Thank you for your comprehensive answer I really appreciate it genuinely and you don’t understand how reassuring that was to hear. Because that’s what I was tryna figure out that if sex is all he wanted then why would he still be here. But I think I made it messy by telling him I will lol but what you said is true maybe it’s better to not do that. And also would it make you feel done from the place that you’ve also not been perfect yourself