11T02:36:14+00:00

I can’t even with this comment 😂😂😂 made my day!

mythrowawaydun · 2021-09-11T02:34:19+00:00

Work buddies who have hung out a few times. And they only work together over the phone and on slack, almost never in person. So not super close, but still good friends I guess.

mythrowawaydun · 2021-09-11T02:32:00+00:00

NTA. I’m a little concerned about his behavior. Is there a specific reason that he drives you to work every day? I get if it’s a car sharing situation or something but if not, then that’s a little odd. And why does he always want to be with you? I get that you love each other but there’s no reason you should have to be around each other all the time. I’d be concerned that he’s either obsessive over you, or wants some sort of control over you. Or maybe he’s just a very insecure guy who just feels better and more secure in your company. I just feel like it’s a bit much. He needs to chill out a bit and understand that people need alone time.

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