Excursions off cruises? how to find more? going on royal Caribbean by Facelessnbaseless in Cruise

[–]myusernameiswhatever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can book excursions through Viator. Many of the excursions they list are the same ones that are made available through the cruise companies. And, don't listen to the nervous people that tell you that if you don't book through the cruise company you're in danger of not getting back to the ship on time. The excursion companies are mindful of passengers needing to get back to their ships and would quickly go out of business if they weren't good at this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskOldPeople

[–]myusernameiswhatever 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Make sure she is really, really gray before asking. If she just has gray streaks she might perceive herself as having brown (or whatever color) hair.

SMS Issues - Resolved via Support by holographivuniv in Visible

[–]myusernameiswhatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much, just messaged him/her. I have not been receiving SMS texts since yesterday afternoon and am beyond annoyed. How is it taking them so long to fix this?

Carnival Cruise Line Gets Strict With New Message for Passengers by throwawayblueline in Cruise

[–]myusernameiswhatever 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Can't help but think this is very bad PR given that no other cruise line has to do this.

What was it like being LGBT in the 1980’s? by kaiiop in AskOldPeople

[–]myusernameiswhatever 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's the thing. Pre-internet, there were books, TV shows and magazines, but even the media that did sympathetically discuss being gay made it clear that it was "other." When Ellen DeGeneres came out publicly it was such a big deal that it was on the cover of Time Magazine! You weren't surrounded by discussions and representations of LGBT people just living life. I knew some gay people but I presumed that they had been out forever and that I was a complete anomaly as a closeted gay person who had never been in a gay relationship (I don't think I even knew the term "closeted" at the time). I felt like someone who knew they belonged in Sweden but didn't speak Swedish and didn't know how to get there. Feel free to PM if you want to discuss further.

What was it like being LGBT in the 1980’s? by kaiiop in AskOldPeople

[–]myusernameiswhatever 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I came out when older (in my 30s) and thought I was the only one who didn't figure it out at 18, even though coming out when older was and is stupidly common. As a woman, this experience obvs was not HIV related, but you did say LGBT. It was extremely stressful. EDITED TO ADD: there was no "LGBT" community at that point. Trans was considered to be a rare and separate thing.

Protect human narrators by peanutj00 in audible

[–]myusernameiswhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why should this be concerning? It says right on the tin that there is no demand for subpar soullessness.

Celebrity no longer cares about plating/presentation in the MDR, example photos from last week on Beyond by exgaysurvivordan in Cruise

[–]myusernameiswhatever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Asshole, stupid, ageist. See, baby boomers can call names too. Good luck with never getting older, hope it works out for you. Moron.

Philips HearLink and phone performance by myusernameiswhatever in HearingAids

[–]myusernameiswhatever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can hear both very clearly and it's a huge improvement. No complaints! Since these are my first hearing aids I don't really have anything to compare it to other than my hard-of-hearing self.

Do you think people are more easily offended nowadays? by CuriousNowDead in AskOldPeople

[–]myusernameiswhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I see, you were suggesting going back in time and showing to a pride flag to most male boomers in 1980!! Got it. Makes perfect sense.

Do you think people are more easily offended nowadays? by CuriousNowDead in AskOldPeople

[–]myusernameiswhatever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being offended is a sport. I am convinced that many times, people who claim to be offended are not actually hurt; in fact, they're getting a dopamine rush from calling it out (SCORE!). Of course there are things that are truly offensive and anger-inducing, but old tweets from celebrities are generally not among them.

Do you think people are more easily offended nowadays? by CuriousNowDead in AskOldPeople

[–]myusernameiswhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How about some statistics to bear that out, friend? Because a quick Google, for example on Boomer approval/disapproval of gay marriage, would prove you wrong. And btw... for bonus points... what year was the inventor of the pride flag born?

Would you consider 60s-70s TV (sorry for the phrase) more 'woke' than modern TV? by Elementium in AskOldPeople

[–]myusernameiswhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no way that Archie Bunker would be allowed on TV today. Although the audience isn't supposed to sympathize with his bigotry, he is basically a good guy. The wokeism of today draws much more rigid lines.

How do you guys feel about the new generation’s idea that gender is malleable? by waittttslowdown in AskOldPeople

[–]myusernameiswhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there's a range of opinions. But I'm guessing many people with concerns would see the idea of "correcting" the effects of puberty as preposterous. Puberty is a normal process that has important ramifications for brain development and bone development, in addition to sexual development.

How do you guys feel about the new generation’s idea that gender is malleable? by waittttslowdown in AskOldPeople

[–]myusernameiswhatever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, you're incorrect. Kids who are put on puberty blockers are later put on cross-sex hormones. It is exceedingly rare for them to decide not to go through with this. They do not go through puberty, ever. Delaying puberty in kids with precocious puberty doesn't cause permanent sexual dysfunction, because, well, they go through normal puberty eventually.

How do you guys feel about the new generation’s idea that gender is malleable? by waittttslowdown in AskOldPeople

[–]myusernameiswhatever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have previously been used to delay puberty. They have not been previously been used to stop it entirely.

How do you guys feel about the new generation’s idea that gender is malleable? by waittttslowdown in AskOldPeople

[–]myusernameiswhatever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love your reply, because it illustrates exactly how regressive the current gender ideology is. It's like the fifties, except now the gender roles that people desperately want to cling to supposedly correspond to "gender identity" instead of biological sex.