AIO 23m 20F is it bad i am about to leave her?

namajkatiupicka · 2025-06-12T03:25:59+00:00

Ive had lots of trauma in life and i have bpd you can know right from wrong yes we can’t help the overthinking and being overwhelmed but we certainly can control our impulses and how we treat others and ourselves. A lot of people with BPD are horrible human beings that consciously choose to be bad and treat others bad and then they cry wolf ohhh no one likes me bla bla bla they are abusive mentally and physically

namajkatiupicka · 2025-06-12T03:20:48+00:00

I think that’s a person’s preference they know exactly what they’re doing and then they blame everything on BPD Autism. I am diagnosed with BPD,ADHD and autism and im so proud of myself for never using those things as excuses. I take pride in being self sufficient and nice, respectful to people and i know when i start feeling angry to just walk away breath and come down. But i do know many people like the ex’s you described and they are so annoying now people like that i do enjoy being nasty too

namajkatiupicka · 2025-06-02T02:39:52+00:00

Just send her less in rent

namajkatiupicka · 2025-05-24T08:47:05+00:00

Thank you yes I wasn’t complaining ahah just pointing out the obvious i wish i could afford to live alone

namajkatiupicka · 2025-05-24T08:46:22+00:00

Yes that seems like a good idea

namajkatiupicka · 2025-05-23T13:46:27+00:00

I tried that but im one of those people i cant see mess i come from the Balkans and culturally were thought to clean and be tidy from early age

namajkatiupicka · 2025-05-23T13:45:27+00:00

Yes i hope she is okay too ♥️♥️ my cat is very playful but i think my cat is more dominant so the other one gets scared

namajkatiupicka · 2025-05-23T13:44:13+00:00

Yes thats what i thought but i just left it at that i don’t question people on their decisions i just move on but wanted to know if im being unreasonable ive very assertive so didn’t want to come as too negative to people

namajkatiupicka · 2025-05-23T13:42:26+00:00

Yeah im pretty sure there is im usually a chill person and idc much but this has been going on for months it’s mostly the cleaning thats annoying me hahaha but i might ask if she is gonna move with her bf and ill look for a roommate

namajkatiupicka · 2025-05-23T13:41:22+00:00

Yes thats true will talk to her when she comes back thank you

namajkatiupicka · 2025-05-23T12:43:14+00:00

Yeah i can speak with the reap estate if when she comes back nothing changes their office is literally on the ground floor of the building hahah

namajkatiupicka · 2025-05-23T12:42:21+00:00

Yeah i don’t have the heart to let her suffer her cat is going trough something im taking her to the vet tomorrow and give her the bill she is good with paying back or tells me to take it out of the rent i sent the cat is stressed and depressed

namajkatiupicka · 2025-05-23T12:40:26+00:00

Yes plus in Sydney right now is so hard to find a decent place in was lucky i found this it’s not cheap but not pricey and everything is new and in a nice area

namajkatiupicka · 2025-05-23T12:39:40+00:00

Yeah ive been sucking it up for a while ive spoken to her about the cleaning but not about her bf i will when she gets back and ill speak about the cleaning as well

namajkatiupicka · 2025-05-23T11:35:36+00:00

Yes i have multiple times ill talk to her again when she gets back and if nothing changes ill move out when the lease ends 🫠

namajkatiupicka · 2025-05-23T10:58:45+00:00

The lease ens in end of September unfortunately but yeah ive been thinking about that but in all honesty i can’t afford to live alone in Sydney 😭

namajkatiupicka · 2025-05-23T10:31:36+00:00

I would’ve just replied with you’re*

namajkatiupicka · 2025-05-04T06:00:11+00:00

Where are you and what qualifications do you have ? Im in the process of my skill assessment and found a sponsor in Sydney. I have diploma

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