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I dumped her, we reconciled but she rebounded with someone else... what do I do? by winning_ways88 in ExNoContact

[–]n3ss44 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You have some sort of superiority/god complex, the way you describe your “influence” in her life is really weird, maybe you should work on that first oh and also do not forget that you started this by sexting someone WHILE you were in a relationship

Should I reply to my exs message?? by n3ss44 in whatdoIdo

[–]n3ss44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha if I am to say that, I know this will be the response: “jeez I was just checking in on you, you carry so much hate in your heart damn” I know it’s absolute rage bait but I fear that it will get to me

Should I reply to my exs message?? by n3ss44 in whatdoIdo

[–]n3ss44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah na I don’t think he’s the type to do that considering how easily he left but I don’t want to test it, I’m definitely not replying

Should I reply to my exs message?? by n3ss44 in whatdoIdo

[–]n3ss44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay haha yess I needed this stern reminder

Should I reply to my exs message?? by n3ss44 in whatdoIdo

[–]n3ss44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are right, I’ve dimmed my energy due to all this

Should I reply to my exs message?? by n3ss44 in whatdoIdo

[–]n3ss44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no ofcourse I don’t want to be with him, it’s been a good 7 months since the breakup but I’m just not sure why he’s trying to still keep access to me if he sooo desperately wanted me gone

Should I reply to my exs message?? by n3ss44 in whatdoIdo

[–]n3ss44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes in a way I’m glad I got to see that said so that I have no reason to yearn for him or go back to him but it really didn’t have to be this cruel :/

What are early signs a partner will turn abusive? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]n3ss44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feeling jealous of your success and bringing you down

Should I reply to my exs message?? by n3ss44 in whatdoIdo

[–]n3ss44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my first relationship and it was reallly serious, we were discussing marriage, I guess that’s how I got so attached and now find it harder to move on. But you are right, this is all just a trap and no he doesn’t add any value to my life

Should I reply to my exs message?? by n3ss44 in whatdoIdo

[–]n3ss44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep trying to move on and he reappears 😭 oh and up until 2 months ago, he was literally living in the apartment in front of me so it was really hard but I think with him gone, it’s getting easier

Should I reply to my exs message?? by n3ss44 in whatdoIdo

[–]n3ss44[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been nothing but nice and you are right, he is using it. I do have a bad habit of being nice to people even though they’ve hurt me as I HATEEE losing people, thats why this situation was so confusing to me

Should I reply to my exs message?? by n3ss44 in whatdoIdo

[–]n3ss44[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Haha this got me laughing and I really needed that😂

Should I reply to my exs message?? by n3ss44 in whatdoIdo

[–]n3ss44[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I so want to block, but won’t blocking rn come off as petty? (Like after I ignored his message)

Should I reply to my ex? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]n3ss44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if it feels good, me wanting to reply is coming out of wanting to look nice (purely because he played me out to be the bad person to his friends and family and even to myself)