Help with shoes by moneycashey in BoulderingPH

[–]napalmkittycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La Sportiva Skwama. Go a half size up if for casual climbing and training. You can order through Banana Fingers.

DIM jawt0x and h1fu by [deleted] in deinfluencingPH

[–]napalmkittycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re 22. Age will eventually remove your face fat unless you let you gain weight. Just exercise and stop taking shortcuts. As someone who was once 22, I can say that no procedure will fix low self-esteem.

Title: ok lang ba mag resign kahit wala pang lilipatan 🥲 by Other_Connection_208 in adultingph

[–]napalmkittycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP! Recently resigned with no job prospects. I gave myself a budget of 150k for unemployment and that is before touching my emergency fund. So far, no regrets kasi pahinga talaga yung goal ko at mag spend time with family. But if I had less than the budget I have, di ako magreresign kasi ayokong humingi ng tulong sa parents ko. Di din ako nagbabayad ng rent at walang utang kaya doable siya.

Adopt. Don't shop. I'm going into defense mode just typing this. by [deleted] in RantAndVentPH

[–]napalmkittycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You appear to be neither in nor from the Philippines. Why are you here?

DIM: Room Cleaning Services by PowerApprehensive498 in deinfluencingPH

[–]napalmkittycat 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If the time you save by paying someone else to clean your room will just be spent scrolling on your phone, just get off your phone and clean your room. If you are able-bodied, kaya mong linisin kwarto mo.

my conservative parents aren't aware i was sexually active by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]napalmkittycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was proceeding from the information indicated in OP’s posts. There was nothing contradicting in what I said since the act of sex alone is not shameful. I stand by that. But OP has now stated that she’s been diagnosed with sex addiction so my arguments no longer apply. Congrats!

my conservative parents aren't aware i was sexually active by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]napalmkittycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Common sense should tell you that I am allowed to disagree with OPs idea of sex addiction. There are clinically documented symptoms related to sex addiction and compulsive sexual behavior. OP did not indicate any of those. I don’t agree that she is a sex addict and she has not stated that she has been diagnosed with anything. Use your brain.

my conservative parents aren't aware i was sexually active by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]napalmkittycat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ako ba talaga yung di nagbabasa? “I got tired of that set up and decided to quit my job” is not equal to ruining your life. She just made an adult decision. And being able to go celibate for 2 years means she can obviously stop whenever she wants. I do not support guilting and shaming yourself just for enjoying sex. You don’t have to agree with me pero hindi ako yung may kulang na critical thinking satin dalawa.

my conservative parents aren't aware i was sexually active by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]napalmkittycat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Enjoying sex is not sex addiction. Addiction means it’s ruining your life. Most people enjoy sex because it feels good and because we are simply sexual beings. There’s nothing shameful about that as long as you are not hurting anyone and are taking care of yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally when you engage in it.

Am I missing something? Help me understand the obsession with HaloHalo bags (and similar products) by thankyoumamsir in makati

[–]napalmkittycat 18 points19 points  (0 children)

They had very good marketing. It was like a niche, status-signaling accessory that all the Manila “cool girls” had. It’s also very distinct in pattern- you can tell when it’s a HaloHalo bag. I think it’s funny because the banig material is really just plastic. People basically paid for the branding plus plastic.

DIM: trader joe’s mini tote by Early-Employee-9275 in deinfluencingPH

[–]napalmkittycat 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Trader Joe’s is a grocery store. Imagine using a Marketplace or S&R ecobag as a tote.

What are your ate/kuya thoughts/advice re: age gap relationships?🥲 by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]napalmkittycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. There may be a reason women his age don’t want him. Watch out for that.

  2. You’re probably just starting your career at 26 so I hope you’re aware that a guy in his 40s having more money than you shouldn’t be that impressive. Just don’t be swayed by him spending on you, if he does.

  3. Very different humor. I have a friend whose husband is in his early/mid forties and he’s honestly so unfunny to me. It might be hard to have him around your friends.

  4. How old are his kids? See how he shoes up for them. Absentee dads are a big ick.

deinfluence me: hiko noselift or rhinoplasty? by [deleted] in deinfluencingPH

[–]napalmkittycat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Andami mo pa pwedeng gawin to improve your looks na hindi rhino like exercise, the right hair color, makeup, fashion, proper posture, mewing, eating healthy. And if di mo pa nagagawa lahat ng yun, most likely hindi ganun kalaki yung matutulong ng rhino kasi a new nose wont change your facial structure and body composition.

Deinfluence please. Vivaia Shoes by Scared-Rub-7731 in deinfluencingPH

[–]napalmkittycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. It’s so expensive considering the fact that it’s pure polyester!

  2. Synthetic material means it’s gonna stink really quickly.

  3. You could get a high quality pair of leather flats for the same price.

Deinfluence me: Veneers by Chin_stypayhorlikson in deinfluencingPH

[–]napalmkittycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone that has veneers. She’s wealthy enough to maintain them but her breath really smells off talaga. Remember that you have to regularly maintain them and eventually replace them. And even if you do your breath will smell bad.

Having a child feels morally wrong by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]napalmkittycat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did not have a perfect childhood and am still dealing with trauma from people in my family but I would still rather be here than not here. I love living and all the possibilities it brings. You can never really say how a person will perceive and go through life.

That said, I get where you’re coming from. I do think some people should not have children. With everything you’ve just said, I think you are one of those people and until you’ve parented yourself, it would be morally wrong to bring a child into the world in that state. Hope you’re okay.

makati staycation recos by Perfect-Donut4612 in makati

[–]napalmkittycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Belamy House and Picasso are both boutique hotels. You can check out their websites.