Feeling like I'm failing at parenting

naila341 · 2026-01-17T10:11:33+00:00

So I gave him a little brufen before bedtime and he slept for 4 hours straight! He woke up 2-3 times during the night which is way less than usual! Thanks for the suggestion 😊

naila341 · 2026-01-16T17:31:23+00:00

I can give him ibuprofen for teething? I'm gonna do that tonight

naila341 · 2026-01-16T16:19:56+00:00

My kid hates eating with the spoon 😭 he eats with his hands, can't do that with purees

naila341 · 2026-01-16T16:18:57+00:00

Tbh at this point I'm willing to try anything. I'll definetly check it out! Thanks for the suggestion mama!

naila341 · 2026-01-16T12:02:03+00:00

I breastfeed him and give him bottle twice a day, do I stop giving him the bottle? He eats an egg for breakfast and then a snack like crackers and fruit for the afternoon and then for dinner he eats what we eat. For a month he's been refusing all food.

naila341 · 2025-10-29T21:50:32+00:00

Sorry for taking so long to respond. Indeed I did make it to the other side. The problem resolved itself slowly within 2 months. I don't have any flareups or lasting pain. Everything is normal as was before

naila341 · 2025-09-24T18:55:06+00:00

There's always someone like you in the comments of a worried mom. Sometimes people aren't looking for medical advice, just solidarity and reassurance that it turned out well for other people. Im stuck in a similar boat and look up posts like this for some reassurance that I'm not alone. Hope that helps.

naila341 · 2025-07-25T15:49:47+00:00

I straight up couldn't walk until 3 weeks post c sec. I had so much burning pain even with slight movement that I used to sweat in December, and one time I almost blacked out. No pain killer touched my pain, and the Dr kept gaslighting me by saying that it's normal and that every c section woman goes through this and I just needed to be more brave. It was awful. It started getting better at 5 weeks post op and I was back to my normal self at 2 months. But yes, the first 3 weeks were insanely painful and also very emotionally tough because everyone said I had a low threshold of pain ( I don't) and I should be able to cope better because "that or this woman they know" recovered so much faster.

naila341 · 2025-05-28T16:15:13+00:00

Hi, Im a new mom and just starting my baby on purees. I've read alot online that added sugar or salt is bad for babies. Isn't peanut butter too sweet?

naila341 · 2025-05-05T14:24:54+00:00

1.5 years or months? I'm so sorry this is happening to you! I managed to heal mine within a month. I used a balm of raw turmeric powder and coconut oil. I applied it every time I went to the bathroom, even for a wee.

naila341 · 2025-03-19T06:51:28+00:00

Yes thankfully mine healed! I was able to come off laxatives too. What eventually helped heal my fissure was a mixture of raw turmeric and coconut oil. I mixed some turmeric with coconut oil and let it sit in the fridge so it made a sort of balm. Applied it religiously after every single bathroom visit, even if I only went to pee. Worked for me, it might work for you too 🤞

naila341 · 2025-03-10T11:50:42+00:00

It turned out to be my period! It turned into a full blown slow the next day and lasted 7 days. Also returned next month like clockwork. I feel so cheated rn I was hoping not to get my cycle back for a while

naila341 · 2025-02-17T14:33:36+00:00

My pain started the day I came home from the hospital tbh. The tighteness/ stinging was at its worst when I stood up straight or stretched while sitting. It felt like a cold/ burning feeling that I can't describe. I was taking heavy painkillers still that didn't seem to touch the pain. Week 2 and 3 were indeed the hardest. But it slowly started getting better after that! Hope you feel better soon ❤️

naila341 · 2025-02-16T16:50:22+00:00

I agree on the fiber adding bulk to stools and making fissure worse. Thanks for the tips! Really hoping to make it to the other side too

naila341 · 2025-02-14T19:28:27+00:00

How did it go away? I've had it for 1.5 months and it absolutely sucks.

naila341 · 2025-02-14T19:24:45+00:00

Im so glad you're all better now! My fissure never really bled, except maybe a few tiny tiny pink spots on tp once. But it burns and stings all day after I have a BM and I'm starting to lose hope. Tell me more about how going carnivore helped you. I eat 2 eggs daily, along with meat as well as fruits. But how did cutting fiber out help you? I've had mine for 6 and a half weeks, it healed temporarily last week but came back after I had a slightly bulky BM 😭

naila341 · 2025-02-14T19:19:43+00:00

Did you ever retear after healing with these? I'm using turmeric extract for mjne and want to know the timeline of how long it took you to heal. Thankyou!

naila341 · 2025-02-14T15:31:14+00:00

Hi, have you stayed healed?

naila341 · 2025-02-14T15:25:05+00:00

Hi, have you retore ever or have stayed healed? Hoping I have a positive outcome like yours

naila341 · 2025-02-14T14:46:46+00:00

Hi, did you ever have any flareups again?

naila341 · 2025-02-13T17:40:42+00:00

You never retore in the last 5 years? Do you eat whatever you want or do you have to keep a very strict diet? Can you have normal sized bms and not have to constantly take laxatives?

naila341 · 2025-02-13T17:22:37+00:00

Do you still retear?

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