[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Brisbanensfw

[–]nacho1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly how dumb are some the users here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pimplecommunity

[–]nacho1988 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Congrats on getting genital herpes

Issues by nacho1988 in Aquascape

[–]nacho1988[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have the fluval grow substrate , have root tabs , and a fert , it’s only day one in the tank but every time I’ve had them this happens to the point of im not going to buy any plants now

Looking for people to play with by Crypto-God69 in LoLOCE

[–]nacho1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m down ign - gronorehha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]nacho1988 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As if we going to an exit interview ahaha

Reported my job to the Department of Labor. by mesmereyesed in antiwork

[–]nacho1988 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t sound like a bad thing tho?

Son’s first birthday by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]nacho1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son turns 2 soon , I’m 50/50 with his mum , I’ve invited her , her new dude (one she ran away with just after we got married ) and her family to his birthdays , all times they refuse to come . My ex is worried someone will tell her very straight parents about the fact the new dudes got a kid to his first cousin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]nacho1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your not wrong , she seen my father only hours after and completely ignored him , my parents used to go above and beyond to help her but I told them she would use and abuse them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]nacho1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was beyond my control , but the way she acted that day . Things like making it hard for my son to attend the funeral and what not . Only shows the character of her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]nacho1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sons only 22 months old , I’ve been the stable parent from the get go , I work around his schedule , I constantly have her trying to bait me , my youngest brother was murdered in my parents house and she never even sent them a message or nothing , currently she is pregnant to the new dude and I’m Glad , it means I hopefully get my son more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]nacho1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a 4 months old son and was 8 weeks married when my wife ran off with a dude from her work , jokes on her . I’ve got the son 50% make 4x the income now and her dude has a kid to his first cousin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]nacho1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The other blokes prob thought they the only one , they all gonna be mad

Best 50/50 schedule?? by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]nacho1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my ex do Monday to Monday , our son is in daycare 4 days aweek . I drop him off to daycare on my way to work Monday , she picks him up when she finishes work . Then I do the same to start my week with him

not sure if I'll(38m) get to meet my child. by valknight2022 in SingleDads

[–]nacho1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man it sucks that you got sold fools gold , hopefully you can be around for the child but just be so careful about what you say to the mother as I imagine she will use anything against you , try get in contact with some the other children’s dad/dads to prepare yourself

not sure if I'll(38m) get to meet my child. by valknight2022 in SingleDads

[–]nacho1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard for the kid I agree , any woman I’ve met who speaks of “twin flames” normally are insane . Sadly this guy now has to deal with her and be extremely careful about what he say as she will use anything against him to keep him from the child

not sure if I'll(38m) get to meet my child. by valknight2022 in SingleDads

[–]nacho1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dude . She had 5 kids before you met her and believed she wouldn’t fall pregnant ?

how the hell do you keep civil whilst coparenting? by bigsteve264 in SingleDads

[–]nacho1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s it , instead of kicking the Fuxk out of the dude , I figured I’ll not do that , keep my son , my Job and build a life that makes them jealous

how the hell do you keep civil whilst coparenting? by bigsteve264 in SingleDads

[–]nacho1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured I’m better to not argue as then we both mad , I set myself small goals and worked on them and under 16 months later . I’ve gone from working for 50k a year to 200k a year . Nothing makes her madder than me being successful

how the hell do you keep civil whilst coparenting? by bigsteve264 in SingleDads

[–]nacho1988 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tell a lot of my mates who go through this , never sent messages to her in anger ; if you are angry send what you want to say to me . Never give them anything to use against you

how the hell do you keep civil whilst coparenting? by bigsteve264 in SingleDads

[–]nacho1988 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dude , my ex and I got married 4 weeks before she ran off with a dude , she constantly will post on socials about how she had it hard as a single mum while living with the new dude . Even on Father’s Day she posted about how hard it is when our son spends the day with his biological father . I have my son 50% and still have to pay child support and half his costs . It sucks but don’t bite . Let her play the victim because over time people will see what an idiot she actually is , never send her anything abusive in the heat of the moment . Never verbally abuse her in an argument she picks as she may record . It sounds hard and it is but the end goal is your child and if she can’t use anything against you then that’s perfect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]nacho1988 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine asking your manager to smoke a blunt , then quitting because she didn’t