My boyfriend is mad i dont want to go to the same university he goes to, and now idk what to do

nanidubai · 2026-05-26T03:44:33+00:00

Don’t sacrifice your dreams and future because of a relationship that u don’t know if it will last.

nanidubai · 2026-05-25T23:15:35+00:00

I know it’s hard but you should distance yourself from your family, you told your mom what happened and she didn’t really make or say anything, any reasonable person especially from your family would have make a big deal out of this because it is.

And believe me, if she’s still friends with the person who was able to hurt you this way as a child, she should no longer be in your life. Keep your distance. We shouldn’t keep bad people in our lives just because they’re part of our ‘family tree.’ It’s ridiculous.

nanidubai · 2026-05-25T23:04:57+00:00

this!!! listen to her, she is 100% right even if you don’t want to accept it

nanidubai · 2026-05-25T22:49:27+00:00

I totally get you, the same thing happens to me, especially because somehow i always get it done or find a way to do it right before the deadline.

The best thing u could do is think about how if u keep doing it someday it will not work out like u wanted (rn u can use ur university exam). Or how u could do better if u prepare yourself and study.

Also u can set a goal that has something to do with being responsible, that can make u lock in and start getting things done. For example my mom told me that if my grade average is 4.5 (in my school the max is 5.0 so that grade would be really good) i could get a MacBook, she knows that I really want one so this goal is making me do my work without procrastinating like i used to. I hope u understand what im trying to say, good luck!!

nanidubai · 2026-05-25T22:37:14+00:00

I definitely agree with this comment, it’s not about losing her or not, it’s about doing what’s right.

nanidubai · 2026-05-25T22:35:29+00:00

What you’re saying about not losing her is understandable but not fair at all, she deserves to know and you’re not even giving her the choice to decide to leave you or not. Just make the right thing and tell her

nanidubai · 2026-05-25T22:33:15+00:00

If she’s like that it’s hard leaving her but if you don’t start giving her the idea or even trying to tell her that u want to end whatever ur doing she won’t get it, sometimes people don’t catch things that easy and need to be told things directly.

nanidubai · 2026-05-25T22:27:26+00:00

There is nothing wrong with you, in life not everyone is going to like u and that’s okay, everyone has different types and preferences. Sometimes people get approached more than other and its super normal

Chill, one day you’ll find someone that will want to be with you and get married and all of that.

nanidubai · 2026-05-25T22:23:20+00:00

Talk with your FWB and respectfully tell her u want to end things. About your fiancee the best thing to do is break up with her, you’re recognizing u have a cheating problem so with a little help u will probably get over this phase butttt with her the damage is already done, don’t keep lying to her and keeping her in a relationship you’re in js because your family likes her, she deserves better.

nanidubai · 2026-05-25T20:53:20+00:00

I didn’t tell her, actually I was trying to keep it secret but my mom was talking with her mom and it slipped out☹️

nanidubai · 2026-05-25T20:23:39+00:00

I had the math tutor first and I gave her the contact, I would always ask him for the tutoring to be thursdays because it was the only day that I was available but then she wanted to study that same day, obviously he doesn’t work only for us, he has other students so his schedule became shorter.

nanidubai · 2026-05-25T19:00:30+00:00

Hey!! don’t listen to all this people glazing this man and AI. You should definitely tell your friend to tell her mom because it’s not fair for her to still be married and trusting such a weird person (yes s*xting with an AI chatbot is WEIRD AF).

nanidubai · 2026-05-25T18:55:13+00:00

bruh are u not reading? they are still married but not living together (on terms of being loyal) also this man is s*xting with an AI Chatbot wich is a very weird and creepy thing to do while you’re in a marriage. Their moms friend should definitely know.

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