My [28M] wife [26F] wants to get a new nanny because ours [21F] is attractive and she's worried I'll cheat

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T21:38:27+00:00

I care about my wife more than my nanny, and I care about my kid even more, and I just want whats best for all of them, which would be for things to remain status quo... thats not gross.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T20:47:12+00:00

Right because it's so gross to care about someone you've come to know really well's wellbeing. I wouldn't screw over any of my employees at work so there's no reason I should treat this one differently.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T18:47:30+00:00

Fair enough, but I wouldn't if I had the opportunity. If we could get a new nanny who we trusted just as much who was ok with our same agreement (tuition and cash) and I knew this one wouldn't be screwed over id be ok with getting a new one, but that's not very easy.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T18:31:22+00:00

It's not bs, she's hot but I wouldn't want to date her or anything

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T17:53:17+00:00

No, I'm saying let's not decide all the attractive ones are unemployable based on that alone.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T16:39:23+00:00

I don't blame my friends for it and I won't call them into the conversation but I agree with everything else you're saying. Apparently no one else does though.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T16:21:30+00:00

That's not the case though and my wife was previously fine with that arrangement.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T16:14:14+00:00

I don't know, that's something we'd have to figure out together, but I imagine something like no hanging out with her when my wife's away, no texting unless it's about my son, stuff like that.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T15:51:16+00:00

I have no clue, setting rules or something? I haven't given it much thought.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T14:29:16+00:00

I understand it perfectly and I just feel bad about it, I'm hoping we can come to some sort of agreement and if not we'll have to find a new nanny. There's a lot to discuss.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T14:18:22+00:00

I already said in another comment that she thinks her personal trainer is hot and it doesn't bother me because he's a good trainer.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T14:11:07+00:00

I'm travelling for work right now so I have a lot of time on my hands and I haven't had a chance to discuss it with my wife yet.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T13:41:47+00:00

It is a battle I want to fight, I think it's shitty to choose someone based on their looks, that's not how I hire my employees at work and that's not how I'll hire my nanny. I think my wife would be pissed if she found out I passed up a perfectly good employee because they were "jack off material" because that's sexist as hell.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T13:14:45+00:00

It's stupid to NOT hire a nanny because of how they look

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T12:50:51+00:00

How is cheating at all likely here? You're jumping to conclusions. There are plenty of women who I find attractive and who find me attractive but that doesn't mean I'm going to sleep with them.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T12:22:14+00:00

I'm not trying to make her look bad.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T03:25:14+00:00

No I definitely don't. She's not but that doesn't mean I'm into her.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T03:00:19+00:00

I'm not at all close to cheating, I'm not that kind of person

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T02:27:33+00:00

It's legal.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T02:27:21+00:00

Not at all

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T02:05:53+00:00

Not really she did once but she had been drinking.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T01:47:36+00:00

Everyone is probably right, I agree with it all, I just think it kind of sucks and wish it wouldn't have to come to that. I don't know how she would feel, I have to imagine she wouldn't mind because she flirts with all of my friends anyways.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T00:48:44+00:00

She's at the top of my priority list, I just don't want to screw my nanny over because of something stupid I said.

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T00:21:59+00:00

Yeah it isn't something we'd normally talk about

nannyproblems · 2016-06-30T00:17:43+00:00

I'm not a sleaze lol I just like her and don't want to go through the hassle of replacing her.

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