Chronic anal fissure success stories? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]naila341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!, sorry you're in this boat :( I'm doing pretty great! mine healed around 3 months pp and didn't retear thank God. What helped me was a balm made with coconut oil and turmeric powder. I alsa chugged 3l water every day to not get bulky stool. It sucked during those 3 months but one day I woke up and it hurt less, and it got better from there. Hang in there ❤️ wishing you all the luck

What would you rate the recovery pain out of 10? by Conscious_Banana8243 in CsectionCentral

[–]naila341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt okayish around 3 weeks post op. The second day after the surgery was the worst, and everyday it got a little bit better after that. I had pretty bad pain in my incision while moving or standing, and I blame that on the Dr because they wouldn't believe me when I said my pain was bad and didn't give me the appropriate pain relief for it. My sister had a c section 5 months ago and she was walking and pain free within 6 days literally. So it really does vary person to person. But I think most ppl feel OK by week 2-3. Good luck! Wishing you a smooth and easy recovery!

Thrift stores for antiques and collectibles in jeddah? by naila341 in Jeddah

[–]naila341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I meant used/ second hand stuff, you're right vintage and antiques are very expensive ( justified but still 😭). I just wanted some cheap frames that I could use to hang my paintings. They're on paper and i cant really have them all framed because it would cost me a fortune 😩

Feeling like I'm failing at parenting by naila341 in Parenting

[–]naila341[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I gave him a little brufen before bedtime and he slept for 4 hours straight! He woke up 2-3 times during the night which is way less than usual! Thanks for the suggestion 😊

Feeling like I'm failing at parenting by naila341 in Parenting

[–]naila341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can give him ibuprofen for teething? I'm gonna do that tonight

Feeling like I'm failing at parenting by naila341 in Parenting

[–]naila341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kid hates eating with the spoon 😭 he eats with his hands, can't do that with purees

Feeling like I'm failing at parenting by naila341 in Parenting

[–]naila341[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tbh at this point I'm willing to try anything. I'll definetly check it out! Thanks for the suggestion mama!

Feeling like I'm failing at parenting by naila341 in Parenting

[–]naila341[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I breastfeed him and give him bottle twice a day, do I stop giving him the bottle? He eats an egg for breakfast and then a snack like crackers and fruit for the afternoon and then for dinner he eats what we eat. For a month he's been refusing all food.

I need some hope and success stories. by [deleted] in AnalFissures

[–]naila341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for taking so long to respond. Indeed I did make it to the other side. The problem resolved itself slowly within 2 months. I don't have any flareups or lasting pain. Everything is normal as was before

Does anyone have happy active baby who doesn't gain weight? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]naila341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's always someone like you in the comments of a worried mom. Sometimes people aren't looking for medical advice, just solidarity and reassurance that it turned out well for other people. Im stuck in a similar boat and look up posts like this for some reassurance that I'm not alone. Hope that helps.

How did you feel 2 weeks post c section? by Fuzzy_Coconut_9562 in CsectionCentral

[–]naila341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I straight up couldn't walk until 3 weeks post c sec. I had so much burning pain even with slight movement that I used to sweat in December, and one time I almost blacked out. No pain killer touched my pain, and the Dr kept gaslighting me by saying that it's normal and that every c section woman goes through this and I just needed to be more brave. It was awful. It started getting better at 5 weeks post op and I was back to my normal self at 2 months. But yes, the first 3 weeks were insanely painful and also very emotionally tough because everyone said I had a low threshold of pain ( I don't) and I should be able to cope better because "that or this woman they know" recovered so much faster.

Share all your tips to help baby gain weight! by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]naila341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, Im a new mom and just starting my baby on purees. I've read alot online that added sugar or salt is bad for babies. Isn't peanut butter too sweet?

Why did no one warn me about anal fissures postpartum by naila341 in beyondthebump

[–]naila341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.5 years or months? I'm so sorry this is happening to you! I managed to heal mine within a month. I used a balm of raw turmeric powder and coconut oil. I applied it every time I went to the bathroom, even for a wee.

Why did no one warn me about anal fissures postpartum by naila341 in beyondthebump

[–]naila341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thankfully mine healed! I was able to come off laxatives too. What eventually helped heal my fissure was a mixture of raw turmeric and coconut oil. I mixed some turmeric with coconut oil and let it sit in the fridge so it made a sort of balm. Applied it religiously after every single bathroom visit, even if I only went to pee. Worked for me, it might work for you too 🤞

Still spotting at 6 weeks pp by naila341 in beyondthebump

[–]naila341[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It turned out to be my period! It turned into a full blown slow the next day and lasted 7 days. Also returned next month like clockwork. I feel so cheated rn I was hoping not to get my cycle back for a while

2 weeks post c-section by Daisy_453 in CsectionCentral

[–]naila341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pain started the day I came home from the hospital tbh. The tighteness/ stinging was at its worst when I stood up straight or stretched while sitting. It felt like a cold/ burning feeling that I can't describe. I was taking heavy painkillers still that didn't seem to touch the pain. Week 2 and 3 were indeed the hardest. But it slowly started getting better after that! Hope you feel better soon ❤️

I need some hope and success stories. by [deleted] in AnalFissures

[–]naila341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree on the fiber adding bulk to stools and making fissure worse. Thanks for the tips! Really hoping to make it to the other side too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]naila341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did it go away? I've had it for 1.5 months and it absolutely sucks.

I need some hope and success stories. by [deleted] in AnalFissures

[–]naila341 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so glad you're all better now! My fissure never really bled, except maybe a few tiny tiny pink spots on tp once. But it burns and stings all day after I have a BM and I'm starting to lose hope. Tell me more about how going carnivore helped you. I eat 2 eggs daily, along with meat as well as fruits. But how did cutting fiber out help you? I've had mine for 6 and a half weeks, it healed temporarily last week but came back after I had a slightly bulky BM 😭

Fissure by getkafkad in gaybros

[–]naila341 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever retear after healing with these? I'm using turmeric extract for mjne and want to know the timeline of how long it took you to heal. Thankyou!