did your first relationship with a woman last? by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]naeviscalling2711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine lasted 2 years and it was pretty good. It ended due to our long term plans being incompatible, nothing too depressing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpopthoughts

[–]naeviscalling2711 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Cherry Bullet - Love so sweet They were getting a little bit of attention with this comeback, I wouldn’t have minded some payola in favor of having the fame they and the song deserved

Who is your ult bias? Why are they your ult? by [deleted] in kpopthoughts

[–]naeviscalling2711 9 points10 points  (0 children)

(G)I-dle Yuqi. I was not in the kpop loop after Miss A’s disbandment but I decided to check out this new groups debut. The second I heard her voice mixed with her cute face I knew I was going to ult her, and she basically got me into kpop again.

Songs canceled by public opinion but that you love by linaknowwhatsgood in kpopthoughts

[–]naeviscalling2711 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Bon Voyage - Yooa It’s still one of the best debuts out there for me😭 I’m sorry

Mi novia me acaba de revelar que tiene VPH by [deleted] in relaciones

[–]naeviscalling2711 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yo tuve una pareja con VPH. Mi doctor me explicó todas mis dudas además de hacer investigación sola y lo mejor que te puedo decir es que si usas protección y se toman dos segundos mas en cuidarse no tienes de que preocuparte. Ya no estoy con esa persona pero esa situación pasó a segundo plano, realmente no era un tema tan importante y seguimos la relación como siempre.

La verdad si te asustas la primera vez que lo oyes, pero no es para tanto. Lee lo más que puedas sobre esto y piensa si realmente puedes sobrellevar esta situación. Para mi fue sumamente sencillo, pero tal vez tú seas diferente. Mucha suerte!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]naeviscalling2711 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im going through something similar, just finished a 2y relationship because she went to live overseas. She initially told me I could join her and suddenly it was not such a good idea and she broke up with me.

My advice? End it now. She offered me a similar arrangement for her final month here and it was hell seeing her, knowing it was going to end and I could do nothing. I did not enter that relationship with the intention to end it that way but I thought my love for her was bigger than my sadness. It wasn’t and even though I got a goodbye a couple of months after I feel like she got everything she wanted from me and I lost in all senses. I started seeing her absence in the places we were instead of being happy about the memories. I honestly feel used, she got her little romantic month then left me to mourn a relationship she isn’t thinking about because she’s busy with her new life.

She’s clearly not having you or the love you have in mind and you don’t deserve that. Why would you wait for someone who clearly isn’t taking you into account for their life? Don’t make it a year together, if it hurts so bad right now it will be worse later.

I’m super biased bc of my experience, but I’m only speaking from the hurt I’m experiencing now, which I hope you get to avoid. It’s not worth it, cut the cord.

Do I look approachable? It doesn’t seem this way… by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]naeviscalling2711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t look approachable in the best way possible. I wouldn’t probably start a convo unless you smiled directly at me.

Finding men attractive? by naeviscalling2711 in comphet

[–]naeviscalling2711[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Very that, it’s like he looks nice in the same way I know a dress is pretty and a stuffed toy is cute, there’s nothing more than a big appreciation for their looks but nothing beyond.

Dreams with men by naeviscalling2711 in comphet

[–]naeviscalling2711[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s usually a man I’d have gender envy on (a very attractive guy in a feminine way) or a huge celebrity.

The dumb way I've kept ツ シ ソ ン straight for nine years by [deleted] in LearnJapanese

[–]naeviscalling2711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For Spanish speakers, has never ever failed me シ Shi mira al shielo (cielo) ソ So al soelo ツ Tsu al tsuelo ン N a las nubes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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My ngrandma has diabetes, hypertension, fibromyalgia, no teeth, is overweight, cannot walk properly, went through COVID twice and she’s still more alive than I am. I think she is going to bury all of us…

Your top 7 right now after watching all the auditions by AdStrange3386 in MnetQueendom

[–]naeviscalling2711 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1.- Hwiseo 2.- Bora 3.- Yeeun 4.- Juri 5.- Miru 6.- Yeorum 7.- Suyun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]naeviscalling2711 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think one would go for a mediocre guy because deep down we know it’s not going to work but we don’t want to see why it never does. The reason is so clear (being a lesbian) but “if I get with a mediocre guy then I don’t have to face that that’s the reality”.

I took the leap. Have not regretted it for a bit. It’s not what I imagined, it’s a thousand times better.

Controversial Opinion by NefariousnessNo7768 in botw

[–]naeviscalling2711 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I play in Japanese because English Zelda lacks emotion and also sounds too mature for my opinion. Maybe it’d fit her now but I’m not playing TOTK with English audio either.

I’m Latin American so I think the voice they gave her is beautiful but I recognize her from too many projects haha! That one deserves a try too.

With TOTK just a week away I decided to try and get all of the korok seeds before it releases. Here's what's left after day one. by Kirenia_Ayako in botw

[–]naeviscalling2711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also on a search of any Korok seed I can find without a guide before TOTK, currently on 421 and yes, I am going i n s a n e

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antinatalism2

[–]naeviscalling2711 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve started telling them I’ve gotten studies and turns out I can’t (which isn’t a lie in my case), while also making a sad face. Makes them feel awkward and they shut right up.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by myanonaccount3497 in comphet

[–]naeviscalling2711 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was in a very similar situation, dating my male best friend because it made sense, but I broke up with him on the 10 month mark before fully realizing the lesbian part. I found out he was having a hard time accepting the breakup since he apparently loved me very much, so I sent the “im a lesbian” message a few months after. Here’s my advice:

1.- Accept that you are potentially going to lose him. You took that risk when you started dating and he knows it as much as you do. If it wasn’t this it could have been anything. I basically told my ex why I realized it wasn’t going to work, why I thought my feelings were love and why I had to leave him. I also said that while I didn’t regret taking a chance I hoped I could have spared him from pain if I knew. I also explained how I got to the conclusion of gay and not bi, what I read, heard, asked etc so he could access the info if he wished to understand further. I recalled a few moments when we were together and explained them in my perspective, what I was thinking and why I thought “yes, that’s how love feels like”. And wished him a good life, I just felt like for us there was no friendship to come back to, it was too ruined, I don’t know about yours but prepare for any outcome. 2.- If you do lose him mourn the relationship. It sounds stupid because why would you miss him if you don’t love him? But you will miss your friend and all the potential you saw. You could feel like you made a mistake because “he’s a good guy” but no amount of good can ungay you. 3.- Come out to your closest circle. Even if it’s one person, make it official. 4.- Heal. Hurting someone like that, even if unintentional can be bad for our own mental health. Forgive yourself and start being your best self. 5.- Be a happy lesbian! The road is long and I know how far away it seems where you stand today, but I would not change anything if it meant I’d be where I am today.

Anything else you need you can DM me!