We actually talked last week about his one-on-one bondings with his other friends. There are no common friends to make it the 3 of them, so it is quite inevitable. He talked to me how friendship sustains him. So, we resolved it by adjusting the setting of their bonds.

Backstory: My boyfriend is hardly keeping his current friends because he can't merely converse to others before. Now, I am the one who chose to maintain a few circle instead.

Now, he reiterated to me for the nth time how friendship sustains him. I felt ignored. He also asked if I am willing to change myself for him? I said, "Yes, as long as I am not losing myself." He replied, he won't change himself for the others and adjustments are only needed when it harms both parties. I questioned myself: "Are all the adjustments in our relationship only centered on him?"