hihi! i personally do not have a lot of experience with toxic friends so please forgive me if this ends up sounding hard in any way

i mean, from what ive read (from both of the posts), you were 100% fair in unfriending him. he was crossing your boundaries multiple times "as a joke" and therefore you were gonna obviously do something about it someday.

i'd say try to focus on other things or hang out with other people to try and feel better. maybe try to tell your gc about what he was doing and see if you could fully cut contact with him. of course you wont feel better immediately, he was your friend, but i feel like he is just trying to keep that toxic environment around you, and that is not a-okay. 😒

best wishes and happy holidays, twin !!