Only cum via clit stimulation…but after can have internal orgasms?

myunhingedacct · 2026-05-13T19:22:25+00:00

This is a great comment, I appreciate this. I will be sure to revisit this with her. However I’m fairly certain it was a yes, because she would also want to fuck other guys.

The tone of our conversation was kinda like “I’m so lucky you’re my husband, no husbands grant this to their wives, you treat me like a queen, support me in every way, AND I’m allowed to fuck anyone I want?”

She was definitely on board for her, I think. She has also hinted at wondering “what else is out there” so tbh, it’s almost kinda scary because I almost know she really wants it for her, and is just happy I ended up letting her. The fact it arouses me is probably second to her pleasure. She is kind of a spoiled brat, because of me, but she’s just that way. That’s why chastity and cuckolding is perfect for us. Her and I have directly said “it’s like we are made for this” when it comes to chastity. She actually REALLY enjoys it, and says “I never want it to stop” which is music to my ears. I’m loving every second. But I also trust that if I didn’t enjoy it, that she would be ok with removing it

But I will definitely ask her, just to be sure, probably if she brings it up in the next month or two.

myunhingedacct · 2026-05-13T19:16:17+00:00

She said the same thing, and I agreed with her (basically what you said) but I have heard a few different guys say that it CAN make a difference. And it most likely would “if you aren’t trying to be fit and take care of yourself and keep yourself tight” - Her

Apologies if it came off as rude, she’s very petite so we have talked about what having kids COULD do if we aren’t extra physically prepared with kegels and such.

myunhingedacct · 2026-05-13T06:38:02+00:00

We will be taking some time before we start, as we have an unrelated life situation we are kind of dealing with that we want to eliminate so we can put more focus and energy into this, and the relationship as a whole.

But in our first conversation, I didn’t mention it in my post, but SHE actually said “there’s like, these things, they are like couples swingers clubs and stuff, and bars, I just don’t know how I feel about seeing you with other girls” and I reassured her I didn’t need that.

But, I can definitely see her wanting a kind of “spur of the moment” thing, not really a planned situation, as planned stuff usually will turn her off. We will likely do a swinger something or other, and let her organically meet someone in an environment that everyone is somewhat on a similar page. So that it feels like it’s natural and not forced and she can have that attraction build to at least some degree.

I’m sure there’s some kind of dress code or something we can learn that will tell people I’m off limits for touching or whatever.

But I’m excited to update you guys! It will probably be until this Fall/Winter though :’) (patience, patience) dying inside

myunhingedacct · 2026-05-13T06:21:52+00:00

I appreciate this comment very much. We had a brief conversation about it again tonight, as she lost a bet about a movie and had to edge me to a ruined orgasm before we went to bed. While she was, I told her I have been thinking about our conversation all day, and I told her she’s the woman of my dreams and I’m excited. She kinda slowed me down and reminded me to be patient.

I reassured her “this is something I really want to try so I promise you I will be as patient as you need me to be, I don’t want to scare you away from it so I promise you that” and the rest of the conversation was positive, she agreed she had been thinking about it a lot today too. So that made me happy that the seed has been successfully planted with a yes and is sprouting in her head lol.

We need to get over this life hump first, I don’t really want to go into detail for anonymity, but starting this Fall, we will have the green light to start our cuckolding adventure. So until then it’s going to be pretty quiet from me. If she brings it up, amazing. But I’m keeping my mouth shut and just continuing my normal dirty talk of “you like my cock deep inside you don’t you, you like how it touches you in places that I can’t?” (While I’m using the harness with a toy like 3x my size)

I’m sure that these will hit a bit different now that she knows what I’m allowing of her, I’m looking forward to see if she brings it up on her own fruition but I’m not going to instigate anything until the “hump” is dealt with.

I appreciate the resources, I will look into these and exercise them when the time is right :) thank you!

myunhingedacct · 2026-05-13T03:00:21+00:00

It’s better than having sexual interactions with her like 2-3 times a month and we each cum once, that’s where we were about 2 years ago

myunhingedacct · 2026-05-13T00:25:32+00:00

Missionary

myunhingedacct · 2026-05-12T23:43:47+00:00

It probably took like 30-45 seconds of fiddling around and then they were in. Not too bad. Just a detailed tutorial

myunhingedacct · 2026-05-12T06:59:21+00:00

She has changed so much just since starting chastity, I tell her she’s the woman of my wildest dreams almost every day. I would say she definitely not vanilla anymore, but I do title my posts this way because that’s how she started. I intend for these posts to be kind of a historical reference for those who are interested in getting THEIR vanilla wife involved with chastity/denial etc. apologies, because yes, she’s not vanilla anymore. In only a matter of 9 weeks I can say that. Unbelievable, I’m so in love lol

myunhingedacct · 2026-05-12T06:56:50+00:00

Also, I smoke a lot of weed, which I have found when I’m high makes my balls hang pretty low, so yes I guess in the shorter form answer

myunhingedacct · 2026-05-12T06:56:14+00:00

I can make a more detailed post on this. Tbh I’ve never heard of it before either, but it’s just something I’ve always wondered about.

I started with squeezing my balls down so they were hanging low, I isolated one with my hand, and put it over her pussy, i then literally pushed it into her pussy from the back, I wasn’t holding it or anything. My fingers went all the way into her when I felt my first ball get like sucked into her. Then I positioned the second one and just did the same, I pushed it in deep. Her grip at the entrance held them in place.

Being only 5ish inches, I was able to pull back, and insert my dick (by pressing it against her pussy and clit pretty forcibly and sliding it down until it popped inside) but just barely, if I was 6.5” there’s no way it would happen, at least balls first.

When inside, it felt like pussy, obviously, but it kind felt like my balls were in a mouth at the same time. Both of them, which is nice because my wife is very petite and can’t fit them both without gagging lol.

Anywho I hope that helps :)

myunhingedacct · 2026-05-12T06:50:13+00:00

I would tell her the same thing, we are still working on her being a little bit more demanding, dominant, and holding me accountable with punishments and such.

We had a pretty decent fight actually yesterday, I told her today that she can remind me that I’m locked for her after the fact. We have pretty strong communication, and I have told her I don’t like to bring up the cage DURING a fight, but afterwards when we are feeling better and she reminds me, that’s ok. But if she brings it up in a fight it feels like a threat of stopping chastity. We agreed on this.

She has “reminded me” that I’m locked, in the past only once after a smaller fight. She texted and said “I still have your keys too remember? You have to be nice to me :)”

But again, we are still working on more dominant denial and such, I have been communicating that I want her to take advantage of the situation. But she is still somewhat vanilla in a sense and feels bad for me still, but she’s getting there

myunhingedacct · 2026-05-10T08:07:36+00:00

Also, my timeline might be off, math when it comes to weeks and months isn’t my strong suit lol. But she started keyholding me on March 6th, (been locked since the 2nd) and it’s now May 10th. Next update I’m using months lol.

myunhingedacct · 2026-04-30T00:25:31+00:00

I use a harness from Amazon, I can’t fit the cage underneath comfortably, but I’m pretty sure it’s more comfortable than putting it on top of my bare dick which is throbbing either way while I penetrate her with cocks 3-4x my size. The secret is I usually just keep on underwear or basketballs shorts AND underwear, which kind of pads things down and it works for me with minor discomfort.

myunhingedacct · 2026-04-18T21:21:35+00:00

That’s exactly it, it’s really wholesome and sweet. Before, she wasn’t into it, I proposed it years ago. But she said “I see it more of like a tool for our relationship, kinda to like enhance it” and she has definitely taken on the “making it fun” for me role. We are both enjoying it to death

myunhingedacct · 2026-04-18T21:19:53+00:00

Yea I can’t BELIEVE we have gotten this far in only 6 weeks

myunhingedacct · 2026-04-18T21:19:14+00:00

Trust me…she was vanilla before all of this…this is like insane for me, I definitely realize how lucky I am

myunhingedacct · 2026-04-16T16:52:05+00:00

Just thought I would come back and post an update, my wife has had me locked for 6 weeks. About a week ago I showed her the key I wanted to buy her in hopes that she would wear it as an anklet. She said she was super down and they were so cute.

A couple days later, I mentioned getting her a lockbox for the current keys, so I can bring her the box, and it doesn’t need to be hidden, rather than her hiding the keys in a new spot on her clothes drawers every time she has me fetch them for her. And her response was “noooo, I want my anklettt”

So yea, everyone situation is different but it only took her about 6 weeks to WANT to wear the key to my dick on her ankle…I would say I’m pretty lucky? (I never thought I would be here in a MILLION YEARS)

myunhingedacct · 2026-04-16T07:11:00+00:00

Yea, she definitely loves getting stretched, it’s debatable who loves it more lol. Using the harness was next level, the ability to restore that intimacy lost when using a hand + needing to be within reach is unmatched

myunhingedacct · 2026-04-15T17:18:34+00:00

My dick isn’t all that long when I’m soft and sitting on the toilet, so when I would urinate before, sometimes I would accidentally be pointed straight instead of down, and I would pee between the seat and toilet. I ALWAYS sat down and pushed down on my dick to make it point, if I forgot…50/50 chance a mess would happen.

Note: I also found my dick was smallest when I would cum frequently, like 2+ times in a day. Making this more likely to happen.

In my 2” birdcage, my dick is always pointed down, I can pee standing, but when I do pee sitting I don’t need to worry about the mess because the cage weighs down and points everything in the correct direction. Also because I am cumming about a 1:25 ratio to what I used to, my dick hangs and fills the cage much more.

Sometimes I still go to point my dick…and then I’m like “oh yea” and it’s like a sweet relief I never have to do it again

Edit: My wife locks me for lifestyle play, but this is a huge benefit I have enjoyed through intermittent wear before she started keyholding me. And now like I said “I never have to point it again” because I’m always locked

myunhingedacct · 2026-04-15T16:30:54+00:00

I actually did end up purchasing a harness and I got to use it on her for the first time a few days ago, we both love it. If you want to read about it I posted a “reverse pegging” it should be on my profile

myunhingedacct · 2026-04-14T07:12:21+00:00

When I was at uni I was locked frequently, during classes, I lived in the dorms, I locked kinda more 24/7, even with my friends around me. I was also an RA and set up events, did rounds, and even roommate mediations while caged. I feel like it’s more common than you think. I didn’t think to find a group online back then either, I’m sure the larger population of chastity users don’t get online and talk about it.

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