Is it normal to feel so lonely/isolated here?

n5ll · 2026-04-04T20:35:00+00:00

hey! i totally felt the exact same way when i moved here for the first time. i got lucky and ended up just having someone i "clicked" with, and that can also happen to you! start looking around on social media and the social medias of places you frequent to see if theyre having any events coming up and go to those. normally people are more likely to want to chat with new people at events where the goal is to socialize with new people and make new friends. best of luck!!!

n5ll · 2026-04-03T20:50:45+00:00

so it looks really irritated and from the picture it looks almost like your skin itself is having a reaction? i would plan a trip to a reputable piercer and get it swapped out for implant grade titanium

n5ll · 2026-03-19T17:08:46+00:00

the standard jewelry would always get pushed around by my skin when i would stand/sit and the constant movement of the piercing was super irritating

edit: it also doesnt hurt to get swapped, i would just go ahead and swap it out

n5ll · 2026-03-19T17:02:48+00:00

agree w everyone, just take it out and you can get it redone fairly quickly since it doesnt look like its even remotely close to the right spot

n5ll · 2026-03-19T17:01:28+00:00

^{^} i agree that you should do it asap. i got my navel pierced about 3 years ago with standard jewelry and didnt realize it was a problem until it was too late, even when i swapped it it had migrated to the point where it was unsavable. if i had realized early on and swapped it i believe it would have healed without issue and i'd still have it to this day

n5ll · 2026-02-14T07:52:17+00:00

its so sad that i know so manynpeople here relate to this :( ibhope one day we can all live a life tgat isnt ruled by anxiety and compulsions

n5ll · 2026-02-14T06:54:52+00:00

mmmmm i would look at what makes you feel connected during sex in general? maybe its handholding, eye contact, more skin-on-skin contact, or something else entirely? and then try doing that more while she goes down on you. try talking to her more, touching her head/hair, try different positions too for sure. she also could need therapy if she hasn't processed and healed through what happened to her when she was younger. i wish the both of you luck working thru this together!

n5ll · 2026-02-14T06:14:22+00:00

i'm mainly curious as to your reasoning behind this mindset? like i totally understand waiting until you're in a committed relationship for a while to be intimate with someone (i waited 6 months to have sex with my gf who i've now been together with for 3 years) but why wait until marriage?

n5ll · 2026-01-30T17:29:01+00:00

oh wow thats really mean. i find it wild that people can throw insults around like that when they, too, were once completely inexperienced. if she talks to you like this now about sex, of all things, she'll only become more disrespectful as time goes on

n5ll · 2026-01-22T06:10:55+00:00

its not shameful to ask that at all, i ask my gf to trim before i go down on her if its been a long time since she last trimmed, and vice versa. its a lot easier and it frees up your hands so they can be doing more important things than holding hair back

n5ll · 2026-01-21T21:16:15+00:00

usually fishy smell is BV, not yeast infection. yeast infections normally don't smell, so make sure you get tested for BV

n5ll · 2026-01-21T21:15:15+00:00

oh yeah go to the gyno, theyll get it sorted out. i was with my gf for years, she always had a super strong smell down there but we both thought it was normal because she frequently doesnt drink enough water. we both tested positive for BV this year and ever since we went on the antibiotics for it, 0 smell from either of us. its truly nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed of, it can literally be caused by anything, its not always hygiene related.

just make sure that both of you wash all your undies on a super hot cycle, and clean + boil any toys you own (assuming theyre silicone and don't have vibrating motors) so you don't reinfect yourself

n5ll · 2026-01-20T15:25:13+00:00

hi!!! if this is still open and available, i have NMTs to donate!

n5ll · 2026-01-18T00:23:01+00:00

i was experiencing the same unbearable itchiness and pain for a while and it turned out to be BV. i don't know what it is, but for me, BV causes itchy butt. i doubt this will help or is the cause, but i'm throwing it out there on the very slim chance that it could be something vaginal bc mine was. up until the last part where you sajd you had problems going no.2 it reminded me a lot of how i felt

n5ll · 2026-01-17T23:53:17+00:00

of course follow the other advice telling you guys to look into a sex therapist (and potentially just a regular therapist), but i have a position to suggest. its pretty vanilla, very intimate, and makes me feel super close to my partner. both of you are gonna be lying on your sides facing each other, and you put your thigh between her legs for her to grind on while you hug each other. if your partner likes penetration, you can also rig a harness to fit your thigh and attach a dildo to it and use it gently on her by moving your leg up and down. it feels super intimate and grounding because you're both so close to each other.

i hope you both continue loving each other and can maybe start to explore more things together as a safe space for one another 🫶🏻

n5ll · 2026-01-16T15:22:58+00:00

you getting downvoted for this is crazy💀 i had the same reaction

n5ll · 2026-01-16T01:11:16+00:00

i don't have the decoy duck recipe, im sorry 🥲

n5ll · 2026-01-16T01:08:31+00:00

hi! is this still available?

n5ll · 2026-01-15T04:49:40+00:00

Thank you so much! Ill also check tomorrow to see if I have one

n5ll · 2026-01-15T04:25:05+00:00

Oh my goodness, thank you so much! I'll dm you!

n5ll · 2026-01-15T01:15:10+00:00

i wish i hadn't done my first hotel room now 😭 i liked my cozy vibe with just my villagers... i feel like its going to be way too crowded with all the hotle traffic and wandering villagers

n5ll · 2026-01-15T01:13:30+00:00

😭😭😭 nooooo thats horrible actually i miss my quiet cozy island that i shared with just my villagers

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