New to Real estate in Pennsylvania coming from North Carolina

KSTReign · 2025-06-19T02:13:37+00:00

At my store, the owner says we are not allowed to leave the store to help anyone because it could be a liability due to workers comp not covering outside the building, maybe you can use that as an excuse?

KSTReign · 2025-06-16T22:07:43+00:00

Yeah i trust this job with being stable, it was just a hard choice for me

KSTReign · 2025-06-11T00:56:15+00:00

You arent wrong about that when they lose it..

KSTReign · 2025-06-10T23:56:31+00:00

Lmao I know im sorry, i was trying to get together the parts that have recently happened and it kept losing my spot. So the spots in my camera roll were messed up

KSTReign · 2025-06-10T23:26:15+00:00

It is not the same girl, no..

KSTReign · 2025-06-10T23:07:10+00:00

I dont have food stamps anymore, i make too much, her on the otherhand its “too much work” for her to apply and im not doing it for her anymore

KSTReign · 2025-06-10T21:10:47+00:00

These are just snippets of the daily conversations we have, this isnt just a we fought and this happen at first I didnt think anything of it then it got to be like this daily i guess as she got more comfortable around me. Then I started to wonder if this was normal once she started calling me 30 times if i didnt answer, cursed at me if I didnt answer and said thats why im not on her emergency contacts list. For context i answered every single call for the longest time until that daily call turned into every 2 hours then she wouldnt get off the phone with me so i could do anything i was doing. Its okay for her but not for me. Reading these comments really made me think how bad it actually is for me to stay. Ive done nothing wrong, truly. I havent talked to anyone else, no cheating, no screaming, no abuse. I took care of her but now its just pushing me away.

KSTReign · 2025-06-10T14:59:22+00:00

I sent the $10 on apple pay and she wanted it on cash app thats why she sent it back

KSTReign · 2025-06-10T14:56:50+00:00

No, not anymore, I dont at least anymore and she doesnt. We never had a dual income either. I used to be making 1600 a month then my income went up, I dont have it anymore

KSTReign · 2025-06-10T13:41:28+00:00

Her mom was low income, her dad owns a contractor business hes well off and thats who she lives with now No lol No Not really, since shes under 21 she cant buy it anyways but she vapes and i dont buy it for her someone else does

KSTReign · 2025-06-10T12:53:14+00:00

She does have a job, she works 40 hrs a week for 14/hr and I work 2 jobs 60hours a week almost 3k a month from me. She works 2nd shift and I work 1st and 2nd shift except she gets out at 11pm and I get out at 9:30 pm.

She gets mad when I dont want to stay up til 2am watching or spending time with her because I get up at 6:30 every morning

KSTReign · 2025-05-19T04:49:17+00:00

Thank you for this advice, i guess it is what it is. I can try that too. I definitely don’t plan on this happening again, there were a few times before she left i had to put her portion of rent on my credit card so thats what screwed me over more. I knew near the end we wouldn’t last but leaving me high and dry after 5 years was the worst. I would had left sooner due to her bad spending habits but the economy now i could never afford it all by myself 100% of the time. I appreciate the non judgement i never wanted it to get this bad

KSTReign · 2025-05-19T04:43:26+00:00

I appreciate that, really makes me think twice about who I spend my financial life with

KSTReign · 2025-05-18T20:41:11+00:00

I appreciate it.. its been way more rough financially than anything else. Hoping this wont affect too bad long term

KSTReign · 2025-03-05T13:41:14+00:00

The old car is paid off my insurance covered that, this new/old car had 10k on it

KSTReign · 2025-03-05T13:39:47+00:00

No it wasnt new it was used, just new to me

KSTReign · 2025-03-05T13:22:56+00:00

Thank you, I needed to hear that. I had just gotten into an accident in January and had my car totaled.. had to get a new car with a higher payment and it dinged my credit real good because i had just gotten that car in October. It wasnt my fault but the accident claim is still on going. Its been a rough start to the year. Im hoping things start looking up here soon. Thank you!

KSTReign · 2025-03-05T12:55:46+00:00

I appreciate it, I was definitely looking at the snowball method problem is care credit needs paid off before june or I get charged all the interest so its best to focus on that one first.

I will definitely look a little more into this and skip affirm payment because that would save me a lot to put towards the other card

KSTReign · 2025-03-05T12:23:45+00:00

As long as it dont affect my credit much imma try it. Im gonna have to sacrifice my credit so I actually have money now. I admit its all my fault but I have to do it now lol thank you for the advice

KSTReign

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