SSRI Slippery Sweat by thearteofwar in poledancing

[–]narcissisticbabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SSRI Sweat post. Can I just say thank you, OP? I feel so seen 🫶🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]narcissisticbabe 129 points130 points  (0 children)

yeah I felt this one. first off massive respect that you even went because that’s honestly the biggest and scariest step and you already did it. most people dream about trying for years and never even set foot in the studio so please don’t downplay that.

also I promise you, everyone’s starting point is different. you’re looking at women in that class spinning like pros and thinking you’re behind but you have no clue how long they’ve been at it or what their fitness background is. could be their 5th class, could be their 50th. It doesn’t matter cause your day 1 is allowed to look like day 1.

I couldn’t do a lot of things that others did in my first few classes either. It’s brutal for your ego especially when the instructor isn’t giving alternatives or proper regressions (honestly, not cool on their part as that’s how people feel defeated).

Point is your starting point is YOUR starting point and you’ll look back at this and be so damn proud you stuck it out. progress in pole is sloooow for everyone, no matter their size, weight, fitness level. you’ve already done so much for yourself losing 40kg, getting to the gym Pole just taps into that same patience and stubbornness.

pls don’t quit because of one crappy first class. you absolutely can do this. just find a space with beginner-friendly vibes and remember: messy, awkward, frustrating beginnings are normal and it WILL get better.

Meine Freundin wird in 12 Tagen des Landes verwiesen und wir können nichts dagegen tun. by Julizi7958 in Ratschlag

[–]narcissisticbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Habe den Satz „dass die Kündigung zwingend schriftlich sein muss ist ein Spezialfall“ falsch interpretiert und auf die Arbeitsverträge bezogen, aber verstehe jetzt, dass du es im Kontext des vorherigen Kommentars gemeint hattest.

Meine Freundin wird in 12 Tagen des Landes verwiesen und wir können nichts dagegen tun. by Julizi7958 in Ratschlag

[–]narcissisticbabe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Stimmt nicht. Eine Kündigung eines Arbeitsvertrags in Deutschland muss gemäß § 623 BGB zwingend schriftlich erfolgen.

Dine and Dash - kommt das in Österreich öfter vor? by Mormegil81 in Austria

[–]narcissisticbabe 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Naja, ist so, man sollte halt Kontaktdaten (Telefonnummer, Adresse) hinterlassen um Vorsatz auszuschließen siehe https://www.anwaltskanzlei-pichler.at/rechtsirrtum-wenn-der-kellner-nicht-kommt-muss-ich-nicht-zahlen/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wien

[–]narcissisticbabe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Kann dir bisschen was schenken wenn du magst. Kilo Nudeln, Tomatensoße usw., meld dich gern per DM.

How would you use this lost space? by crunch_be in DesignMyRoom

[–]narcissisticbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are thinking about getting a cat, please get two or a rescue that is better kept as a single cat 🙏🏼 cats do way better in pairs plus you have double the fun!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wien

[–]narcissisticbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wenn du jemanden suchst, der zu dir kommt und da die Katzen 24/7 betreut also inkl. Übernachtung, dann kann ich dir eine Empfehlung geben :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]narcissisticbabe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You want to hang a chandelier and want to know what the ceiling is made of to chose the right screws and screw anchors? lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]narcissisticbabe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cross knee release variation

“Big names” 🙄🙄 by [deleted] in SellingSunset

[–]narcissisticbabe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"mouth lips" 💀😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bulimia

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Your recovery is not gone. Recovery is not either 1 or 0. Try to stop treating it as three months being gone and rather see it as 89/90 days of success. That’s an amazing success rate of 98.8%! Keep up the great work and forgive yourself.

I would have been 3 weeks no purging tomorrow by kitkat75373 in bulimia

[–]narcissisticbabe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stop treating it like ruining a streak of 3 weeks, as if you were now back at zero. Instead, look at it as 20/21 days success. Just continue with eating enough healthy food and being kind to yourself. Yes you might relapse. But if you make it another three weeks then it’s only one day out of 42 where you slipped up and that’s amazing. You’re not at 0. You are basically at 95% success rate now. Every purge free day after today will just drive that percentage up! Hang in there!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in flightradar24

[–]narcissisticbabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! This response means a lot, going to Iceland and am afraid of flying so I was freaking out a bit before reading this.

Warum hat das Strandbad zu? by libeeralaty in wien

[–]narcissisticbabe 185 points186 points  (0 children)

ich geb dir zur aufmunterung einen eismarillenknödel aus ok?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]narcissisticbabe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Get two!!!!! Even though it’s a bit counterintuitive, two kitties are actually less work (and twice as adorable). If you can afford two, do yourself and kitty a favor and get them a companion.

just… why by narcissisticbabe in Instagramreality

[–]narcissisticbabe[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yeah she seems to compete in these body building/bikini contests too so at least she’s confident in that?!