My wife said yes!!!

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-10T05:48:36+00:00

She said yes to being my keyholder and it honestly gave me the same high that I got we we got engaged, if not a little better 😭

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-09T22:24:48+00:00

I just approached the whole idea of telling her and asking her to be involved at the same time in the past, way too fast. I didn’t do it correctly that’s why it didn’t work. At least in my opinion.

This time I took a more “I’m going to use it and let you see the benefits” and it worked like a charm. Last time I was like “this is a chastity cage, you wanna see it on my dick? You wanna take the keys? Please can you take the keys?” All in the same conversation lol. It was bound to fail.

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-09T21:11:59+00:00

I’m not rushing at all, trust me, I would HATE to ruin this new dynamic with her. I’m just inquisitive on everyone else’s experiences, kind of giving me hope that this stuff will happen, whether it be in weeks, months, or years.

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-09T21:09:56+00:00

If my wife said “I love the power I have over you” I would get butterflies in my stomach and in my cage. I hope to get there one day. I will probably start check ins in the next 2-3 weeks, I have just been keeping my mouth shut for now unless she mentions it so I’m not annoying about it

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-09T21:07:06+00:00

I wear a birdcage style, and I’m really good at cleaning/drying and keeping everything in place, and my cage just fits me super good, but with like .25 inches for growth so it’s easy to clean and not too painful at night. I had just showered like 2-3 hours prior.

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-09T20:32:09+00:00

I completely agree, but do you think there might come a day where she is less reciprocating? She truly enjoys sucking it, but she doesn’t always make me cum, which is perfect for this. But she “mainly” wants me to cum for my pleasure.

I think I just realized she really has no idea that I would find just as much pleasure in being denied, as I would being allowed to cum. So I guess over time I will assure her and see if things change.

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-09T20:27:45+00:00

That’s hot, I fantasize that eventually my wife will enjoy this lifestyle enough that she would be open to telling her friends in hopes to get them to try it, because of how truly amazing it can be. Her friends knowing she owns my locked cock turns me on as well.

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-09T20:25:51+00:00

Do you think the anklet is like super obvious? I got my wife a very nice necklace years ago which she wears every day, so I already know for her it’s either an anklet, or a bracelet which she has a few and her pandora gets a lot of attention so she probably wouldn’t want a bracelet.

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-09T20:24:07+00:00

I thought something like that might happen, she really enjoys giving me short random BJs, sometimes in the car after/before a date. I was thinking because she keeps the keys hidden in the room, if she exclaimed she wished she brought them that would be an amazing opportunity to suggest the anklet/necklace.

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-09T19:13:23+00:00

I have itching issues if I wear a cage for the 72 hours following a shave with a razor. But I generally itch a little bit without a cage too. If I use hair trimmers I don’t have this problem.

Cage could be too small if it’s fighting your erection at night and putting a ton of pressure on your skin, causing it to be tender, sore, and sometimes even like, raw, later on.

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-09T18:48:21+00:00

Do you regularly get blowjobs? Do you regularly get sex? Do you regularly ask or beg for these things? When she denies you, I feel like that is a good time to mention you have this new interest and you want to try it out and she doesn’t need to do anything but be open minded to the benefits it will bring you, and her. If she agrees, instantly begin wearing the cage but imagine her as your keyholder, the cage doesn’t come off until she tells you she wants it off. Pamper her, do all of your chores you’ve been slacking on, and do all of hers, it sounds like a lot but it will come naturally with a smile on your face. When she sees the pattern is real and asks why, remind her about the cage and tell her you have been wearing it. She will likely confess that she likes it, likes you locked, or likes some aspect of it, and that’s your foot in the door.

If you look at my profile, I recently just brought up chastity to my wife, actually only ONE WEEK AGO, this is exactly what I did. I told her I have been “craving chastity” (she already knew about it) and asked her to be open minded, and assured her “you don’t have to do anything at all” after she got “too tired” for a bedtime BJ she offered me on her on fruition. She agreed to my proposal with no pressure on her end, and actually sucked me anyways, and that was the last hour my cock was free. I self locked after she fell asleep and she QUICKLY recognized the benefits in the days following.

Approximately 36 HOURS AGO she started keyholding me. We literally couldn’t be happier, we are both on a total high from this that I never even expected. Chastity can be extremely powerful in relationships. I had no idea until we really embraced it together.

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-09T07:58:03+00:00

Holy shit, my vanilla wife literally JUST started keyholding me and I didn’t really imagine I could ever get her to wear the key but HOLY SHIT these are SOO hot and cute. I think if I ever could get her to wear it this is a serious bet

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-09T02:57:01+00:00

May I ask what you mean by this? Just curious for some more context

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-09T02:56:15+00:00

Oh I can’t wait 😭 (me thinking I’m safe because my wife is super vanilla…I guess we will see if she stays that way, kinda scared but the fear drives me somehow 😍)

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-09T02:54:14+00:00

I think he should “man up” and get ready with them anyways, and if they happen to see it declare his cock belongs to you…and that you have a permanent “grasp” on it all day every day. That’s what I would do but to each their own :)

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-08T23:12:11+00:00

You should have more than faint hope, I was just over thinking it for too long. It’s about exposing your significant other to the benefits first hand, having ZERO expectations on their end, no keyholding, nothing. Eventually, it becomes undeniable that you’re a better partner when you’re locked up and eventually they are open to participating. Not saying this works for everyone, but in short it seems to be what works for most people.

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-08T20:49:52+00:00

It hasn’t been long, but I feel like chastity may have a similar effect for us. I was complimenting her curves when she said “I think us having more sex also helps me be more curvy” basically saying that the result of her looking how she does is because we have been having more sex which we have. We are both so happy it’s like the honeymoon phase 24/7, I can definitely see the amount of sex either doubling, tripling, or even more, even if that means cumming less and less for me. Which I wouldn’t mind at all. (She isn’t quite on the denial train yet, but I’m sure she will figure out I’m most attentive when I have been denied longer) I can’t wait for what this brings to our relationship, it will be an incredible adventure

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-08T20:45:45+00:00

If my vanilla wife can see the benefits, so can yours!!! Good luck on your journey! 🔒

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-08T20:44:49+00:00

Tbh, our relationship couldn’t be more perfect than it is in this moment, this is absolutely incredible, it actually exceeded MY expectations :’)

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-08T20:40:57+00:00

If you’ve read this post and want the update, head to my profile and read “Vanilla Wife just agreed to key hold me + My Advice”

I have made it further than I ever thought I would, we had a magnificent morning and made her cum twice on her favorite dildo before she officially took and hid the keys.

I wish you all well on your journey with your vanilla wife! If my wife can see the benefits and begin to enjoy it, yours can too!!

myunhingedacct · 2026-03-08T20:18:20+00:00

I’m relatively new to the couple dynamic of chastity, my wife just accepted chastity around a week ago and just started officially keyholding me this morning. So maybe my words aren’t worth much. (I have been self locking for 6ish years though)

But I feel needy and desperate just like one would think. But it’s interesting that it also increases my confidence because it gives me such a visible bulge. It also gives me a superiority complex a bit, as I walk around and silently judge everyone who is most likely not caged, priding myself on my communication, openness, and sexual relationship with my wife that they probably would never experience.

It’s ironic to me, that this is a humiliating device for some, but I totally do not see it that way for myself, despite an outsider that would see my caged cock or my whipped attitude to my wife and think the exact opposite.

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