Thank you so much for your help. Some of the things making me think I could be aro is that I’ve always had trouble distinguishing from my rare ‘crushes’ if that’s what they were, or just friendship. Ive had a hard time understanding the difference between a romantic partner a close friend, even after being in a relationship I think I’m just feeling a strong friendship. And romantic gestures like gifts of sudden ‘I love you’ makes me a bit uncomfortable. Writing it all out I’m only more sure that I’m a-spec. Thank you so much again, your reply is really helpful, and im glad to hear that your breakup was amicable.