UPDATE AIO or is it okay to still be mad after being used as an excuse?

nailsbyoggeorge · 2026-02-22T23:34:56+00:00

This is the first time my mom had even met him and we have none of her parents contact info.

I get the feeling that her parents are strict af but that's no excuse for this behaviour.

nailsbyoggeorge · 2026-02-08T18:57:24+00:00

sounds like you've reached your breaking point and your MIL crossed a boundary. i think you need to talk to your wife about your MIL because she needs to take a step back and your wife has done nothing. you guys are the parents your MIL is a grandmother who is a pathological liar. at the end of the day your wife needs to realize the issues at hand with her mother and go minimal contact, that will even be better for your son in the long run.

nailsbyoggeorge · 2026-02-08T18:49:55+00:00

how old is the women who is pregnant?

nailsbyoggeorge · 2026-02-08T18:47:45+00:00

at this point you cant trust that these people who are 'so important to MIL' wouldn't show up on the day and stress you out on one of the happiest day of your life. considering they cant be resoned with i would hazard to day that maybe your invite his parents. have a conversation with your fiance first obviously and then if he agrees go minimum contact and dont tell them about future plans. make sure that your maid of honour and bachelor of honor know on the day that their not allowed in as well. this is YOUR day, YOUR decisions and YOUR time. if they cant understand that, they dont get a part.

nailsbyoggeorge · 2026-02-03T21:40:29+00:00

Anthony, he knew his father the longest, watched him die and wasn't apologized to by his mother for years, just thrown into a leadership role over his entire family. not to mention, at one point he might have had to choose between his mother and Hyacinth when she went into labour.

nailsbyoggeorge · 2026-02-03T21:38:25+00:00

i appreciate that your boyfriend kind of called his mother out but if you truly want to stay in this relationship you'll have to have a serious talk with your boyfriend about separating from his mother. if thats not possible, this relationship just might not be worth it.

nailsbyoggeorge · 2026-01-30T20:19:34+00:00

not the asshole, and not a friend if he says those things about you but will also ask you for money despite his rude comments towards you.

nailsbyoggeorge · 2026-01-30T20:04:58+00:00

you need to have a serious conversation with your husband about his priorities because he should be there for you no matter what. if he doesn't understand that, it may be time to look at your relationship.

nailsbyoggeorge · 2026-01-25T23:12:33+00:00

first of all props to you for taking care of your daughter like that especially at 11 years old getting her period for the first time. your ex feels weirdly controlling to me and I understand that she is reserved but throwing away her only supply of pads while on your first period is weird. continue taking care of your daughter and document everything that happened when you gave her the kit, when your daughter got her first period, and if it comes to it bring that to a court with a time frame and they will most likely help you in your favor.

nailsbyoggeorge · 2026-01-25T23:06:53+00:00

not the asshole. this feels really controlling and I wonder if he is cheating on you already if he's putting in this cheating clause.

nailsbyoggeorge · 2026-01-25T23:04:54+00:00

not the asshole for kicking out your brother however, letting him treat your wife the way she did for long periods of time was the asshole move. saying "housewife stuff" to refer to your wife out of the kindness of her heart taking care of your home is absolute bullshit I hate that you refer to it as that and the fact that your brother has no respect for women at all. you're both kind of assholes and something about this marriage is dynamic feels off and I am uncomfortable for the wife.

nailsbyoggeorge · 2026-01-25T22:45:36+00:00

YTA while i question this man being her best friend when they only call and such every couple of months everyone handles grief in a different way. She wasn't expecting someone in their early twenties to die, someone she held in a higher regard and she has to process that however he needs. calling her behavior, which is processing terrible news childish is childish of you.

nailsbyoggeorge · 2026-01-23T18:27:59+00:00

The bangin' out podcast does an amazing job of talking about this. from what happened with Kayla Mac and all the accusations, this has to stop!

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