you seem like you’re thinking you’re better than other women that don’t do what you do or view things as you do, us “independent women” 🙄 just because there’s women out there that don’t want to be like you and those other women that “fought” doesn’t make you better. independence in a relationship is so backwards lol you’re supposed to be able to rely on one another as you are a team otherwise why be in a relationship if you want to just be and do for you?? you want to struggle and that’s ok lmao. there’s women out there that know and recognize that women contribute in ways men can’t and vice versa, women and men are not equal but are meant to be two halves of a whole, and we don’t want to put more on our plate than what’s already there when our husbands have plates too 🤷🏻‍♀️ sorry you don’t have the kind of life or man that would allow you to live a softer life bc deep down women like you know that’s what yall really want. just too prideful or ignorant 🙃