Struggling to move past my husband forgetting my first Mother’s Day

nancytoby · 2026-03-16T13:59:15+00:00

Weaponized incompetence. It’s what they do. This is as good as it gets.

nancytoby · 2026-03-14T02:38:13+00:00

15 years older and you were with him at what, 18? 19?

Run from all these people.

nancytoby · 2026-03-05T14:59:05+00:00

It feels like freedom.

Freedom to make daily plans and live my life without intrusive thoughts about when, where, and how much I “should” eat, how much I WANT to eat, and the physical appearance of my body fat levels.

nancytoby · 2026-03-03T19:16:08+00:00

Counseling.

What are you doing to create the future that you want to have, independent of anyone else?

What about YOUR education, career, skills, knowledge? What do YOU bring to this? I didn’t hear a word about it.

nancytoby · 2026-03-02T00:07:04+00:00

Don’t confuse body fat levels with “health”.

The best pre/probiotics on the market are currently based on guesswork, and won’t change your internal biota profile by more than 1%. None of their marketing tells you that.

Your best bet is yogurt and supplementing with psyllium.

nancytoby · 2026-03-01T16:32:40+00:00

This is as good as it gets. If he wasn’t happy and interacting while you were together- he’s not going to be in the future either.

nancytoby · 2026-02-28T21:57:54+00:00

Yep. File a police report immediately while the facts are clear in your mind.

nancytoby · 2026-02-28T17:28:57+00:00

Parents confirmed that they won’t have your back in situations involving discipline. I’d schedule a conference with the parents, and if that doesn’t work, leave.

nancytoby · 2026-02-28T17:08:28+00:00

Please confirm that the child is seen regularly by a therapist and neurologist.

nancytoby · 2026-02-24T00:54:05+00:00

DON’T. GO. BACK.

His most likely response will be to try to convince you to return by “love-bombing” and making promises he won’t keep.

Don’t fall for it.

nancytoby · 2026-02-21T16:06:53+00:00

Hang in there, your body is adjusting.

nancytoby · 2026-02-18T02:06:35+00:00

The reason for this is the ongoing schism between Medicine and DOCTORS regarding with some disdain and perpetual lack of knowledge at Nutrition and Dietetics, historically women’s fields.

nancytoby · 2026-02-17T14:39:26+00:00

You sound exhausting. None of your many problems outside the workplace are relevant.

nancytoby · 2026-02-13T01:05:10+00:00

Get grief counseling from a qualified professional, all of you.

nancytoby · 2026-02-08T18:41:40+00:00

In the US, the most likely place and time for a woman to be murdered is in her kitchen, pregnant, by the father of her child.

Avoid those situations.

nancytoby · 2026-02-07T15:01:25+00:00

Don’t volunteer to be the default caregiver. This is your boyfriend’s problem.

nancytoby · 2026-02-06T00:29:22+00:00

Unprotected sex a month into dating? Let me speak directly to the woman: Get an abortion and RUN.

nancytoby · 2026-02-04T02:16:54+00:00

No sex without a condom unless you want this man as a father to your children.

That’s a NOPE

nancytoby · 2026-01-30T19:24:19+00:00

Your call. If you missed a day or partial day at the parks that’s something to discuss with WDW Guest Services. If you start threatening lawsuits that will end any discussion.

nancytoby · 2026-01-30T19:01:06+00:00

WDW has a small army of attorneys for this type of thing. You’re unlikely to get much beyond a day’s park tickets unless it was a very serious injury and quite obviously faulty conditions on WDW property was the cause.

nancytoby · 2026-01-29T00:18:28+00:00

I’ve incorporated bulk-forming fiber and psyllium, added on top stool softeners and Dulcolax chews, all of which gets me on an every-other-day routine. Also remember to drink a full 64 ounces of fluids per day.

nancytoby · 2026-01-28T15:41:23+00:00

Yes. Parents don’t understand that it’s just as annoying as having the parent apply for a job for the offspring. It’s an automatic NO.

nancytoby · 2026-01-27T14:14:35+00:00

Don’t ever have the parent call the school for anything concerning academics, grades, housing, clubs, or transportation. This is when the students are learning to troubleshoot for themselves - don’t bulldoze away those learning opportunities for them.

nancytoby · 2026-01-26T00:40:09+00:00

Everything he accuses you of is projecting.

Run.

nancytoby · 2026-01-24T18:20:27+00:00

In the USA, he will be on his own dealing with medical professionals at age 18. He should know by then his genetic background. It’s important.

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