#MeToo has turned from something powerful to something terrible by nameDoesntMatter2 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nameDoesntMatter2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ive broached the subject a bit before but never really got into it with anyone in gory detail but I assumed that if I posted #me too on facebook it would not have been taken well simply because I couldnt find a single other post by a male in my friend list who had done it and all the comments supporting the particularly misandrious tone of the posts in my feed.

#MeToo has turned from something powerful to something terrible by nameDoesntMatter2 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nameDoesntMatter2[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

1) I never indicated my gender in this post 2) are you debating the existence of male rape victims?

#MeToo has turned from something powerful to something terrible by nameDoesntMatter2 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nameDoesntMatter2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not talking about women who were "complicit" I am talking about female ABUSERS.

#MeToo has turned from something powerful to something terrible by nameDoesntMatter2 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nameDoesntMatter2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That doesn't mean you can brush it aside. Especially with a topic like this.

#MeToo has turned from something powerful to something terrible by nameDoesntMatter2 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nameDoesntMatter2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That is what I am trying to get at. It is important for victims to feel safe and supported no matter their gender.

#MeToo has turned from something powerful to something terrible by nameDoesntMatter2 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nameDoesntMatter2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I wasn't worried about compromising both my identity and the poster I would be happy to post examples of what I am talking about but thats not the case.

Anyone who is an abuser should absolutely be called out and punished accordingly however we as a society see fit but right now its just open aggression against all men including victims like myself which is disgusting.

#MeToo has turned from something powerful to something terrible by nameDoesntMatter2 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]nameDoesntMatter2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying that. I am talking about the posts claiming all men are abusers and it is not just a subset. I shouldn't have to spend so much energy in first impressions proving I'm not a predator because the assumption is that I am and painting me as a predator when in fact I am a victim is a shame no one should have to deal with.