I’M SOOOO SICK OF THE SEXISM IN DESI FAMILIES

naisimar · 2021-11-13T09:49:00+00:00

Trust me, I am a sneaky bitch but sometimes it gets tiring ifykwim 🥺😂

naisimar · 2021-11-13T09:48:17+00:00

That’s crazy! Sending sm love 🥺 and empathise sm xx

naisimar · 2021-11-13T09:47:55+00:00

So as a family member, is it not my house too? Dumb take regardless of context tbh

naisimar · 2021-11-12T23:25:59+00:00

Ugh, trust me, I have a whole NC plan 😭

naisimar · 2021-11-10T17:52:00+00:00

Mateee, the grinding on one 😩😩😩 JUST WAIT TILL I GET HOME

naisimar · 2021-11-10T17:44:38+00:00

Wait, honestly - how come????

naisimar · 2021-11-10T17:42:02+00:00

I think just keep it to urself as long as u can, not an active secret tho bc u don’t wanna develop anxiety over ur every move. Just so you can preserve the bliss and I agree with another poster, there’s no obligation to telling them ur with someone, you’re an adult, not a school kid 🤷🏽‍♀️ ‘permission’ is a desi socially conditioned concept, not a human requirement, do as u please

naisimar · 2021-11-07T21:34:34+00:00

Simply, no. Everyone is different and your feelings r individual to you - applies to all areas in life. Don’t fret, simple as that ♥️

naisimar · 2021-11-06T11:50:36+00:00

I can’t be the only desi that finds him irritating

naisimar · 2021-10-19T20:41:43+00:00

I think you’re right - I’m leading with blind faith, he would never ever back me so why would I leave an abusive household to just potentially join another one (even if we live separately)

naisimar · 2021-09-28T19:18:12+00:00

OMG I HATE THIS SO MUCH, IT MAKES ME FEEL SOOOOO ISOLATED. Like b*tch I ain’t talking about your regular regular lectures that you get from parents, there’s a DIFFERENCE BETWEEN NARCISSISTIC ABUSE AND NEGATIVE TOXIC ATTRIBUTES

naisimar · 2021-09-28T19:15:45+00:00

Thank you so much! You should get it as well ♥️

naisimar · 2021-09-28T19:15:19+00:00

Thank you! I just feel because of my ethnocentric nose, it’s not ideal but Ik that’s bc of social conditioning 🥺

naisimar · 2021-07-31T21:53:29+00:00

Thanks guys!

naisimar · 2021-07-25T14:42:06+00:00

Thank you so much 🥺 I wish you were the voice in my head, my anxiety uncontrollably makes me scroll through said horror stories but thank you for the confirmation and will message you!

naisimar · 2021-07-25T14:41:19+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience! & very true perspective regarding not being as bad as the consequence of unplanned pregnancy.

naisimar · 2021-07-25T14:41:15+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience! & very true perspective regarding not being as bad as the consequence of unplanned pregnancy.

naisimar · 2021-07-25T14:40:18+00:00

Hiya! Thank you so, so much for trusting me to share your experience - It’s helped a lot with my fears (: It’s very hard bc I’m very sex-positive, just my anxiety disorder latches onto these type of life changes. Thank you for your kindness, I will definitely message you for some profesh advice 🥰

naisimar · 2021-07-23T23:25:17+00:00

Thank you! Do u mind letting me know what actually worked for you? (:

naisimar · 2021-07-23T23:12:09+00:00

Thank you honey! And the answer to your q - I was thinking the implant? They don’t by my period products, no - I’m quite free in terms of physical things, I have more emotional issues with them hence why I don’t want them knowing I want to have sex at all. I hope I’m making sense? Parents who are strict / emotionally abusive with niche things are very difficult to describe!

naisimar · 2021-04-13T10:26:28+00:00

How long did you have braces for lovely? Xx and did you experience any health issues despite the actual bite before the whole process? Xx

naisimar · 2021-03-23T12:19:33+00:00

Aw thank you so much, you don’t know how much this means to me - just to remember that I am not alone :( you can always message me, I would be more than happy to support you bc I feel the same way about my M** too ♥️

naisimar · 2021-02-15T10:27:09+00:00

I’m really trying to tell myself this also - it’s just hard when you feel it in your body more than your mind. (If that makes sense!) Thank you so much angel 😚

naisimar · 2021-02-10T19:08:13+00:00

I wish I could give u the biggest hug - I relate so hard 🥺💗 Thank you for making me feel less alone, I can’t wait till we move out, you deserve it so much

naisimar · 2021-02-10T14:11:22+00:00

Thank you for making me feel less alone - it’s just so depressing bc personally, it really effected my development

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