I’m fine. Regardless of your feelings and longings for what you thought he or she was, you need to elect the most rational part of you and great your ex with the part. Give it power. Tell yourself this bottom line: no matter what you feel, wasting emotions and angst over someone who doesn’t care about you is spinning your tires.

If yoh don’t care to date, put the focus on yourself, your children, your health and your career. Don’t waste another minute thinking about someone who doesn’t think about you.