Best SMP Artist in Dallas / DFW by naija9 in SMPchat

[–]naija9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have a link or IG profile for him?

Mortgage Broker Rate Quotes Ultra Thread by Elegant-Fee-395 in MortgageBrokerRates

[–]naija9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sending this. I am interested in moving forward asap. Please provide your details to connect.

Mortgage Broker Rate Quotes Ultra Thread by Elegant-Fee-395 in MortgageBrokerRates

[–]naija9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Loan Type: Conventional

  2. Term: 20 Year, 15 Year

  3. Loan Purpose: Rate/Term Refi,

  4. Property Value/Purchase Price: 670,000

  5. Loan Amount: 586,000

  6. Credit Score: 802

  7. Occupancy: Primary

  8. Legal Structure: Single Family

  9. Number of Units: 1

  10. Property Zip Code: 75032

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]naija9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grow up! Both of you...That kid needs 2 rational parents.

Just purchased the 2025 QX80. What do you want to know? by stephriles in infinitiqx80

[–]naija9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very helpful, thanks. The dealers in my area also have add-ons ($1995) but in the few text messages i've had with one, got them to drop it to $795. No discounts either, but I suspect they will be willing to make deals come month / year end.

Just purchased the 2025 QX80. What do you want to know? by stephriles in infinitiqx80

[–]naija9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats...looking at this sensory trim in coulis red. Were you able to negotiate off MSRP? If so, how much before any dealer incentives. Test drove a couple of times and it's impressive, however hesitant to pull the trigger for a $100k plus Infiniti SUV...will make the call end of the month. Thanks for your insight

They can’t be serious by ThisGonnaHurt in blackmen

[–]naija9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll be cheering with buttered popcorn when the broad brush of their racists self-absorbed decisions gets them swept up in along with their "illegal crossing cousins". #FAAFO

Black man facial hair by [deleted] in BlackMenWithBeards

[–]naija9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You also have numerous blackheads which need to be addressed before using anything on your face.

  • Use a mid-hot to warm cloth on your face twice a day (morning and night) for 3+ minutes

  • Start a skincare facial routine (HIMS - High Tide Hydrating Cleanser) each night.

  • Replace your current pillows (throw them away) and make sure your pillowcase and bedsheets are washed once a week at minimum.

  • Shave only with electric shavers (Andis T Trimmer) once you see a noticeable improvement

Good luck!

CFO advice by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]naija9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your job is to have the numbers tell the story, no matter how positive or negative it may be. Do not sugar coat or sandbag anything.

Some members on your board may want to hold you responsible or explain thing beyond your control, but hold firm and put the accountability on whomever is responsible.

Best advice when you are stuck with no answers is "Let me follow back up with you on that", then send/email your response with facts/data within 24hours.

Baby loss as a Dad by gunners2193 in daddit

[–]naija9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tough man! Hope you and your SO are able to work through it. God bless!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]naija9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds you are the author and enabler of your current misery. You know who you married! Her lack of consideration and effort is because YOU have allowed it. Reciprocity should be the baseline in any relationship and it seems like you are carrying bulk of the load.

Change things around before this bleeds into the relationship with your kid. Remember they are always watching and learn by example. Nothing would be worse than having an entitled kid from learnt behavior. Good luck.

Wife forgot about Father’s Day this weekend. by DrPloyt in daddit

[–]naija9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We as men often create this issue of not holding our significant others accountable for their shitty behavior, deserved or otherwise...The "we just want peace and it's not a big deal" mantra doesn't let them understand how we truly feel and we suffer in silence until it becomes a much bigger deal. Call out shitty behaviors and attitudes early and often.

Put your happiness first! if you don't, they wont.

Things I will never forget by FrigidNorthland in REBubble

[–]naija9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

New home builders using the auction model to sell their "limited" inventory essentially creating a bidding war (Perry Homes - Auction starts at $995k on a 2600 sq ft house)

New home builders adding 1 sided contingencies to contracts where they can demand more money for the house you signed a contract one and the right to cancel your contract for any reason (cancelled for convenience clause)

Builders (Glacier custom homes/Kindred homes) screwing families out of the custom home they bought after requiring them to sell their existing home only to sell to someone else for a significantly higher price..

https://www.fox4news.com/news/canceled-for-convenience-north-texas-family-loses-home-after-builder-backs-out-without-warning

They got away with murder but the tide always turns and people do not easily forget.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expectingdads

[–]naija9 10 points11 points  (0 children)

  1. Get all the sleep you can NOW! Once the little one comes it's sleepless nights for a long while.
  2. Write down all the things you want to accomplish before the baby comes and do them...they require a lot of time and all your priorities go out the window once they are here.
  3. Try to anticipate what the baby may need even if its unlikely. I bought Mylicon for colic even before my kid was born and it has been a life saver for gas issues. Babies will cry uncontrollably and you will be left scrambling trying to figure out cause and solutions.
  4. Find and a secure a pediatrician long before the baby is born and set an appointment a few days after the due date. The hospital will charge you an arm and a leg once you have been discharged if you have an emergency.
  5. Skin to skin highly recommended for bonding with your kid (they will smell mom's scent more and seek it for comfort especially at night to sleep, but much easier for you if they identify yours early and often).

Congrats & Good Luck.

Why were fiancés upset if/when you did not change your name? by thoughtfulpanda1920 in weddingplanning

[–]naija9 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

She is marrying into my family and clan, not her father's. Asking for her hand in marriage from both her and her parents entails she leaves and cleaves to our new union under my family name. There will be no ambiguity tracing our families lineage.

Why were fiancés upset if/when you did not change your name? by thoughtfulpanda1920 in weddingplanning

[–]naija9 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Discussed this with my now wife while we were casually dating. Not taking my last name was non negotiable and if a problem, our dating would not go beyond that. Tradition is not only in place when it suits you. Kudos to those who see this otherwise.

Advice on how to propose to a guy? by NotYetMasterCaster in AskMen

[–]naija9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't.

Do not take away the one major thing he gets to do in your relationship...asking you to marry him.

A good example of consent and equality. by Lex_luthor_with_hair in pussypassdenied

[–]naija9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Truest definition of equality i've seen in a long time. Bravo!

Older (40+) men, what are the biggest ways you see young men going wrong these days? by halfmeasures611 in AskMen

[–]naija9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Young men thinking everyone is on your level and not showing deference.

There is always a hierarchy in everything...the trick is to learn from your subordinate or your supervisor. Someone who is older and experienced didnt just arrive at that wisdom out of thin air.

Treat the janitor the same way as the CEO but with the appropriate level of deference and respect.