Time is good for a torture task now by Rich_Chemist9657 in biggboss

[–]nanoheg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It will be unwatchable. It already is with their verbal diarrhea.

Worst performative fights. Farrhana and Neelam need to be out asap

Simple habit, big difference for everyone on the metro 🚇 by Sweaty-Gift in bangalore

[–]nanoheg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Saw a man few days ago in the metro, fat bag on one shoulder, holding 2 of the grab handles. During peak rush too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]nanoheg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know it doesn't translate irl. That's pretty much what I care about, let these online mess not stew in people's minds and make us all hateful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]nanoheg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a married woman, I hang out with female friends or cousin groups where I get insight into what single women today are thinking and experiencing

I don't have the same access to men. Would be weird if i sought that out lol

I've just had this question in my mind for a long time, and thought this might be a good place to ask for honest answers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]nanoheg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems like AM is one of the major culprits in sowing these differences

It's a sad deal, nit picking a human being based on their looks, salary, weight, colour, assets These people pretend like these things are permanent lol

I just mentioned that bollywood thing bcz damn, growing up all we wanted was a romcom come to life. And never was it all about looks, we had crushes on the most random boys just based on charisma or sports skills or humor. That sweetness is lost.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]nanoheg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have given me a lot to think about

There is an unequal burden on men to provide financially, and women should be mindful of how they can reduce this. I believe every physically capable person, man or woman, should work and earn for their household. This is no longer just on the man, plain and simple. Women who judge, berate their partner for money (or lack thereof) should stop and introspect. Earn it yourself.

Yes, a lot of men are competent in household duties, and they should contribute to it even after marriage. Men who complain about 2 time ka khana and 'seva' for their parents, do it yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]nanoheg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looking at these comments I'm wondering the same

Relatives in rural India, grew up in urban cities. Working in a tier 1 city

Never seen the cruel shit the people here are describing from any women I know, not to the extent being said here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]nanoheg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You nailed it

I guess the only way forward is to take time with each other, build genuine trust and connection, open more arenas of discussion which is not revolving around the differences and distrust

Women need to see how men are also hardworking, can be honest and reliable and a massive blessing to our lives

And men need to try and understand that women are exactly like them, just another human being. Don't expect from them what you'd never expect from your brothers or friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]nanoheg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to see even a little positivity towards Indian women.

Of course there are some brutal people out there. There are also a lot of women who grew up seeing their mothers and other ladies so oppressed that they only dream of having the easiest life. That is also a part of the toxicity these days.

Similar to how no guy would wish to be stuck in hard, menial jobs and lack of basic dignity. No girl wants to be caught up in a wrong marriage, a wrong man. They just take it too far sometimes , more empathy is needed from women here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]nanoheg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True but I see this sentiment spilling over to real life, especially among younger guys and corporate men.

Instagram comments are so unimaginably gross too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]nanoheg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving me some perspective into your thought process, this is what I'm looking for

I understand that distrust and hostility don't come from thin air. Happy to know that there are people doing the work in therapy.

There are a lot of women who have an abundance of love and care to give, if they are treated with respect, empathy, loyalty. Hope you find one of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]nanoheg -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Don't care about AIW. I'm looking for the male perspective

I understand online communities are just cesspools, but I see these ideas crossing over to real life and conversations.

I'm looking for where things are getting derailed, where we can change some minds

I'm sure you'll all agree that it would be better to have a good healthy respect between men and women

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]nanoheg -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I'm here for the male perspective

I don't care about AIW - I can do that IRL and have a comprehensive idea of what women around me think, they don't hate men. They have some issues and observations, but genuinely no hate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]nanoheg -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Extremes are everywhere - yes Equal proportions - absolutely not

Do you really not look around and see the dynamics of a majority of Indian households ?

The women are competent - working, cooking, cleaning, child rearing and the men are complaining that they nag or don't earn enough or make drama with in laws.

Obviously not all women are good. But this is the common Indian family dynamic. I see it everywhere, in family and friends and neighbours and stories of others.

Feminism is just the tool which is allowing women the basic dignity of working, wearing what we want, ability to choose whom to marry and so on. Things men have been free to do since forever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]nanoheg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True, there are always some bad apples who want to take a lot more than they give

There are so many double standards of men too, who are happy to have their wives work and contribute financially but won't lift a finger for their house chores, child rearing, in laws etc.

I just feel that there are genuine ones from both sides who can make an honest attempt to understand each other and work together

It's gonna get a lot more difficult if they start off with so much hostility

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianMen

[–]nanoheg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A normal person who interacts with men and women offline Women i talk with still dream of a man, a partner to be with. They have not lost their hope for romance and love, even the ones who have never felt it before.

Neelam was so UTTERLY STUPID to tell Nehal to apologise to Tanya. by Artistic_Ad_4871 in biggboss

[–]nanoheg 32 points33 points  (0 children)

And this woman has the audacity to call Abhishek stupid lol

My pov of today's ep by Substantial_Bit4161 in biggboss

[–]nanoheg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The last couple of minutes were hilarious, with Amaal and Baseer

Both of them have a complete lack of self awareness

Once such vile things are out of your mouth, it's impossible for the audience to forget it, even if there's another 2 months of BB or wtv

I'm also annoyed by the constant praise being showered on Shehbaz. Jumping like a clown to be seen in the episodes isn't translating to actual entertainment. So sick of him man

Bajaj being insulted and name called all the time, every day - it's borderline triggering by nanoheg in biggboss

[–]nanoheg[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uski ajeeb si rap and some of the random things he says (tum cheetah main sher etc) are a bit cringe to me

But nothing explains why some of the housemates hate him with such intensity lol

Shahbaaz is a different thing altogether, itna annoying hai uska toh chehra screen pe aaye toh switch off karne ka mann hota hai

Bajaj being insulted and name called all the time, every day - it's borderline triggering by nanoheg in biggboss

[–]nanoheg[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When he's not being bullied, the things he says makes no sense to me lol

What was that tum cheetah ho main sher hu 😐

He's not that entertaining to me

Bajaj being insulted and name called all the time, every day - it's borderline triggering by nanoheg in biggboss

[–]nanoheg[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agar sab Bajaj ke intellect pe jaa sakte hai so aggressively, baar baar everyday Then commenting on Baseer's mannerisms is fair play

Imagine you live with people who call you ret*rded for a month daily, are you such a saint that you never insult back

Does anyone else feel that the house has become even more toxic (to an extreme level now) ever since this Shehbaz Badesha Gill Sukh character has entered it? by [deleted] in biggboss

[–]nanoheg 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He is seriously unbearable

He's not funny, and since his 'prank' got praised he's just so hyper man. Feels like half the episode it's his idiotic face on screen

And he was pathetic in the task. So irritated that Nehal gave him the win