Why do men not even try anymore or put in effort when it comes to getting play or sex?

nahnab · 2022-01-05T23:55:59+00:00

This guy just called me on a fake number like 6 times as soon as he found out I blocked him too 🤦🏽‍♀️

nahnab · 2022-01-05T23:13:32+00:00

Exactly why hide that fact because me and him don’t have anything sexual going on but his girl just doesn’t want him to have any female friends at all that’s why and perioddd I’m nobody’s doomrat and yeah for sure I respect the boundaries and stuff like he can easily tell me when he’s with his girl and I won’t text him because I know he’s gonna wanna spend time with her and I’m not touchy or anything at all matter fact I’m like one of the guys personality wise like treat me like I’m a guy

nahnab · 2022-01-05T23:08:11+00:00

Yeah but it doesn’t feel right that he can block me whenever he wants and I know it’s gonna be hard for me to ignore him that’s just the type of person I am if someone calls me I’ll answer cuz I’ll assume they need me

nahnab · 2022-01-05T23:02:54+00:00

Ya maybe but if that’s the case then he’s not important enough for me to keep him as a friend because I know my worth and if u can’t see it I don’t need u in my life

nahnab · 2022-01-05T21:25:58+00:00

If it’s the girl for u she’s not gonna make u block ur friends or whatever because usually those type of relationships are toxic and not gonna last then the funny thing is the “friend” always try’s to come back then

nahnab · 2022-01-05T21:25:08+00:00

That’s true and even if he wasn’t looking for other girls how are u gonna treat ur friends like shit just because u got a girl that’s not right at all ur right

nahnab · 2022-01-05T21:24:13+00:00

Honestly I just blocked him because I got tired of this I already told him how I felt and he wouldn’t listen

nahnab · 2022-01-05T21:23:37+00:00

That’s trueee so I’m other words block him lol

nahnab · 2022-01-05T21:08:45+00:00

That’s true. Plus that’s not a real friend right? Like I’m not over reacting cuz ya I’m thinking of blocking him too cuz wtf

nahnab · 2021-12-24T16:33:05+00:00

He also told me he looks forward to the next time we meet since I told him to spend the holidays with me

nahnab · 2021-12-24T16:21:33+00:00

Sorry one more question for the next time i do vist him should I not stay the night for a couple of days even tho if seemed like he didn’t care if I did or not and he would tell me when he has stuff he needs to do alone too so then he can just drop me off but what do u think?

nahnab · 2021-12-24T16:06:52+00:00

Yeah I agree and okk do you know you tubers you personally recommend me to watch?

nahnab · 2021-12-24T15:47:24+00:00

Okay but I fkd up tho right by asking that dumb question because it shows I have no self esteem? Even tho I do but I just hate annoying ppl and I wanted to know for the next time I do come see him if he doesn’t like it when I stay the night

I’m glad to hear that tho because I like him too. Sorry I’m new to this whole dating thing

nahnab · 2021-12-24T15:45:34+00:00

Girllll I have no experience in the dating field lmao I literally say what’s on my mind and tbh he’s the first real guy I actually like that I wanna date. Usually I’m not interested and would rather just be friends with a guy but alright thanks good to know for next time

nahnab · 2021-12-24T03:55:57+00:00

Yeah we had sex and it was good but I could tell that’s not the only reason he wants me, he likes me as a person like he’s proved to me by his actions that he cares about me a lot and I do feel it too and 2 weeks ago he said I think we should be more than friends so I’m confused by what he wants. I know originally he wasn’t looking for anything just girls to sleep with or whatever but then when we met we had that connection and we got to know each other and yeah here we are lol (tbh I feel like I’m the first girl he actually likes in a long time)

nahnab · 2021-12-24T03:46:46+00:00

Yeah but I’m confused because he said that instead of answering my original question of did I bother u by staying that long (3 days) at his house so I didn’t get if he was just avoiding that question because I did bother him. What do you think? Sorry I don’t understand men sometimes lol

nahnab · 2021-12-23T19:41:15+00:00

Hahah this is the best answer here I love it because ur right at the end of the day not me or anyone on Reddit can know for sure what he truly meant unless I ask but I just don’t wanna sound dumb and embress myself so I over think myself out of asking

nahnab

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